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fallen angel

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« Reply #30 on: 06 August 2020, 09:21:44 pm »
Oh and then the ones who text to tell you they have just had an amazing wank thinking about our last meet!?

Just pisses me off and makes me feel cheated... Do I really need to know this when I'm making no £££ from it

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« Reply #31 on: 07 August 2020, 04:49:06 am »
I had one regular who texted me once and within the hour I hadn’t replied to him, he then sent me a text, “don’t ignore me (insert working name here)”🤬🤬 and he got a bollocking put it that way!

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« Reply #32 on: 07 August 2020, 12:57:48 pm »
I think it's right what's been said about the 60+ guys being the worst offenders.

I have one who only ever books 30 mins and as many times as I've explained that that includes showering, dressing, chatting I hardly ever manage to get him out the door less than 50 mins after he arrived.

What is it with them not being able to multi task!?  As soon as he starts chatting he stops dressing!

I can literally be half way down the stairs rattling the door keys and he's still sat on the bed nattering and putting his socks on! Drives me nuts

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« Reply #33 on: 07 August 2020, 01:47:35 pm »
I think it's right what's been said about the 60+ guys being the worst offenders.

I have one who only ever books 30 mins and as many times as I've explained that that includes showering, dressing, chatting I hardly ever manage to get him out the door less than 50 mins after he arrived.

What is it with them not being able to multi task!?  As soon as he starts chatting he stops dressing!

I can literally be half way down the stairs rattling the door keys and he's still sat on the bed nattering and putting his socks on! Drives me nuts
I allow them a few mins for a shower before the booking but if they go over 5 mins then I do take it off their time and that’s only happened once and it was 10 mins but in his defence then he was filthy and a farmer so I get why he wanted to be extra clean, him being clean also benefits me.

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« Reply #34 on: 07 August 2020, 03:43:27 pm »
When I say 60+ I think this guy is probably 70+ and at that age it takes them a minimum of 5 mins to get their clothes off and the same the other end to get them back on again!  :FF

Factor in that he can't talk and dress at the same time and he does love to talk, maybe a bit lonely at that age, it obviously doesn't leave much time for the action!

They seem to think that they shouldn't have to pay to just be talking to us but I'm not his therapist!

I did try a new tack one time and was literally helping him into his clothes at the end lol, he looked round at me rather shocked and said "Oh are you in a hurry?"

I think I'm just too nice to be rude to old people   :-\

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« Reply #35 on: 07 August 2020, 04:14:53 pm »
My view is belongs they don't put me in danger I can play along.

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« Reply #36 on: 07 August 2020, 04:57:47 pm »
My view is belongs they don't put me in danger I can play along.

Do you play along with the entitled regulars though out with bookings? My motto is now “if I ain’t getting paid for it then I ain’t doing it”, this comes into play lots due to the men thinking that they can sext/text me prior to, and after a booking.

I had the perfect client the other day who said “it’s just a business transaction and I get that”, and I answered him like this, “well can’t you tell all the other men that then”...

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« Reply #37 on: 07 August 2020, 10:13:29 pm »
When I say 60+ I think this guy is probably 70+ and at that age it takes them a minimum of 5 mins to get their clothes off and the same the other end to get them back on again!  :FF

Factor in that he can't talk and dress at the same time and he does love to talk, maybe a bit lonely at that age, it obviously doesn't leave much time for the action!

They seem to think that they shouldn't have to pay to just be talking to us but I'm not his therapist!

I did try a new tack one time and was literally helping him into his clothes at the end lol, he looked round at me rather shocked and said "Oh are you in a hurry?"

I think I'm just too nice to be rude to old people   :-\

Just because he's old it doesn't mean he's unaware that he's taking the piss. I had someone developing into a regular (late 50s) who always stayed near 45m despite always only booking 30m, usually spending at least 5m droning on about his job. As he sometimes (but bizarrely not always) had raging halitosis, the fourth time he texted to book I reminded him that I offered a 45m slot if 30m wasn't enough. He took the hint.
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« Reply #38 on: 07 August 2020, 10:54:49 pm »
When I say 60+ I think this guy is probably 70+ and at that age it takes them a minimum of 5 mins to get their clothes off and the same the other end to get them back on again!  :FF

Factor in that he can't talk and dress at the same time and he does love to talk, maybe a bit lonely at that age, it obviously doesn't leave much time for the action!

They seem to think that they shouldn't have to pay to just be talking to us but I'm not his therapist!

I did try a new tack one time and was literally helping him into his clothes at the end lol, he looked round at me rather shocked and said "Oh are you in a hurry?"

I think I'm just too nice to be rude to old people   :-\

I agree he's an cunning habitual overstayer, playing you nice and slow and probably overstayed for the past 50 years lol. You just happen to see him now as a 'poor wizened old man', but he's a polished blagger.

I'd end 10 minutes early which gives him 5 minutes each way to undress and dress.
At the end tell I tell them politely to step out when dressed and I leave the room.
Shut the door so he's isolated and can't chat.

I wait  in the corridor, and get dressed quickly in my civvies which are hidden nearby.
When you're not in the bedroom they're off home in a couple minutes.
« Last Edit: 07 August 2020, 11:11:41 pm by saltysweet »

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« Reply #39 on: 07 August 2020, 11:00:46 pm »
Hi Kay

Yes you're probably right that he realises what he is doing.

 I have hinted to him that I do a 45 min booking too but unlike your fella he refused to take the hint and if practically dressing him to get him out of the door didn't get the penny to drop I think I'm flogging a dead ( and somewhat mean and entitled) horse! 

He has tried the old "I'm a  poor pensioner" line too .... Time I stopped being so soft and got tough! lol

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« Reply #40 on: 07 August 2020, 11:04:13 pm »
Hi SS

Good advice, I definitely need to be more strict and use some of those tactics

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« Reply #41 on: 07 August 2020, 11:08:15 pm »
 ;D another one I use is to talk extra loud to the video entryphone and shout, 'come up in 2 minutes'. It could be your mum, the plumber, deliver poo, whoever you choose.

But it's once in a blue moon I'd say, and I don't allow them back.
« Last Edit: 08 August 2020, 01:45:22 am by saltysweet »

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« Reply #42 on: 08 August 2020, 11:18:53 am »
Hi Kay

Yes you're probably right that he realises what he is doing.

 I have hinted to him that I do a 45 min booking too but unlike your fella he refused to take the hint and if practically dressing him to get him out of the door didn't get the penny to drop I think I'm flogging a dead ( and somewhat mean and entitled) horse! 

He has tried the old "I'm a  poor pensioner" line too .... Time I stopped being so soft and got tough! lol

Yep, in that case deploy Salty's tactics, and start wrapping up 25 minutes in.
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« Reply #43 on: 08 August 2020, 05:28:33 pm »
It's always been younger guys for me who have done this! And I see a lot of older (70+) guys.

But leaving that aside, my fix for this is to simply stop replying. You've already told him your boundaries (multiple times?) and he's ignored them.

If he never booked again, how much would it take to replace him?
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« Reply #44 on: 08 August 2020, 09:33:39 pm »
Yes I think his pride took a bit of a battering when I hinted at a 45 min booking instead and hurried him along that time  as I didn't see him for a while but he was in contact during lockdown ( as were plenty of others who still haven't showed up yet  ???)  he still hasn't showed up though, maybe he's shielding due to his age.

Talking of entitled .. think was a thread on it but made me laugh, a client who I only see twice a year for 30 mins and even then he tries to get a discount!? Messaged during lockdown saying he'd love to be my first client when I came back  ;D
Haha I bet you would was my first thought ... He still hasn't made a booking.