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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Candy on 29 October 2010, 10:35:42 pm
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I'm curious of your stories.
How long you do this work , how long you plan doing it and why did you begin?
Kisses :)
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I have been escorting since jan2010
I started in the adult industry over 2.5 years ago (first actually with an online adult store). An accident left me unfit for work, i had too earn and came across the phone sex lines, wanted more money started webcams, wanted more money.. you get the idea lol
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First I started in polish brothels but in no one I was working longer than a few days cause of the pimps there. I tried my luck in Berlin with girlfriend but again pimps and drugs (had to escape alone in night in cold winter with no money and without speaking the german language). I moved to Holland with some people which knew the business and worked in red light district for a year and half but did not make much there, was really heavy work there - standing whole night in the window plus very bad drunk and drugged clients, most with cocaine. Then I started to work for escort agency but they paid very purely (in Holland if you don't work for yourself you won't make good money, agencies pay max 60 euro an hour). Then suddenly I learn the internet and put my add on the internet and since then I work for myself :D
End of the story :)
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I have done this job for about a year and a half. I started when I was 18, and purely because I was curious about the industry and have never looked back.
End of my story. :)
xx
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Hello,
Candy what a past,Im so glad you doing better now! xx
I started several years ago because i was broke & taking alot of sniff........IST agency i worked for was a disaster & a drug dealer(didnt know at time!!,so back on the coke...every job i did it went back to the agency for coke.Ended badly,clients where not much better........moved on,got clean worked for better proffesional agencies & now extremly happily work independantly for last 3 years.
I regret being so naive & stupid but not any more,i love my job & have total control of who i meet.Im certainly not ready to retire.
lol
gemma xx
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Wow some sad stories there ladies :'(
I hope you are all doing much better now!
I first worked when I was 17, I was leaving care and got put in a hostel with some older women who were all lovely but were either there coz they were domestic violence victims, alcoholics or druggies (they were all lovely)
A few of them talked of going the square to make money and being curious I asked whats that? At first they wouldn't tell me but I went on until they did and went on until they took me there!
It was Liverpool's red light area and it shit me up so much I never went again :o
Fast forward 2 years and I was at college and skint and a college mate asked did I want A sunday job in her Mum's massage parlour? I thought it was a massage place but it was a brothel! I did reception for a year then when I left college started working myself and did for 2 years then left when I got a "normal job"
I came back into the industry 3 years later but mainly did escorting for an agency of an evening until I stopped working again a year later.
I have worked in various parlours and flats for agencies too until 3 years ago when I went fully independant with an aw profile and my own site.
Now its nearly time for my to hang my skimpies up for good once I find myself a good job and this time there will be no coming back ;)
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I found a tenant of mine doing it when I was trying to sell a house. She had forgotten to tidy away her collapsible dungeon and the estate agent came round to do a block viewing!
I though she was an architect and had a chat with her. She was, and is, and worked from home, (my flat), twice a week and did some AW work on the side.
Though no more of it until I became single and, having a high sex drive and no outlet, thought - give it a go! No pics, basic profile and a very high rate in AW, I had 3 bookings in the first week as the newbie.
After dabbling a bit for 3 months I had some pics done and re-vamped the profile and never looked back - 2.5 years. Wish I had started younger.
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I've been doing it for 10 years now! My marriage broke down very suddenly. He took all our money from the joint bank account, the car, all his stuff and stopped paying the mortgage. After he left I also discovered he was having an affair with my then best friend. The house got repossessed and I needed money quickly. I was a civil servant at the time and earning rubbish money. I watched a documentary on telly about a girl who was a university lecturer and was escorting in the evenings. I did some digging and began working for a local agency. I then advertised on a site called UK Escorts where the guy who runs Northern Angels found me and asked me to join his site. Got my own website a few years later. Oh, and I gave my job up a civil servant about a year after I started escorting. I paid all the debts my ex had accrued very quickly and haven't looked back! He did me a favour in a round about way. I love my life!
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Gosh! I started around 10 years ago now!
Alot of these stories start with .....I split from my fella....... and mine is no different!
I worked in IT and was bored shitless, I split from my fella and literally walked out and left him everything and looked around and had not much to call my own.
I took out a loan to buy stuff to furnish a new flat and was struggling to make repayments, a very wonderful wonderful friend of mine loaned me 10k to consolidate all my various outgoings.
I had an email from a guy on a dating site asking if I was interested in purchasing his services, I said no but might be interested in working myself! Next thing I know we meet up and he agrees to be my pimp! He was good in getting me started and was able to pay off my friends loan very quickly for which I am eternally grateful!
Now I am in and out the business and as Amber also says I adore my life!
S x
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I first got in the industry after I answered an add on gumtree to make ?1000 a night or was it a week? because I did not have a pot to piss in around Dec 2007, while working in a clothing shop for ?5 per hour.
So I first ended up in a gentleman;s club as a "hostess" in central London which was always full of girls and the idea was to be paid ?50-?100 for chatting with the gentlemen after they bought you an ?99 and up bottle of champagne. That rarely happened as most of the guys just came in for beers >:(
Well the norm was after chat and champagne and negotiations the girl was to go with gentleman back to his hotel. Again that rarely happened even though girls were charging between ?400-500 for overnight.
I hardly ever closed a deal so I started to work in saunas from adds I found in the loot, went all over Manchester, Bristol, Birmingham and most districts on the London tube map!
While I was working in Bristol the receptionist of the place I then worked with advised me to go independent.
So I decided to move from my North London Studio into a central London apartment, really struggled and blew all my savings on my very expensive apartment and bills (as I really had a lot of dry spells with work) as it turned out "London was not the be all of escorting haven" so I packed and moved from London to outside of London since November last year and lets just say I have Lots and Lots of pans to piss in at the moment! ;D xx
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I was self-employed selling lingerie and clubwear which I'd started doing after being bored and unhappy working for a benefits agency (not telling which one and it wasn't my best thought out decision as I literaly walked out!) and I was really struggling. A friend showed me the AW site as a possible market for selling my stock. I'd always been curious about this line of work, so that coupled with financial need and here we are. Only just over 3 months, but havn't looked back and occassionally I even sell the odd pair of knickers! lol
When he showed me the site though, I was angry and fed up with him 'Why didn't you show me this before?'
'Cause with you, I never know how far you'll go!'
Err, not wrong was he! lol xxxx
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Quite a while ago I way doing a self-employed commission only job.
The work dried up and I got into a negative head-space
which is not good in direct sales.
For a long time, I had been very active in BDSM swinger & sex clubs
(really :o)
I hung around a lot with a well known fetish model.
One day said that I was clearly into sex with strangers,
E: So why not try escorting.
I said that it wasn't my thing, so she asked if a person in a club wanted to do some escort/client roll-play scene
would I. I said yes super kinky... Then she said
E: Imagine he wanted a really realistic scene so gave me a bundle of ?20's and said you can keep the money---how would you feel?
J: That would be neat
E: Er, thats what escorting is... ::) :P
{que penny falling from a great height}
I drew up a business plan:
do's & dont's
advertising
rates
outcalls, initially
Health & physical safety considerations
health checks
then did a few jobs.
Love it and figured I would be good for 2-3 months.
A loooooooooooooong time later,
and I now love this even more than when I started.
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I quit my full time job last May, to go to Ibiza for a few months, when i returned home i started doing adult photo shoots and some one mentioned adult work, i joined and haven't looked back. I really love escorting i used to lap dance but this suits me more x
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i have been working since 1999 that a lot of cock ive sucked
initially got into it to give my self and son a better life then realised that i liked it freedom good money
i havent been stupid with my money either im tighter than a scotsman when it comes to spending
money and will not spend a penny i stash loads and hate spending it apart from on my house holiday and car thats my vices
im not a shoe or handbag person in the least alhtough i do like nice watches and can spend a fortune on them easily
but i have put my son through one of the best private schools in bristol and the little fucker didnt want to go to a oprdinary six form college decided he wanted to stay on at his school so still paying the fee
just got to get him through uni now but it typical he starts as the fee go up to 9k a year i will fucking kill him if he drops out though after what i have spend on his education
when i retire i intend to remortage everthing to the hilt along with other half stuff as well and take the cash and were gonna fuck of somewhere hot and sunny and say fuck everthing and then i will write my story of a touring and whoring whore
or maybe just a book about the talking dick always thought that would be a funny film kind of like looks who talking apart from the fact that its a dick not a baby ( same thing really though )
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Hi Paris,
I like the touring and whoring thing lol :D when you will write a book it will be a bestseller I bet!
What do you say to your son that you doing?
xx
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how i got in this job,i was 29 years old with a 4 year old and a 1 year old,parter of ten years left me for some one else,i had no money no where to go and really down in my self,as he left me with 20 grand worth of debt all in my name bank loans and credit card we had had over the years,had to go bankrupt which was a night mare,i moved in with my mum&dad for a while,i was hard at time as i was used to my own home and so was my family,they helped me with kids and with money but i didnt want to sponge off them all my life,had a few part time jobs but couldnt stick with them felt lost and so alone at the time i just wanted to die some where,then one i woke up and thought fuck this i must get a grip iv got 2 kids to bring up who i loved dearly,i then put a ad in swindon paper phone never stopped ringing i was doing outcalls only as never had my own place,when i save the money i got my own place and done incalls when kids in school,as for kids dad he has never gave me a penny or not even asked to see them his lost not mine ,its not been easy but iv made it in life im happy my kids are 12 and 8 now and doing well at school and got loads of friends
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Oh my god where do i start.
Well i left home when i was fifteen and danced in the bars in soho,so you can say i was on the fringes of it then.
Then i worked for an agency in the late 90,s and started working for myself in 2,000 so ten years.
But it was a costly divorce and having to feed 4 small boys that made me do it full time.
And i do not regret any of it,well maybe spoiling the boys and do they appreciate it do they bollocks.
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hi everyone did many of you read in candys comments about how a become a escort please let me know if you did and your thoughts.im at home the the family tonigth work tomorrow i hope i get money its very tight in s
swindon at mo.i do have a few regulars to keep me going just about,one or two of them dont want sex just dom as luck as it as iv been out of order for two weeks due to been sterilised to weeks ago
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I did couple of "glam"photos for a magazine just after I turned 18.Then I think it was the adds in the newspaper looking for strippers,that caught my eye,so I started dancing.After a while I felt like I was doing something wrong or indecent and stopped.
However I remained curious about the whole business and guess I have always been quite sexual,so one day ended up as a hostess in Tokyo.After couple of months,found it very boring and started dancing again.Since then I have worked as a dancer off and on and picked up few customers from the club here and there,and was happy happy things were going.
Also got rid any quilt feelings for choosing "the easy way".Even if i choose the "easy way"why would it be wrong,if it makes me happy and I am not hurting anyone?
Now I have had it with dancing and changing for escort.I have just tried out working in a parlour for 3 weeks,which was quite nice place,but just wasn't busy enough for me to be able to make what I was happy with.
That was also supposed to be part of my touring and whoring plan,which has now slightly changed.I do really love the touring thing and it would suit me perfectly.
In my plan escort work will give me time and money to get started with my other business idea,that I have had for sometime now.I can also see myself enjoying the job and if I do,I don't see any reason to think about stopping soon.(http://)