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Ana66

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Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« on: 23 October 2021, 11:30:41 am »
Hi everyone,

Has a client ever fallen in love with you ? If yes, how did you deal with it ?

Or on the other way round, have you ever fallen in love with a client ?

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #1 on: 23 October 2021, 12:08:02 pm »
I've had clients who said they were in love with me. They're not actually in love with me though, they're in love with an escort persona and in reality they don't even know my real name. If a client comes out with something like this or I think they're getting too attached I stop seeing them and cut off contact.

Can't imagine I'd ever fall in love with a client because I just don't view them through a romantic lens.

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #2 on: 23 October 2021, 12:20:51 pm »
Yes, and it ended badly. I would never get involved with client again ever!! no matter how much money they gave me...

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #3 on: 23 October 2021, 03:08:18 pm »
A client isn't falling in love with you, he's in love with his perception of you. It's a huge difference. Also, in love with you? Really? I think anyone who falls in love so easily, particularly in this kind of transactional situation, has no real idea of love. Instead, it's more a kind of obsession/infatuation.

If I were to ever find myself in this situation, I would cut ties. It's not part of the service (or the plan for that matter).

As for falling in love with a client? No, because again, it's not real. I'm only seeing him in a very controlled situation, he's on his best behaviour and I am being my best self. No matter how much I think we connect and get on, it's not authentic. However, I do consider a few of my clients as very dear friends and I genuinely love our time together. But do I want more? No.

If I were ever to find myself developing feelings for a client, I would cut ties and run a mile. It's so not what I want or what I am looking for either. This isn't Pretty Woman.

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #4 on: 23 October 2021, 06:49:12 pm »
Natalya, the search function (top right) is useful. There are quite a few threads on this, e.g. https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/falling-for-a-client-(was-oh-no-it's-happening-!!)/
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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #5 on: 27 October 2021, 12:34:46 am »
Hi everyone,

Has a client ever fallen in love with you ? If yes, how did you deal with it ?

Or on the other way round, have you ever fallen in love with a client ?

Tell him you are feeling similar urges.

Then fleece him to the nth degree
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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #6 on: 27 October 2021, 04:04:49 am »
I once had a very disturbed client Express unwanted feelings of attachment and because he made me feel so uncomfortable I wouldnt see him again he then text saying he felt suicidal because even an escort didnt want to see him. I had a friend tell him to keep away. About a year later he used a different number and name to book me ..I didnt realise until he walked in I felt really sick and uncomfortable.  Told him I was not well and asked him to go. I blocked and never heard from him again thankfully.

Ana66

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #7 on: 27 October 2021, 09:18:31 am »
Yes all of you are right, someone falling in love so easily cannot be genuine about his feelings (or maybe he is playing with me to see if I’m ever gonna fall in love with him, which is not gonna happen by the way), I’ll see how it goes with him because he is a very good client and comes back every week for at least 3h (sometimes more !!)

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #8 on: 27 October 2021, 12:55:01 pm »
he felt suicidal because even an escort didnt want to see him.

I would have answered him "my standards are high and don't date men who pay for sex", not that is true but you would have made him confront his own double standards. What a jewel.
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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #9 on: 27 October 2021, 09:10:36 pm »
Everyone loves me, until they know me :)
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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #10 on: 03 November 2021, 05:11:53 pm »

I developed a close relationship with a client, years ago and it ended badly.

It was a complete head mess because he still wanted to book in as a client and have a personal relationship outside of work?! It messed with my head completely and once I discovered he was secretly booking in with other girls I just completely blocked him out of my life. Blocking him and moving on as though he didn't exist was brilliant for my mental health :) Felt a complete release of anxiety and have to say I will never do that again. That was a lesson learned.

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #11 on: 05 November 2021, 02:04:27 pm »
I have twice and don't regret it . We set up a business together ,I met them at different times of my life
i ,they got separated and we became more serious and yes ,they did know the real me as I have never done anything for.money I  don't want to do .

It ended as they decided to return to the ugly ,fat wife
 for fear of losing money . For me it was real and still think of him and love him .

I believe in love and one of my favourite historical heroines is Aspasia , a courtesan so enchanting in Ancient Athens that enchanted the great Pericles and he ended up with her .

Aspasia de Mileto.

Veronica Franco another great Venetian Courtesan who wrote the most beautiful love poems and was a romantic .

Evita Peron Who didn't care when people called her a " w..e" and she became Immortal ,her name revered by millions still and General Peron .

So Yes ,I believe in Pretty Woman 😍. In Latin America I know many wonderful ladies who got successfully married to Americ and they met in the business and are living opulent and happily married in the USA with yachts ,houses and more . One of my closest friends got cancer and  when going to chemo met her love and future husband in a casino as she still had to bring. Home the " bacon " for her 4 kids , the gentleman married her ,fastous wedding in the beach , a big rock and a yacht to her name ! She died shortly after  in Palm Beach May she rest in peace and he adopted her babies and her twin sister too .

Oh and she met him a t a famous brothel / casino ,hotel where more than 400 independent girls show up.all day an d night every day pre Covid s o he had gently of variety to choose from !

True stories 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍.

Chin chin to love may it find me soon again 😘


Blessings to all ladies


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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #12 on: 08 December 2021, 02:46:59 pm »
Yes, and it didn't ended well at all :))
Never again! But to excuse myself I was young and stupid at that time  :FF

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #13 on: 09 December 2021, 05:12:01 pm »
I've had clients say they love me. Whether they actually did I don't know

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Re: Have you ever had a client who fell in love with you ?
« Reply #14 on: 06 January 2022, 04:48:40 pm »
I have had a client text and  declare that he is in love with me and ask for a discount in the same sentence.

Wow. Just wow
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