Its his problem not yours.  Lots of women have stretch marks, birth marks, freckels, moles etc.  Ive got stretch marks but not through pregnany.

If he feels so strongly then he should have asked you at the time of making the booking if you were a mum with stretchmarks.  You should not have to tell him, or any other client!

Hugs

Penny x x x

Hi Janie

Yes im sure your first reaction would have been the wish to take a hot poker to the berks nether regions.

In this work you will come across men who say the most horrible,tactless,insensitive things. My advice? dont even listen to it! if you can master the trick of letting it go in one ear and out of the other without it lodging in your brain then you will be much happier in this job.

This man is clearly a prat who (as others have said) has issues that are his problem and his alone and absolutely no reflection on you. Let it go and dont waste a second more of your time thinking about it.

Being told you look like you are in your 30's when you are 22 is also annoying! (thanks for that one sir!)

It didn't seem to be a looks issue for him, but rather a guilt issue.

I really don't like when clients bring their guilt issues to an appointment! It's only happened to me once or twice in a whole year, thank God, but even that's enough to make you feel horrible for ages. I've had a client switch from being normal for one hour to suddenly going mental in the second, agonizing about 'doing bad things with a young prostitute' - I may be only 22, but I've got an old brain and in no way behave like an underage/immature girl so I'm really not sure what he was getting at. I gave him some money back and ran away early because I just felt quite grossed out having someone have a moral fit right in front of me! I almost wish I could write on my site, "Do you secretly feel guilty and ashamed about visiting a service provider? Then please don't book!" but that would probably freak out the normal clients.

It's kind of not-talked-about unless you're a 'feminazi' anti-prostitution person, but I think most of us WGs *do* have to do some proper thinking before we start in this job, about how we really feel about the whole thing, and whether we believe "wot society says" etc etc. I shouldn't speak for others but I know I've had some complicated stuff to go through in my mind before I've been able to say that Yes, I Am Happy Doing Sex Work. And I know that me being happy with it doesn't mean everyone is. Basically, it's a completely individual decision.

But I'm going off on a massive tangent! (Had two wines at lunch ) But still think that it's insensitive of a client to think that he's the only one dealing with societal pressures/learned moral twinges and such. It takes two to have a fun, no-strings, enjoyable booking after all! Janie's client in particular seemed to have absolutely no regard for how his behaviour might make *her* feel - we're not emotional dumping grounds, whatever some clients might think.

It never ceases to amaze me how idiotic some people are. Your client was a TOTAL jackass, and your stretchmarks are beautiful! Don't let some seriously peeped up individual get into your head.

Ah, the client with issues.

I wonder many children this man has fathered and whether he was comfortable with the fact that he had chosen to spend their birthday present money on having his dick serviced? WHAT AN IDIOT. And the line about you "should have been honest with him"?!?!?!?! What, about your private life which is nothing to do with the booking?! I am so raging right now. Could you imagine if we were honest to??? What does he want, a totally honest escort?....

"ok, so I'm glad you want a booking, but just a few things I need to be honest with you about. I'm in a mood today, no particular reason. You are my third client of the day and I am really tired, and actually people in general are really starting to hack me off today, so I am going to plan my dinner in my head whilst you pummel me, if that's alright? Also, I am on my period so I have a sponge in. You won't notice though, so don't worry. I think I have a bit of a cold coming on too, but you shouldn't notice that either, well not until you get it in about a week. I am also pretty annoyed that I will be missing the start of eastenders because you are always ten minutes late, so I'm going to try and make you come a bit quicker and piss off early so I can catch the start of it, but I am going to pretend the reason I am being so frantic is because I am soooo turned on, which hopefully you'll believe. All alright with you? Great, see you at half 6".

Ok, so I went on a bit, but SERIOUSLY. Men who develop issues about seeing an escort, whilst in the process of seeing an escort, should be hung up by the balls for an hour to teach them a lesson.

Also, I have delightfully stretch-marked thighs, and that ain't cos I've been carrying a baby in my leg-womb now, is it? It's because I am a woman in my twenties and I like cake. xxx

Or he cud he be a perv who just wanted to see someone undress then insult her so she will leave & give him his money back then have a wank after she's gone!!!!!???

Good job he hasn't seen my stretch marks they're like a road map of the whole of the UK!!!

And what has it got to do with a client if you have kids or not, it's non of their business. Why does it mean "honesty" if you tell him you're a mom!?

Sorry for the rant. 

Luv Kate xx