It occurred to me too that these two weirdos were in a role play or he paid her to help him carry it out. Whatever the truth they acted shamefully.  One more reason to have a decent spy hole in your front door.

I have tried to imagine it happening to me and how I would deal with it. Not sure and I am a confident and assertive person both in private and work mode. 

Justine you don't have to be assertive really. Just politely but firmly ask them to leave if it ever did happen to you. I think these types get off on the jealousy and it turns them on. Maybe it revs up their dull sex lives but honestly, they could have booked it in as a role play and paid. Pair of freaks.

Exactly. Many sex workers would be happy to engage in this type of role play scenario (if paid well and previously discussed on the phone) but they seem to get off on the "non consensual element".

Justine you don't have to be assertive really. Just politely but firmly ask them to leave if it ever did happen to you. I think these types get off on the jealousy and it turns them on. Maybe it revs up their dull sex lives but honestly, they could have booked it in as a role play and paid. Pair of freaks.

You can try politely but firmly as I did to begin with but she refused you can try not letting her in as the other lady tried but she caused a commotion outside until she let her in and spoke with her.  To begin with I was very calm until they refused to leave and accused me of sleeping with her husband who by her own admission couldn't get hard and likes to dressed as a woman and pegged. Im not sure what it is you think I did to make her not want to leave and how you could merely just ask her politely to leave and they would happily comply??  They were there 100% for a role play and wasn't going to leave until they got any kind of a reaction it was almost as if she wanted the police to be called. It was an unsolicited meet I didn't want to listen to any of her bull s**t but she didn't respect or care that I wasn't in to it and that's what they get off on the other person being unwilling.

You can try politely but firmly as I did to begin with but she refused you can try not letting her in as the other lady tried but she caused a commotion outside until she let her in and spoke with her.  To begin with I was very calm until they refused to leave and accused me of sleeping with her husband who by her own admission couldn't get hard and likes to dressed as a woman and pegged. Im not sure what it is you think I did to make her not want to leave and how you could merely just ask her politely to leave and they would happily comply??  They were there 100% for a role play and wasn't going to leave until they got any kind of a reaction it was almost as if she wanted the police to be called. It was an unsolicited meet I didn't want to listen to any of her bull s**t but she didn't respect or care that I wasn't in to it and that's what they get off on the other person being unwilling.

Erm I never said anything of the sort - I was answering someone elses post. If people aren't confident in those situations then that's where you start. I think English Green answered well. We are doing nothing illegal but they are as it's classed as harassment.

If they turn up at your door film them and if what they are doing is illegal at least you have evidence. I lost my shit when in the heat of the moment she asked me if I had kids there not a chance in hell im talking to this freak about whether I had children or not. It took every ounce of self control not to throat punch her. She was not going to leave and I really can not stress that enough until she was good and ready

Yes i can imagine it was very hard getting rid of them and probably at the start you did not realise it was a fake set up until you had time to think about what happened and now you know they done this to another woman. I think this is bordering on a crime as they refuse to leave and set up a fake booking to lose you money and coming there to cause you trouble.

Good idea to film them if you can do it when they have left as i am thinking if you whip out camera in front of them imside your property they might get their phone and start filming you though which is a worry them having your face too.