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LinaBham

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #30 on: 02 December 2019, 05:54:05 pm »
I feel so lucky and so blessed, because I have no problems to cum with clients ;) I am not talking about guys, who just come for oral or other activity to pleasure themselves, but full GFE bookings..Even if I see that I will not cum because of their lack of attention to the right spots, if I am in the right mood, I just do it myself and they love to watch and or feel that yes she came. Never in my life faked an orgasm. It happens, or it doesn’t happen and clients usually ok if not. I used to be shy before to fully get off with some of them, not anymore:) why not have money and pleasure at once hehe...Cumming with clients makes me motivated in business too, because what other job pays off as good and ... gives you some pleasure? x

EnglishAmy40

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #31 on: 04 December 2019, 06:40:17 pm »
I'm usually sorting out my bills in my head when shagging a client. I also tell them I don't orgasm as that is too personal for me. I'm not faking it - no one gets to see my orgasm face even faked. Only get near when loved up with someone - and even then it's difficult for me.
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #32 on: 05 December 2019, 09:43:47 am »
Would rather use my vibrator than fuck for free.  :angel:
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #33 on: 10 May 2020, 08:22:29 pm »
I get enjoyment out of both kinds of sex

If I’m honest properly more enjoyment out of paid sex as I don’t accept all booking and tend to only accept booking with men who I think I have more off a connection with

I currently don’t have a partner and I’ve parked my AW profile, must admit that I’m really missing the touch of a man
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #34 on: 11 May 2020, 10:38:16 am »
I'm usually sorting out my bills in my head when shagging a client. I also tell them I don't orgasm as that is too personal for me. I'm not faking it - no one gets to see my orgasm face even faked. Only get near when loved up with someone - and even then it's difficult for me.

I was working my shopping list the other day.  ;D

EnglishAmy40

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #35 on: 11 May 2020, 10:46:10 am »
I was working my shopping list the other day.  ;D

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #36 on: 19 May 2020, 01:25:56 am »
My sex drive is dead too. I'm worried that sex work ruined it and I'll never get it back.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #37 on: 19 May 2020, 09:12:17 am »
I love casual sex and dislike monogamous relationships  (and am yet to find someone who can genuinely handle an open relationship) so this job is perfect for me. I get my oats without having to get involved with them. I think sex with strangers is a bit of a fetish of mine. That's why I started escorting for the thrill.
The money is a bonus too but I dont need much to live a good life so I appreciate the freedom to explore my other passions that only having to work a couple of days a week gives me.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #38 on: 19 May 2020, 01:32:43 pm »
I see the sex as work. I don't get much out of it personally but it also doesn't bother me too much most the time.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #39 on: 09 June 2020, 04:10:21 pm »
Early 20s here, yes I have zero sexual feelings and interest in guys who pay me for it, only feel arousal with the boyfriend who I actually chose and feel attraction to. Apart from that, no interest in sex or other guys.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #40 on: 09 June 2020, 04:17:51 pm »
Money.
Sex, good or bad is still just sex. Now money on the other hand never disappoints!  :D

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #41 on: 09 June 2020, 11:44:33 pm »
The Money is the main reason I do this job BUT I do also enjoy the sex, not with every client but I’ve enjoyed having sex with some clients More than I have with boyfriends in the past. I never particularly enjoyed sex before I started escorting, it was basically all for my partners, when they did try to pleasure me I always felt like they was just doing it as it was expected but really they wanted for it to be “their turn” but with clients I’m more turned on knowing they actually WANT for you to enjoy yourself, they are paying so they could just use the time all for their pleasure I find I can lay back and actually enjoy oral on me knowing they want to do it (some even love doing it) and it’s not just getting done as it’s expected in a relationship. I haven’t had sex outside of work since becoming an escort so I’m hoping my new attitude towards sex stays with me if/when I do have a relationship.
Thought I should add that before I started working I had never had an orgasm with a man only by myself but in the year and a half I’ve been an escort I’ve enjoyed myself quite a few times  ;D
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #42 on: 10 June 2020, 12:01:50 pm »
The Money is the main reason I do this job BUT I do also enjoy the sex, not with every client but I’ve enjoyed having sex with some clients More than I have with boyfriends in the past. I never particularly enjoyed sex before I started escorting, it was basically all for my partners, when they did try to pleasure me I always felt like they was just doing it as it was expected but really they wanted for it to be “their turn” but with clients I’m more turned on knowing they actually WANT for you to enjoy yourself, they are paying so they could just use the time all for their pleasure I find I can lay back and actually enjoy oral on me knowing they want to do it (some even love doing it) and it’s not just getting done as it’s expected in a relationship. I haven’t had sex outside of work since becoming an escort so I’m hoping my new attitude towards sex stays with me if/when I do have a relationship.
Thought I should add that before I started working I had never had an orgasm with a man only by myself but in the year and a half I’ve been an escort I’ve enjoyed myself quite a few times  ;D

This was me until 18 months in, now I know it can be achieved I can pass that on to partners including clients/punters.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #43 on: 12 June 2020, 01:16:31 am »
I don't think I'm as bothered as I used to be. Although some clients I can cum and enjoy myself with.

It's so much better when it's in my private life with someone I love or really like, although that rarely happens for me these days.
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #44 on: 12 June 2020, 12:58:42 pm »
clients I’m more turned on knowing they actually WANT for you to enjoy yourself, they are paying so they could just use the time all for their pleasure I find I can lay back and actually enjoy oral on me knowing they want to do it (some even love doing it)

So true and civvie girlfriends just don't believe it.  I love receiving oral and have a great range of pervy fantasies to use to make me orgasm.  using a blindfold really helps.   
However, like others have said, I don't really have the urge to have sex.  Haven't had an orgasm for months since lock down and I'm only just starting to think about it ( a few dreams).  Once I get going I really enjoy it and feel exhilarated afterwards...Just writing this is making me miss it!


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