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Petlover29

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Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« on: 01 February 2022, 01:37:10 pm »
I just had a client try and book me who I blocked as soon as he left.. he was horrible for me to deal with and I thought never again.. he went well over his time and just not the right client for me..

Today he has text me off a different number and sent me a message on aw trying to be a diff person.. once I did my screening with him..   he admitted to me he changed his number.. I instantly knew this was odd so I asked him has he changed his number due to not being able to get hold of me. He replied saying he wanted to phone me to talk about it... I explained sorry but you been blocked meaning I don’t want to see you again.. he even made an adultwork account (no feedback)  In order to try and trick me into a booking.. if it wasn’t for me getting onto it was him who I blocked, I know he would have just turned up..

if I was a man and I knew a woman had blocked me, I wouldn’t dream of wanting to book her again… 
What up with these men.. plenty of service providers out there.. simply move on.

In the past if I don’t want to see someone again I have always blocked without explanation.. I’m wondering now if I should be honest and tell them after the booking to avoid this situation happening again.




« Last Edit: 01 February 2022, 02:27:23 pm by Petlover29 »

Jadine

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #1 on: 01 February 2022, 02:30:49 pm »
I have blocked people on aw for  loads of reasons  then they  have slyly come to me where I am on other sites emailing or ringing different usernames   and told me after they  finished buisness that they had been blocked, think they will always get around seeing you no matter if you don't want to see them .

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #2 on: 01 February 2022, 02:53:22 pm »
I've had loads recently who I blocked ages ago trying to call. I've even had some I told never to call again and in one case threw out before I took the cash keep calling. I think I only ever had one I had blocked and told not to call again who tried it on with a new number. Actually, no. I think there may have been another who tried it on via one site I advertise on. I suspect this because of the timing of one one call from a blocked number. I don't want to spend time worrying or wondering now and just put it down to ego. Maybe they didn't realise they were being jerks or maybe their mask slipped. I don't know. They have one chance and if they blow it they are gone. Even if they area client I have seen and who may have been a regular I'm not investing time in explaining because this is emotional labour I'm not paid to manage. They get blocked the same and eventually get the message.

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #3 on: 01 February 2022, 02:55:31 pm »
Yep, I've had this before. Both guys that I've turned down before seeing for whatever reason and guys I've blocked after a visit who then contact you via a different number. It freaks me out. Last summer I was saying no to anyone without feedback because one guy who kept creating new AW accounts kept trying to trick me into seeing him, and the "AKA' didn't always come up straight away. I advertise my number now but I have been caught out before and made to feel uncomfortable. My advice, stick it in CE and list the other number as well. It's creepy stalking behaviour. I threaten them with police and section 2 of the harrassment act if they keep doing it.

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #4 on: 01 February 2022, 03:07:34 pm »
I've had a few emails in the past after I've blocked them saying 'oh I can't get hold of you, what have I done to upset you?' I find this equally as creepy and ignore them. Like you say - just move on. Plenty of others available. 

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #5 on: 01 February 2022, 03:42:13 pm »
I've had this as well, not with clients i've actually seen, but with guys i've refused to see that can't take a hint. I find it quite easy to tell as they always use the same writing style as before, and don't change their behaviour that puts me off them in the first place!

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #6 on: 01 February 2022, 04:18:03 pm »
In the past if I don’t want to see someone again I have always blocked without explanation.. I’m wondering now if I should be honest and tell them after the booking to avoid this situation happening again.

It's for this reason that I prefer to tell them I won't see them again, if they try to book again. I give any old excuse, like you remind me of my uncle or whatnot. It means there's no ambiguity should they show up again.

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #7 on: 01 February 2022, 05:23:30 pm »
It's for this reason that I prefer to tell them I won't see them again, if they try to book again. I give any old excuse, like you remind me of my uncle or whatnot. It means there's no ambiguity should they show up again.

Do you ever have any issues from telling them? For me there have been a few guys I've not been sure about on 1st meeting but after 2nd meeting they've made my skin crawl. Also some regs I've sacked off for pushing boundaries

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #8 on: 01 February 2022, 05:29:30 pm »
Do you ever have any issues from telling them? For me there have been a few guys I've not been sure about on 1st meeting but after 2nd meeting they've made my skin crawl. Also some regs I've sacked off for pushing boundaries

Generallly I don't give reasons. I block & forget. Have not had guys trying from different numbers but from the sound of it...it's not that unusual!

In a blue moon I tell them 'don't call me again' as they leave. One recent exception I gave him a reason so he could run and fuck off before I got hardcore angry ....he was a chimp who complained from the moment he stepped in about the the size of the apartment and numerous stuff. I told him to get up, put his clothes on and leave cause you've moaned the whole session. I didn't bother to finish him off and chucked his shoes out.

I'm not afraid of clients.

My feels are my job isn't to give them valuable personal evaluation to enable them to be experts at hoodwinking the next unsuspecting SW they ring.
I want them to stay obnoxious and shitty so they don't get bookings.
« Last Edit: 01 February 2022, 06:09:44 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #9 on: 01 February 2022, 05:52:52 pm »


I want them to stay obnoxious and shitty so they don't get bookings.

Love this!!!

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #10 on: 01 February 2022, 05:53:28 pm »
haha  MG ;D
« Last Edit: 01 February 2022, 05:57:35 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #11 on: 02 February 2022, 03:51:06 am »
I've had a few emails in the past after I've blocked them saying 'oh I can't get hold of you, what have I done to upset you?' I find this equally as creepy and ignore them. Like you say - just move on. Plenty of others available.

I just had a message this evening from one I've seen before saying similar who since his last time one line attempt laid it on a bit thick. I felt him to be a bit not quite right and creepy. Like, what was I doing in the room with that guy? I know it's money but I'm not sinking that low and I don't need the money that badly. Forget and move on for sure!

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Re: Blocked clients trying to see you off a different number
« Reply #12 on: 02 February 2022, 01:54:15 pm »
I had a guy who after getting the postcode asks for things not on offer and whether I have a pimp.... cancelled. He then emails me from a slightly different email address straight after I cancelled him but still the same first name and surname and a different mobile number so I block both numbers because he's made me feel uncomfortable. A few weeks later he emails me from AW account but I hadn't linked the 2 at the time (previously was to my escort email) and I tell him to call me them see the blocked phone numbers coming up so put 2 and 2 together. A few weeks after that his two numbers are calling me incessantly (obviously still blocked but does creep me out). In the space of 2 hours he's tried ringing 54 times from both blocked numbers. He then emails me on my escort email saying he can't get through.... I absolutely let rip into him and threatened him with police. He begged me not to report him as one of the numbers he was using was his work phone...