just an update still none and got asked to sleep on the sofa tonight so he can sleep
Never a good sign. The 'you would quit being paid to cheat on me if you really loved me'' lecture won't be long now. That man is not okay with your job and he will eventually give you the ultimatum 'choose him or the job' it's a horrible situation to be in, believe me I know from past experience.
A man that truly accepts your job will cuddle up with you after you have had a long day without expecting sex because your job makes him so horny and fall asleep with you. They will treat you no differently than if you have been slaving away in the corporate world all day.
In short it will be just a JOB to him and the logistics/semantics won't mean fuck all.