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Snow Whitest

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #15 on: 06 November 2020, 07:17:47 pm »
The thing is, if they actually knew me, they'd never ask me out in a million years! It's amazing how many men are happy to overlook the mentalness for a pretty face?
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fallen angel

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #16 on: 06 November 2020, 10:59:35 pm »

I have a few 'smitten kittens' but none I would be remotely interested in a reationship with so I find the invention of a boyfriend very useful.

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #17 on: 07 November 2020, 08:35:09 am »
I had one book me twice a week for months years ago when I first started. He then started emailing me and when I didn't reply he took offence. I considered not seeing him again realising he was obviously in love with me.
The next time we met he said he was putting together all the pieces ready to leave his wife, had spoken to his solicitor so we could settle down and him take care of me!! He was in his late 50s, bald, fat, selfish natured, boring and wasn't attractive at all both physically and mentally.
When i refused and told him we had client / escort relationship he got so angry. Said how I had lead him on to believe otherwise - I didn't!!  And how I was just a money grabbing b**ch and how I was only after his money..... Err yes. That's what our job is.

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #18 on: 07 November 2020, 02:17:43 pm »
This has happened to me less than 5 times in 5 years. I've only tended to get it from younger guys. My main client base is 50+ (I'm in my 40s) and I think by that age they've mostly got the experience and sense that our relationship is transactional.

I do get asked a fair bit "Are you married/got a boyfriend then?" and I usually laugh and say "God no, what would I want one of those for?!"
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EnglishAmy40

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #19 on: 07 November 2020, 06:35:17 pm »
The thing is, if they actually knew me, they'd never ask me out in a million years! It's amazing how many men are happy to overlook the mentalness for a pretty face?

This is me exactly. If they knew the real me they'd absolutely run a mile. I'm the opposite of the bubbly, confident and fun person they get in bookings.

Harriet_Lille

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Re: How many clients have asked you out?
« Reply #20 on: 11 November 2020, 10:29:10 am »
Quite a few. They love the idea of it but it quickly would go south. For one thing they would no longer want you working, or at least would attempt to control how much you do and what you do
I tell them that I have a boyfriend. On occasion I've worn a wedding band.