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carachameleon

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #15 on: 21 July 2015, 09:36:35 am »
A month ago. Before that, once in 2 years. I have no desire for non compensated sex.

roseanna

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #16 on: 21 July 2015, 10:27:19 am »
A month ago. Before that, once in 2 years. I have no desire for non compensated sex.

Nor me, it gets too complicated. I'm coming up to two years and I've more or less decided there's no need because I don't miss it in the slightest.


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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #17 on: 21 July 2015, 11:05:00 am »
2 years, five months.  I try not to think about it.

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #18 on: 21 July 2015, 11:20:17 am »
About 3 years for me. A divorce and also having zero interest in renewing a romantic love life. I'm much happier being single.

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #19 on: 21 July 2015, 11:35:42 am »
A week ago. Ussually I go months just because BF has low sex drive. Don't have the courage to find a new fuck buddy as everyone thinks my job is weird and anyone who i'd want to hook up with knows and probabley assumes i'm riddled so I just don't have fuck buddys these days. Besides i'd much prefer a female fuck buddy, I'm sure I get enough men.

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #20 on: 21 July 2015, 11:53:44 am »
6 months.

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #21 on: 21 July 2015, 12:04:00 pm »
A good six months. I just have no energy to chat someone up etc. When you do it for a living it's suddenly not so much fun :(

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #22 on: 21 July 2015, 12:23:43 pm »
All the time, from my boyfriend  :D
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #23 on: 21 July 2015, 01:04:04 pm »
I have a BF who works away a lot, so when he's around we're at it like rabbits, but when he's not here I dont miss it at all. Not sure how keen I'd be if he were here all the time though ;)

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #24 on: 21 July 2015, 01:10:25 pm »
Reading this is quite interesting, to hear so many of you say you don't miss it/could easily go without it etc. I've only been working since September/consistently since April, when would you say this thing of "not missing it" starts? I would be quite sad if I started to lose my passion and desire for "real sex". I totally don't see work as the same thing at all, even when I enjoy it. I still crave untimed intimacy where I can tell my partner exactly what to do to me because I'm not the one getting paid, and them usually being a similar age to me is really very nice! Maybe this feeling is contingent on how much you separate work sex and casual/romantic sex? Or maybe it's because I'm just a horny teenager. ;D

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #25 on: 21 July 2015, 01:38:22 pm »
......I would be quite sad if I started to lose my passion and desire for "real sex". I totally don't see work as the same thing at all, even when I enjoy it. I still crave untimed intimacy where I can tell my partner exactly what to do to me because I'm not the one getting paid, and them usually being a similar age to me is really very nice! ...............


We all have different experiences...
I don't feel I lost an interest in 'real sex'.
'Real sex' & intimacy with short or long term
partners was never high on my agenda.
I specifically enjoy sex with strangers.
 
If anything, I feel I've gained a hidden resource of hot
males, as civvy guys never held my interest.

Clients being a lot younger than me make it all the
more electric.....maybe I'm a horny, perverted, age-gap MILF lol


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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #26 on: 21 July 2015, 01:54:13 pm »
This morning :)

Sex is very important to me in private life, if I don't have it for a while, I get very angry and want to break things lol

To me work does not really represent anything meaningful and fulfilling in terms of sex, and although it can be pleasurable on occasion, I forget all about it the minute they're out the door! If I approach the bookings with zero expectations of sexual gratification, then there's no chance of getting frustrated either, and helps me stay sane for sure.
Yes, I'd risk it for a biscuit, as I said, you know me.

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #27 on: 21 July 2015, 02:02:21 pm »
i had sex yesterday if you count my boyfriend sticking it in coming then thats it
Never regret anything because at one point it was what you always wanted

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #28 on: 21 July 2015, 04:25:22 pm »
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cheesypeas

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Re: How long has it been since you last had sex in your personal life?
« Reply #29 on: 21 July 2015, 04:26:24 pm »
Around 4 months ago.
I wish he paid haha!...

lol Seraphine ;D
I think that every time.
Did I use my Oyster Card for this!
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