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Right, now down to the nitty gritty.  Never believe what a guy says about your body.  He is usually trying to make himself feel better.

How do you know when a guy is lying ...................... his lips are moving. ROFL. 

Anyway, Ive got a story for you.

A few years ago I went for my usual womans examination and the gynae nurse (with a very straight face) said to me "Did you say you have 4 Children?", "Yes" was my response.  "Were they Csections?" "No" came my response, "they were all natural vaginal deliveries". Oh she says, "you are very tight down there", well i almost fell off the surgery bed. ROFL.

Now, 45 years of shagging, 5 years of prossying (at the time of the tests) and 4 children and I get told my pussy is very tight !!  Now my skin is no different from anyone elses and Ive certainly never done any muscle exercises. 

It is a load of baloney that cos you may have shagged for the UK that your pussy is going to be any looser than the next person.  I didnt live the life of a nun even when I was single so it cant be said "oh maybe your dry spell allowed your muscles to go back" cos that just aint the case.

If you feel you WANT to do some pelvic floor muscles then go ahead but dont go on hearsay from a fella .............................

Ok I see. I downloaded an app pff.

Your right diagrams are more helpful.

Thank you .

Was good to know

Alisha please forgive me sometimes when we write things it may not come across a certain way.

  No worries. I read 'that' line back, and it does sound somewhat abrupt. I could have phrased it better (lesson learnt). No hard feelings xx

The women in my family back in Egypt swear on using Alum or sometimes called potash alum, it's a natural mineral usually in crystal form but u can get it in powder, I put 1 teaspoon in a bowl of warm water and soak a sponge in then use it for 10 mins as a douche... I'm not sure what the medical proffesionals think of it here but it's used widely throughout the Caribbean... All over the Mid East and Asia also.... I also have a passive gay friend here who swears by it.

Jiggle balls for kegal exercises! best ones can be brought from ann summers i think

I love how this post has been so popular. It's great to hear sooo many examples. On my iPhone I down loaded pff app and it's helping well I think. Ill let you guys know in a couple or weeks. Only fair after this amount if feedback but I'm startling to think all this pussy tightening is all psychological.

Well... You've had 2 suggestions. Kegel/pelvic floor exercises, or Alum (which isn't a good idea at all - as another post said - as it just makes you dry and gives the impression of tightness because you're not wet...).

Pussy tightening exercising/exercises isn't just psychological if you're female. It stops you pee-ing yourself when you sneeze/cough/laugh, it helps prevent vaginal/anal/uterine prolapses, it's essential after giving birth....