I just got done watching that movie, Thin line between love and hate that came out back in '96...and now watching it as an adult, I just found it hits so close to home LOL. And then in the movie, Martin abandons her on her birthday, just like 2 guys did to me a couple weeks ago! I have done some crazy, crazy things to get back at men who've played me. I've busted out windows, attempted to run guys over, spray painted their cars...over time I just had to stop. But even now, I still think people need to be 'shaken up' occasionally to get their attention. Im working on catching their bad behavior in the beginning, and just moving on so I dont get hurt down the line.

Because of this, I have avoided going to the bars lately lest I see one of the guys who frequents. I fear I may be drunk when I see him, get angry and smash a full glass of beer in his face for ignoring me the day before my birthday. I'm still angry about that I cant believe it. Dating makes me so angry, and its so hard to have 'fun' when people arent being honest, just want sex but pretend they want more, or just plain ole act selfish and inconsiderate. Do things like ignore you on your birthday, valentines day, break up with you the week before an event...all kinds of stuff that makes dating bad for my health sometimes.

In short dont waste time staring at the closed doors or you wont see the new ones opening.

Amen to that!

I'm going to say yes and no, but trust is something that needs to be nurtuted and worked on. My partner and I have agreed that we are always completely honest with each other even if it means hurting the other.

Maybe I am kidding myself, but it seems to be working.

As for relationships, I don't believe humans were made to be monogamous, but our built in need for love and the way society has developed the general perception of love and sex has forced us into seeing having another sexual partner as betraying our love.

As Evie once quoted to me,(can't remember the source): Even if you see the most perfect bombshell of a woman walking down the street, there will be one man out there who is tired of f**king her.

Quote from: Kate40E on 25 August 2009, 05:49:31 pm

then found out he was regularly visiting a wg I knew in parlour & giving her the money he should've been giving me!! How hypocritical is that!?

I also think now that I wold never trust anyone ever again. Was my ex-husband every punting, any of  my ex-boyfriends!? It really changes how you think this job. You're better off just looking after yourself & not doing harm to anyone.

Luv Kate xx

girl you can say that again. And that was ridiculous what he did! Call it, an addiction. I cant even imagine how upset you were.

Joey he used to make scathing remarks all the time. I'm so glad I stuck to my guns & didn't quit just because he didn't like it!!!

I'm very happy how my life is right now.

xx