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ama · « **on:** 15 November 2009, 06:48:45 pm »

I have always being a screamer during sex [oral/intercourse] but for the past 7 weeks i have become too silent during the session.I don't know what to do, my fave client just asked me if he was doing something wrong and this really embarrassed me to the point where i had to lie and say i was feeling so good and i was trying to make out why i was feeling that way.re: being silent . The thing is i don't know why these silence and if i try to encourage it by moaning it just wont come out. So is there any other girl having this problem or am i an isolated case? I do enjoy sex but no moans or groans. is this normal? I have no stress or anything that is occupying me.

ama

Fallingstar · « **Reply #1 on:** 17 November 2009, 09:35:47 am »

Hi Ama.

Its a tricky question as i suppose its all down to the way you look at your job and why you are doing it? ie is it just for the money or are you actually trying to get pleasure for yourself as well?

In my opinion the sex you have with a client is totally removed from what you would experience in your personal like. You are an actress trying to create a perfect,sexy scenario for your client so that he will think he is as good in bed as he would like to think he is. This usually means lots of sexy moaning and groaning on your part. Whether you are actually enjoying it is totally beside the point,its what the client is paying to hear at the end of the day. Don't worry about them working out that your faking,99.9% will never cotton on to the fact or indeed care to be truthful,its all about the fantasy.
Which is int to say you should put up with a client doing things you don't like or that make you uncomfortable. But if they aren't then it might be good to start practising your fake oohs and ahhhs. You really don't want clients asking if they are doing something wrong,they are coming to you to have their egos fed and feeding their egos successfully is what turns a one off client into a regular.
Very depressingly shallow but true.

amy · « **Reply #2 on:** 17 November 2009, 09:45:51 am »

Quote from: Colette on 17 November 2009, 09:35:47 am

Hi Ama.

Its a tricky question as i suppose its all down to the way you look at your job and why you are doing it? ie is it just for the money or are you actually trying to get pleasure for yourself as well?

In my opinion the sex you have with a client is totally removed from what you would experience in your personal like. You are an actress trying to create a perfect,sexy scenario for your client so that he will think he is as good in bed as he would like to think he is. This usually means lots of sexy moaning and groaning on your part. Whether you are actually enjoying it is totally beside the point,its what the client is paying to hear at the end of the day. Don't worry about them working out that your faking,99.9% will never cotton on to the fact or indeed care to be truthful,its all about the fantasy.

Which is int to say you should put up with a client doing things you don't like or that make you uncomfortable. But if they aren't then it might be good to start practising your fake oohs and ahhhs. You really don't want clients asking if they are doing something wrong,they are coming to you to have their egos fed and feeding their egos successfully is what turns a one off client into a regular.
Very depressingly shallow but true.

I agree with this 100%. You're doing a job at the end of the day and it is to make sure your client enjoys himself - if you do as well then all well and good but that's a bonus, and not we're being paid for. I can't act and don't like fakery, but if it is important to some of your clients that you are vocal, be vocal (just like it is important to some of them that we wear stockings, say) and they'll be fine. If you worry yourself about it too much then it will start to show and that preoccupation is what will bother them more IMO.

Fallingstar · « **Reply #3 on:** 17 November 2009, 09:53:50 am »

As my boyfriend said to me at the weekend,men are simple creatures and not especially fussy. They might know its not genuine pleasure but as long as your making the right noises then they are happy and it does the trick. (I hasten to add this isint how we conduct our sexlife by the way

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ama · « **Reply #4 on:** 17 November 2009, 06:07:22 pm »

Thanx everyone for the replies.I do love my work and i was just worried as i couldnt act anymore thinking that it will show. I will have to up my acting skills!

Ama

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