I know there's a lot of people who say this job has done wonders for their self confidence etc but I'm starting to think that after 7 years in this job only older men find me attractive. My civvy life has not helped at all with me being messed about by people my own age, but looking back the only 'real' relationship I've had was with a bully 14 years my senior. No one my age or younger seems to find me attractive.

I have a lot of lovely regulars but again they're all 50 plus. I'm nearly 38. Sometimes I'll get people my own age booking me but again this is mostly for domination services not the GFE which I also offer. The older men are more likely to say how pretty I am and again I have a lot of them for GFE.

I do have a few people around my age come back but I do sometimes think I only appeal to the older man as my work always seems to reflect this.

Anyone else feel like this?

That's interesting Amy. Trouble is I look young for my age anyway and always have done. In fact, I've only just stopped getting ID'ed all the time. Not sure anyone would believe the sudden age jump 

Perhaps the issue is your neither young nor old, and although you're in prime 'MILF' territory, probably at an age that would mostly attract 18–25 year olds, who may not punt, or who you may feel uncomfortable seeing.

The good news is, like Amy said, the older you get, the more younger punters you'll attract. I started at 47 and would say it was 50:50 men younger than me, sometimes significantly, and men my own age or up to 60. In my private life I've always preferred younger men so it was great for me.

That's interesting  I wonder if that'll happen in my private life, too. As I say, it's only older men at the moment. Well, it always has been.

I am late 40s I was similar for most of my adultlife, up until your age I believed I could only get on with older-than-me-men, however I started to learn I could get on with same-age or younger men then I started receiving and accepting more younger-men bookings. Looking back I think I somehow felt 'safer' with older men, it took many bad experiences to change that view. I am now of the opinion people of any age are individuals, age can have very little to do with how I get on with them. I think this was more to do with me, the vibes, my approach rather than my actual age.

The good news is, like Amy said, the older you get, the more younger punters you'll attract.

That is definitely the case for me too. I've noticed the change over the past four or five years and especially in the past 12 months. I'm 41 now.

I’m also in my 30’s but can pass as late 20’s.

Almost all my clients are 40+  - but when I stick myself on a civvie app I get an absolute ton (majority) that contact me are under 30. (Which is funny because I prefer older men).

Maybe younger men just don’t need to use AW etc as much as older men?… or aren’t as aware of it!?

Totally agree with others here, I've been doing this job 7 years and I'm now in my 50s and no longer see older guys, I'm a MILF, and my average client age is 30.

Rebrand yourself, put in your profile that you welcome younger guys and see what happens. x