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jo-jo

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Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« on: 11 May 2018, 10:56:44 pm »
Today was quiet and client seen before made an appointment. He just rubbed me the wrong way last time and I found him to be very irritating, controlling, and tried to push boundaries. I know that I probably should've turned him down but a quiet day and I thought that I should atleast try hold it together, Im supposed to be a professional right?

So he arrives, and already I felt irritated by his very presence. He looks ok and on paper everything seems fine, but he just is one of those people who my gut doesn't like. He goes to kiss me and I decline, I just couldn't kiss him. Then he started saying stupid things and within the first 5 mins I knew I couldn't do it. On preliminary checking I also realised he had white cheese on his member.

I offered to do half the time of the original booking and refund the remainder. He decided to pay my rate for that and take the difference but not stay.

I wonder if he is going to leave me bad reviews or bad rep on the forums? He seems the type to. Thats neither here nor there I suppose, what's done is done; but I've never met someone that revolted me so much/made my skin crawl-- that I actually couldnt' go ahead with the booking. :( I usually can power through but the will to live failed me.



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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #1 on: 11 May 2018, 11:19:28 pm »
If he does he does but i would not stress over it. He had cream cheese on his cock so already that alone is revolting.
Those types just have no respect for us or themselves you can see why those types need to pay for it.

I have ended past bookings or just refused most things because of similar things and the ones that turn up with dairylea on them are the worst especially if they expect OWO.

I do think hygiene has improved over all since a big internet presence as so many women now write about dirty hygiene and want them to shower when arrive where years ago where brothels were the main thing i do not think many washed or was encouraged to shower as much as now but that would also be because most did OW so the dirty cock or sweat was covered with a thick condom. But now they do not get there cock sucked without a condom if cheese present so some need to make effort to wash.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #2 on: 12 May 2018, 12:47:24 am »
I have had a few in the past that just creep me out and I have left without the money asap.
There have been one or two that have just given me the creeps and my 6th sense has appeared.
Just explained that we do not connect and this will not work so scarpered pronto - there is nothing wrong with us doing this. Just do it if they send shivers down your spine for all the wrong reasons!
It is like starting day one of a new job and you just know it is wrong and will never work out!

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #3 on: 12 May 2018, 09:46:39 am »
We really need to listen to our guts. Like you said, you probably shouldn’t have taken the booking so you can learn from that. Yes I’ve cut a booking short from a guy who was supposedly a ‘dom’. He was face fucking me with his belt still on so whacking my mouth against metal, then spanked me SO hard even when I’ve told him to work up slowly and then the last straw was he tied my hands up then started rummaging through my bag for toys. I was so raged. Gave him the difference between an hour and half an hour because I’d already done some of the booking - he asked for more!

Don’t worry about him leaving a review or something. I only am bothered about that if I felt I gave a good service but they didn’t think so. In this case, you knew it wasn’t great which is why you stopped the booking.

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« Reply #4 on: 12 May 2018, 10:01:03 am »
You were quite right to listen to your gut. If he was making your skin crawl it would have been a terrible booking.
I had to cut a booking short once because the man had a huge cock and seemed to get perverse pleasure out of fucking me as hard as he could for as long as he could. I endured it for five minutes before asking him to be more gentle which he agreed to but within a minute he was going hammer and tongs again. It was so sore and angry with his attitude I called it a day and gave him a 50% refund. When he'd left I found spots of blood so I was right to call a halt.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #5 on: 12 May 2018, 02:07:27 pm »
Yes I've ended the booking a few times due to boundary pushing,asking for bb,being down right rude or them generally being a massive tit.Some got partially refunded,some didn't as they forfeited that right by being so horrendously behaved.I have also ended a booking when after an hour it was obvious we were not clicking and he was after a type of service that I didn't offer and he should have known that i.e he grumbled that he was expecting a pse style booking and my ad's made it very clear I was more a gfe kinda gal.
I just could not of gone on for the second hour he booked me for and I explained and refunded his 2nd hour.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #6 on: 12 May 2018, 08:35:41 pm »
Jojo
There's a limit to what we all will put up with in sex work.
Some just are so unappealing and to have that stuff on the cock, I'd be sick sorry to say.
I had one guy his whole private area reeked of urine I said to him im sorry please coukd you just take a wash as I am going to give you oral but there's a strong smell of urine on you.
He got up washed and came back, it was still there but bit less  .
I covered the thighs and balls in  that area in nivea a lotion and it was bearable i was skint and needed that money , held my breath and got on with it.
Luckily it wasn't long b4 he said he wanted hand relief ..I couldn't wait for him to go ..
I took a bath and got the bed linen off fast yuk
« Last Edit: 12 May 2018, 08:37:37 pm by Sugar xxx »

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #7 on: 15 May 2018, 05:04:18 pm »
I've had to cancel many bookings, because they've either been filthy, disrespectful or rude. I've actually become less tolerant of things as I've gotten older, but I always trust my gut. X

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #8 on: 24 May 2018, 07:59:12 am »
Once I had to cut a reservation with a really aggressive and frugal type during the reservation, in the first 5 minutes, I said: I'm sorry but I can not continue, I'll return your money.
It was a huge breath after he left and I closed my door....
With money you buy many things, but you do not buy everything in life, there are guys who can not afford to pay in bed
Imagine with immense joy that you are living the life of your dreams, do it every day without exception, because this is a way to add energy to the purpose.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #9 on: 24 May 2018, 08:16:10 am »
Yesterday. Had a guy walk in totally indescreete and stressing me out by acting like as an idiot outside of my flat. Talking to my neboroighs and telling them hes going to see his male friend in flat number ××× There is no male living in my flat and he acted so obvious. I told him sorry I can't make it because not I am not feeling comfortable with his behavioir. He understood and walked away.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #10 on: 24 May 2018, 09:38:35 am »
Yes I have a few times usually because of boundary pushing but most recently a few months ago because a guy had what I'm 90% sure was herpes. He seemed to think they were "a rash he sometimes gets" and "harmless" because he "always used protection". Creeped me out that a) he hadn't had them checked and b )  he was sewing akot of escorts and wasnt getying checked or even aware condoms dont offwr protection against herpes. So I offered him his money back if he just left to be fair to the bloke refused his money back and we settled for 50 quid back and a promise he would get checked out. Time before that was a bb pusher was scaring me and he did not take being asked to leave mid booking very well and persisted to not leave while whining like a child till I called my fake boyfriend.

Newbie81xx

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« Reply #11 on: 29 May 2018, 04:58:05 pm »
I walked out a booking as his penis was bleeding from his urethra......fgs  :FF  :FF

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #12 on: 30 May 2018, 12:30:34 pm »
I had a guy a month ago who turned out to be a asshole. He was trying to be all DOM with me telling me what to do, where, how in quite a rough manner. I really don't play the submissive, but went along as it turned out the guy was staying in the same hotel as me and I didn't want any fuss.

He tried to book me again yesterday and I told him I was fully booked. I just couldn't face being ordered around and manhandled again for any amount of money.

I think for your own sanity you need to have a second income as I would not be able to continue doing and enjoying this line of work if I had to see assholes like that to pay the bills.

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #13 on: 07 June 2018, 09:30:43 pm »
Yorkshire lass that's why I have it written on my profile that I won't see that type and so far not had an issue since , if they don't like it they can go somewhere else, I also mention it on phone but do add that I'm pretty lively .

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Re: Have you ever been unable to complete a booking?
« Reply #14 on: 08 June 2018, 05:34:53 pm »
I walked out a booking as his penis was bleeding from his urethra......fgs  :FF  :FF

OMG, that's utterly vile. How on earth did he have the cheek to book an escort? The mind boggles. Disgusting!!!