I’m just sat around family and friends on a birthday party. Of course topics drift from one to another but sometimes they talk about sex work. The usual - no self respect, full of std, mocking etc.

None of them  know of what I do. I love it and earn more than all of them. I just smile but I’m kinda pissed off.

How do you handle the situation - stay quiet or respond in some way? Have you ever called someone out or came up with some witty comeback?

Not beyond 'don't be such a cunt, Dave' or whatever, no. People that stupid don't deserve my better efforts .

Likewise, it’s just a rant thread and I’m interested in other girls experiences.

Thanks for moving the topic, I should’ve posted it over here.

It really doesn't bother me 

A lot of people only say stuff like this because they have no idea what our life is like - they've just been brainwashed by the media.

And everyone is entitled to their opinion. Doesn't make them right though 

I always throw in a sarcastic one like if there was no demand there won't be no  sex workers and it takes two to tango the look on their faces 😂😂 while I just smile inside.

I don't have civvy friends.

I agree, it's a no win situation. However... I have always noticed that gay men tend to be more understanding/open minded when it comes to sex work. I have a couple of civvie gay friends who have gay male escorts as close friends and they can't care less about their occupation. I wonder why the heterosexual crowd tends to be more judgemental and uptightl (?

Perhaps because the male gay crowd have been judged themselves from day one about who they choose to have sex with so it’s the same sort of thing for us.

I have met a few jealous gay men that seem to be pissed off that men pay female hookers for sex, I have come across this before and there is nothing more scary than having a gay man hate on you, some gay men seem bitter that straight men even exist! A gay man, whom I’ve come to know lately from my area, said to me “all men want to try fucking a man whether they claim to be straight or not”, and this really pissed me off because he WISHES that all men were gay, he also said- (and I’ve heard this being said before on the tv or something) married straight men live a life of quiet desperation” and again, this irritated the fuck out of me! 🤬🤬 maybe him in general just pissed me off, who knows!!😂😂

So you are correct in saying that gay men are the most supportive/less judgmental in female sex workers existing and operating.

I seem to attract posh older men who can come across as pompous and entitled..


Hello,

My name is Edwin, but it's invariably truncated to Ed. I saw your AW profile and it is clear to me you are a real woman, which is what I like.
Me? Well I am still in good shape; six foot tall, well built but trim with a full head of silver hair, good teeth, but given travel is currently on hold a fading tan! I am educated and well travelled.

1. Why do I give a shiny shit what your name is, nevermind what it's abbreviated to?
2. In good shape, as opposed to what? WTF does in good shape mean? And why do I bloody care?
3. I'm a sucker for a full head of hair, not
4. Educated and well travelled? Pompous and condescending more like

Back in the day I would have seen him, but I've spent too many hours with these needy, intense types who insist on flogging me the whole booking. Fuck that..

A guy at work was talking about escorts saying they had a really easy time for so much money and enjoy the sex...I told him to go on believing that if it helps. It flummoxed him.