Hi guy's and I just wanted to vent and maybe other ladies or guys have had this happen. I have a regular who is the kind to say he wishes he'd met me when he was younger, Keeps asking to meet him (unpaid) to go to dinner or museum trips which I politely decline monthly. So I was really unhappy when a day before our booking he messages me to tell me that he is Sorry but he can't see me anymore, His good friend phoned him last night to warn him that he'd caught a bad STI from his regular escort. He then writes that because I offer owo he can't chance seeing me again and catching a STI. So was ok for a year to sample my owo but now I'm a STI risk. Feels very judgemental. I didn't reply, I don't offer BB and since I started escorting 2 years ago I've never had a STI. But still makes me feel horrible in a way.

Thanks Millie, I actually banned this guy before lockdown because he was pushing my boundaries. I think I just felt offended but it's one less needy client trying to get to know the real me lol.

We don't know whether this excuse is even genuine or he got the hump because he won't get freebie dates.

He is naive to think STI's are a risk now suddenly but was ok with unprotected services before. Of course sex workers can catch and pass on STI's by seeing how many people and engaging in anything without a condom. What a dickhead he probably will book someone else who offers it without anyway. What a thickshit.

When i used to do more outcalls via a proper escort site or my own one it was made clear dates/dinner etc is charged by the hour and promoted just as much as private time. Since Adultwork came along i don't think many " truly escort anymore" it is promoted only as sex services so some of these men think any time outside of sex is not paying time.

Thing is this guy builds me up, Puts amazing AW feedback, And I take it with a pinch of salt, And then turns so quickly. I think Mirror you are right, He may try again but I've blocked him on AW. I have a regular who books me for 3 hours and never gets intense or anything and that's how I like it. I offer a service and a pretend girlfriend experience and if I wanted a relationship I would seek one outside of Escorting but some guys think I want a BF through work.  All adults and we know the risks, I don't get sex outside of work I'm a busy mum.

that's the evidence that this line of work does not get the recognised credit it deserves - in 12 years i only ever caught one whilst civvys or what ever you want to call them probably catch far more on a yearly basis, you're on top of your sex game hun

unfortunately a GREATLY misunderstood fact but i recommend addressing every single one that you come across when ever you can !