how i got in this job,i was 29 years old with a 4 year old and a 1 year old,parter of ten years left me for some one else,i had no money no where to go and really down in my self,as he left me with 20 grand worth of debt all in my name bank loans and credit card we had had over the years,had to go bankrupt which was a night mare,i moved in with my mum&dad for a while,i was hard at time as i was used to my own home and so was my family,they helped me with kids and with money but i didnt want to sponge off them all my life,had a few part time jobs but couldnt stick with them felt lost and so alone at the time i just wanted to die some where,then one i woke up and thought fuck this i must get a grip iv got 2 kids to bring up who i loved dearly,i then put a ad in swindon paper phone never stopped ringing i was doing outcalls only as never had my own place,when i save the money i got my own place and done incalls when kids in school,as for kids dad he has never gave me a penny or not even asked to see them his lost not mine ,its not been easy but iv made it in life im happy my kids are 12 and 8 now and doing well at school and got loads of friends