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PleasureSales

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #15 on: 04 November 2019, 06:50:56 pm »
I've been an escort for nearly half my life now, so it's getting hard to compare but I do enjoy sex with most of my clients.  Earning money for my skills is a huge aphrodisiac for me though and I've gotten quite accustomed to having a lot of PIV in a day.   I feel normal at the end of the day, but if I go more than a day or two without working, my body certainly lets me know.   

My private sex life is much different, because I like to be taken care of and take it slow.  I am (almost) always interested.  We usually take care of each other in the morning when we both have lots of energy and before I start my regular work for the day.  That's almost always my favorite time, but some of my clients test that.

SW

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #16 on: 05 November 2019, 01:33:13 pm »
I'm the opposite, more interested in the sex than the money!   ;D I'm just a hornbag who gets off on sex with strangers. I think it's a fetish of mine! Also completely fascinated by other people's fetishes.
That's why I offer a kinky PSE service because I get well frustrated by the GFE hand holding and talking...😪😪

Porcelain

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #17 on: 05 November 2019, 03:26:50 pm »
Money.
Sex, good or bad is still just sex. Now money on the other hand never disappoints!  :D

Kescort

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #18 on: 05 November 2019, 08:07:55 pm »
I prefer sex for payment as when sex is for free to my mind it loses the thrill lol.

this is me. its part of the thrill.

Justine

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #19 on: 05 November 2019, 09:47:16 pm »
My work sex is my only sex and has been for such a long time. Not sure if or when that may change.  I used to have a lot of casual civvy sex many years past and I think I enjoyed the thrill of it more than the actual sex.

Same with paid sex, I enjoy it because I have just added to the coffers! I do not crave sex outside the job so suppose the answer is no I am not really interested in sex except for the money (at present anyway).

So many clients have asked me do I have loads of sex even when I am not working. I wink and tell them not to be nosy. It amuses me to think these men assume because I am a sex worker I must be horny 24/7 every day.  Not a chance.

China_Grl

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #20 on: 06 November 2019, 12:59:06 pm »
I keep my civvy sex and work sex seperated in my mind and heart. I enjoy both for different rewards.

Porcelain

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #21 on: 06 November 2019, 01:54:50 pm »
I keep my civvy sex and work sex seperated in my mind and heart. I enjoy both for different rewards.

I do the same and I find it to be very emotionally and mentally helpful.

SuperCheese

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #22 on: 06 November 2019, 09:46:54 pm »
I'm not particularly interested in sex. It's been worse since I've had the implant; I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

Emmaaa

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #23 on: 20 November 2019, 02:26:20 pm »
I thought the sex wouldn't be enjoyed while escorting because I am the opposite in my personal life.

Miss_Manc

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #24 on: 20 November 2019, 09:27:34 pm »
I have never in my whole life had an orgasm through penetration, and I have had a couple of orgasms through oral since I was 16, I am 34 now. I can only really come through wanking, so I don't see the point in adding another notch to my bedpost, I'm literally doing it for them because I get no pleasure out of it.
When I have a relationship, I'll fall in love etc and I will literally dread the part when we have sex because I always seem to get guys who want to have sex a lot, I fake all my orgasms with work and at home.
I'm single now and I love it, I've not had civvy sex in over a year.
There's no point not faking and trying to show them what to do, because I have tried that with a few people and it just doesn't work.
I really enjoy masturbating watching porn and having orgasms by myself though! I'd love to be able to come through sex. But I can't, so I don't bother.

SWgirl

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #25 on: 20 November 2019, 09:41:41 pm »
Whilst working the way I was (4 days a month cramming in as many as possible) I had no interest in sex outside of work. Now I’ve taken a step back and doing way less and only outcalls, I’m interested again. Funny how it goes but now I want casual sex and enjoy the fact I get to choose who with (as in looks) and be picky about it. It’s refreshing and reset my whole sex life.

SW

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #26 on: 21 November 2019, 10:21:59 am »
I always find the more sex I have, the more I want. Its like an alcoholic with booze I guess.
If I dont have any for ages, on a break etc then I can kind of forget about it and it doesnt bother me. Quite happy without it turns out, just cant masturbate because that makes me crave sex again!

Blondieblueeyes

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #27 on: 23 November 2019, 08:03:36 pm »
I am very dominant with clients and submissive with sexual partners out side of the job so for me the sex in both is completely different. I am not sure until I leave escorting how my sex drive would be. When you have a child a dog and a load of clients to see each week where is the time for a private sex life. I mainly participate in having sex for myself with long term fuck buddied when I’m out drinking which is also not very often.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #28 on: 25 November 2019, 11:50:41 am »
I'm not particularly interested in sex. It's been worse since I've had the implant; I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

A good reason for not using a hormone based method of birth control.

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #29 on: 01 December 2019, 09:30:38 am »
The only person I have sex with, when it isn't for money, is my partner. I still masturbate also, sometimes between bookings when I have got close but not actually cum. Eventhough my partner wouldn't mind me hooking up with someone else in civvy life, it just doesn't have any appeal to me. Like I could get paid for it, why give it away to someone I'm not in love with? And some sex I have with my clients is amazing.