Realises how ugly society is. And how Online Porn and Social Media has completely destroyed men's understanding of women

For me it gave me my entire life honestly. I left home young and I had financial issues, no direction or idea how to take care of myself so young and had a lot of depression.

Like others mention it has made me a stronger person, ser boundaries and know my worth. It's given me 100% accurate intuition in my own relationships with men which is heart breaking in one mind but I'm glad I'm aware. I used to class punters and men on the street as different, but honestly they are all the same and I'm very aware of that now 8 years in.

It's given me a small business, it's paid for my education thay gave me 4 years in a professional environment which I hated but still did it and have the papers to show. It's given me fill control of my life, my mental health and well being, it's opened a thousand doors to my future I never thought possible, and that only improved how I value myself and my time.

I love hearing other ladies that have done similar and achieved their own goals through this it makes me a little teary eyed lol. I'm proud of us all life is fkin hard. And women are strong and we will do what we need in order to do what we want. It's given me freedom in this lost world

Dunno if anyone else can relate, but since starting this industry I have officially been put off dating. I sometimes let my guard down and end up in a shituationship. Which forces me to give eup working as I feel guilty. Therefore I lose my independence, my income, and more importantly my self worth. Only to find out they were cheating on me anyway?!
Never again, remember your value ladies. X

Relating! I think 'situationships' are a common problem nowadays, but I feel like being in sex work has made them a particular sticking point for me. I don't know at what point I realised that basically none of the guys I've dated (even the one's who have superficially 'committed') were putting any real feelings into stuff because they didn't want to get series with a prostitute. So I was unconsciously throwing everything at them (emotional, financial and sexual generosity) to try and 'make up' for it and to get them to try to value me, which they never did. I'd always then start to feel burned out with escorting, and lose ground on my financial goals. I don't have a personal life anymore and I've become extremely guarded with people, men especially.