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BibiofLeeds

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #15 on: 14 January 2019, 03:25:45 pm »
I think some guys do take the GFE fantasy a little too far and delude themselves into thinking that it is a mutually fun sex session like it would be if they had actually pulled.I think they forget that mostly we are not turned on at all and mostly do not find them attractive and are unlikely to climax.That said I have had a few unexpected orgasms where the guy got lucky with me as it were and happened to do something just right but mostly I faked it for their benefit as it made them happy or sometimes for my benefit if I wanted to move the session on from what they were doing.

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #16 on: 14 January 2019, 11:10:16 pm »
When they ask this question it guarantees that they will be crap at sex. Those that ask are 2 types - young guys who I avoid and older clients who have no relationship or sex skills and are single for that very reason and desperate for sex ... these are difficult to screen out until you meet them. As soon as they ask or demand that I cum, I know they will be clumsy and awkward.

I actually cum quite easily through intercourse and g spot rubbing with a cock and do cum with clients. The best clients for this are the married ones who just want a proper shag in addition to what they get off their mrs and don't cum after 30 seconds. A bit of gentle foreplay to get the juice going and 2 or 3 minutes of missionary thrusting at the right angle (which generally means a not overweight client) with a mid sized cock and I will generally climax. Not many clients notice or comment if i cum but I have a couple of regulars who know when it happens.

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #17 on: 16 January 2019, 05:00:10 pm »
I can't seem to Cum with these clients  but I'm not wet so I just say it's a mind thing I get a head trip orgasm they do tend to believe it but sadly others are licking or rubbing in the hope of some majestic squirting which I don't do.
With Sex I make the sounds tell them doggy position always makes me Cum. They can't tell then as I've deliberately put lube on condom so it's wet anyway

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #18 on: 16 January 2019, 05:33:05 pm »
I can't fake it nor lie about it. I tell them straight you can't make me cum as I am not in love with you. Only one that can make me cum is  my boyfriend. They then say let me try I then say you will be wasting your time and turn what is a nice time into a horrible booking.

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« Reply #19 on: 16 January 2019, 11:59:28 pm »
I can't fake it nor lie about it. I tell them straight you can't make me cum as I am not in love with you. Only one that can make me cum is  my boyfriend. They then say let me try I then say you will be wasting your time and turn what is a nice time into a horrible booking.

I am exactly the same! I cannot really cum with anyone other than someone I am in love with and actually have sex with for free  ;D
And when they ask if they can try it goes from bad to worse...so awkward! I don’t like to see these clients again as I see them as being overly personal and pushy
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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #20 on: 22 January 2019, 08:44:20 am »
Have you cum? No It's not physically possible for a woman to climax with every client. Unless she has that spontaneous orgasm dysfunctional thing. You know the one where they sneeze & climax.

What would you like?  I'd like a guy to come in, pay me, rub my feet then piss off. 

I had one who'd booked for 30 mins, the other week, ask me if I would squirt. I replied, not unless you book for 2 hours & know your way around female anatomy. He was 25.

As for the clueless finger thrusters, I just push them away & say "I'm here to pleasure you". Or if I'm in a really bad mood I'll prod the end of their cock or similar & ask them if they are enjoying it.
 

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #21 on: 28 January 2019, 10:05:39 pm »


As for the clueless finger thrusters, I just push them away & say "I'm here to pleasure you". Or if I'm in a really bad mood I'll prod the end of their cock or similar & ask them if they are enjoying it.
 


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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #22 on: 29 January 2019, 09:42:41 am »
I can't fake it nor lie about it. I tell them straight you can't make me cum as I am not in love with you. Only one that can make me cum is  my boyfriend. They then say let me try I then say you will be wasting your time and turn what is a nice time into a horrible booking.

Same!  I tell them straight that I don't cum with clients and I'm here to give YOU a service.  I don't like the thought of cumming with a client.  It's too strange for me personally.  I don't see these guys when I've had bookings like these.  They annoy me too much.

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« Reply #23 on: 03 March 2019, 02:40:44 am »
They kill me with that damn question, smh. I deserve so many Oscars & Academy  Awards it's ridiculous  *snorts*. The faster I fake that orgasm (within reason), the faster we're  getting it on & I'm  getting them out of my hotel room. There  are days I think I should be Meryl Streep, sheesh.

Not 1 has ever made me orgasm & not 1 ever will. Why? Bc I'm not interested  in you, that's why. I have absolutely  no connection  with you , so therefore  it won't  happ
en  & I'm  ok with that. The client  however, probably  goes back to the office  & brags how he made the escort cum buckets (eyeroll ).
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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #24 on: 03 March 2019, 07:00:34 pm »
Same!  I tell them straight that I don't cum with clients and I'm here to give YOU a service.  I don't like the thought of cumming with a client.  It's too strange for me personally.  I don't see these guys when I've had bookings like these.  They annoy me too much.
I very rarely orgasm with a client and if I do I hate myself afterwards. Very strange feeling. I do everything I can to make sure they don't realise I have , as I dont want to give them the satisfaction of knowing they've done it.
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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #25 on: 03 March 2019, 09:16:48 pm »
I just fake it and quick if they’re annoying me. If they’re annoying me too much to fake it with them near me I tell them doggy, fast and hard then brace myself

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #26 on: 03 March 2019, 09:43:33 pm »
I very rarely orgasm with a client and if I do I hate myself afterwards. Very strange feeling. I do everything I can to make sure they don't realise I have , as I dont want to give them the satisfaction of knowing they've done it.

Oh my god that is hilarious. A kind of reverse faking it. I love it.

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« Reply #27 on: 03 March 2019, 09:56:59 pm »
Oh my god that is hilarious. A kind of reverse faking it. I love it.
Haha didnt think of it like that! I should have been an actress...
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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #28 on: 04 March 2019, 03:35:25 pm »
I cum too easily no faking
I am the sneezer that cums

If they do not make me cum they are beyond bad

I tell them what they are doing wrong and insist they do it right

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Re: Have you cum/How can I make you cum?
« Reply #29 on: 05 March 2019, 07:15:33 pm »
If I'm horny I take what I need from them by ordering them around and make them do what I need to cum. This depends time of month and how horny I am. It makes no difference what they look like or how old they are. I find myself using men as a sort of human dildo.The less attractive the better, I let go, I let my imagination run riot. I have good sex with a guy who sees me regularly, but I don't cum with him as I'm more self conscious as there's chemistry and I thinks he's hot AF and I don't want to get involved.

The only problem is that the unattractive ones expect a repeat hot sweaty real orgasm session, Then I simply can't find it in myself to do it. They just where there at the right moment. Lightning in a bottle, sadly. For them and me. I do think a good majority of men are keen for you to enjoy it and it ends a session quicker if they think you've cum.