Have any of you ever had the money and then had someone bail on you and say I can't do this and leave? Just had this for the first time in just under six months of this.

Just had a guy turn up, he was pretty cute, he did smell off BO quite a bit, but after encountering some really nasty men in this job, I really don't mind that too much. We kissed, grinded, he was pretty hard, seemed turned on. Said he will probably come fast the first time, I was like it's ok, we can go again after

He then said he needed the bathroom. I said OK. He came out and said I'm sorry, I can't do this. I was like ok, are you ok? Is it me? Have I done anything? He said no, I just can't do it. You can keep the money, I don't want to waste your time. And then started getting dressed and he was shakily tying his shoelaces. I asked if he had done it before. He said yes, once. Didn't say anymore. Just left. Texted him saying I hope he's OK. No response.

He was young (26ish - 28 I'd say), I can only think that he either A: has a girlfriend or a wife (no wedding ring but could have taken this off) and felt guilty and couldn't go through with it. Or B: was just too nervous and let it get the better of him (but he did say he had seen another escort before).

Has anything like this happened to you ladies before? I am super paranoid and think maybe he just wanted to collect my address but I doubt it as it seems like a lot of money to pay for that and he seemed to be enjoying it at first. Gonna go out now, grab some food and then not leave until tomorrow when I'm leaving just in case lol

Very occasionly and usually due to nerves or guilt. 1 time the phone rang kept ringing and ringing and finally he answered a family emergency so had to rush out. But once they hand it over and see me naked they would not get it back as it is there fault they are leaving and if they just handed it before starting i might give a bit back but the rest i keep for wasted appointment.

I would not worry i doubt it was anything sinister just had a reality shock of what he was doing.

Yes I had it once.Bloke walked in,paid me #80 then said he couldn't go through with it as he felt too guilty and just left and told me to keep the money.

I had an outcall like this similar once, he seemed super-keen at first but after about 10 mins of a bit of kissing and groping said he'd changed his mind and asked if I could put my dress back on and just chat and listen to music the rest of the time (definitely think it was guilt in that case, wife and kids away, bit of a drink at the rugby etc etc but no way of really knowing of course).
I was really weirded out at first, I guess a bit paranoid too wondering if there was something else (dodgy) going on but it was all quite genuine and he actually even wanted me to stay on longer with full additional payment (which I politely declined, small talk with nervy strangers can be even more exhausting than sex work!)
Still find it quite amusing that I was more uneasy and concerned about what would otherwise be a 'normal' encounter than the constant barrage of pests, pushers and pervs that do the rounds!

I had one once who wanted roleplay. He came in handed over the cash and then said he would go out and come back in again to start the roleplay. I was expecting him just to go out of the bedroom and knock on door but he left the flat and ran away!

Best booking ever!

i have had it happen a couple of times. One of them explained that it was his first time and felt bad for his wife. He insisted that I kept the money. The other one was a widower, not had sex for years and then changed his mind I gave him all his money back and I did feel sorry for him.

I also had one who changed his mind when the condom went on - he would not accept a BJ and did not touch me - had a wedding ring. I got him hard, rolled it on and he just said oh-no, rushed to get dressed (condom still in place) and rushed out. No discussion over money back. I did wonder if it was me that scared him - but on reflection I think he was just guilt ridden.

I do sometimes think about the wives they are cheating on - I wonder how many know or suspect?? I think most of my clients are married.

He came, you kissed, grinded and he said he thought he might come too quick then went to the bathroom, came out and decided he wanted to leave? Sounds possible that he quickly jerked off in the bathroom, guys don't usually go the the toilet when they've got an erection.  Some guys think 'if I come quickly the first time I can build myself up to a round two orgasm' but once they've actually offloaded the sexual energy is totally spent and they just want to leave. Like, the sexual version of the eyes bigger than stomach phenomenon. Although why he just didn't do it in front of you, I dunno, its just conjecture on my part. Could be even though he admitted he might come quick he was still somewhat embarrassed?

I've had a post pay walkout once, the guy was very very nervous and seemed racked with guilt and just couldn't relax at all and after me trying to relax him and assuage him, he left after 10 minutes. I didn't offer him the money and he didn't ask. Its pretty rare because if a dude is going to feel guilty about cheating on his wife with a hooker, he'll usually have worked that out before he gets through the door...probably explains at least a few no shows more than walkouts.

Lol, actually, considering we were grinding, this totally makes sense, especially if he was going to prematurely ejaculate.

Either that, or he was just too nervous.
Either way, I'm over it now, I definitely don't think it was me, but it definitely flared up my anxiety up at the time (especially as it was a booking from Uescort which I haven't had before)

Some of these are hilarious, Wailing Banshee, sounds like easy money made haha!

I definitely think quite a lot of my clients are married too. Some talk openly about it with me - I don't really judge or think about it to be honest. I had a guy today who was totally open with me about having a punting phone which he hides from his wife in his van lol - he even proceeded to show me the punting phone.

This job is so interesting from a psychology point of view. Interesting how some feel guilty and others don't

Had similar experience. A man booked for hh. Handed me the money, shower done and he said he couldn't go ahead. He said I looked too young. I said my age is accurate (24) and he said yeah but I looked way younger than he expected told me I can keep the money. I reckon he is between late 40s and and early 50s. He did say ”can I have a quick look at your ass before I leave”