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curvywench

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #15 on: 08 March 2024, 11:18:35 pm »
Yep  ;D I'm a grade A plus bitch who takes no nonsense from men, wouldn't own one, have one, rent one in real life cos they cant stay faithful at all. Even the nicest n best ones have wandering dicks. Just cant be arsed dealing with that in my personal life. Bad enough them telling me all about their wife n kids and how much they love them, ugh while being naked in my bedroom, all I can say is I hope the missus is off having the time of her life with some young fella haha

It's made me great money, cant deny that lol
Given me a confidence I didn't know I had,
I take no bullshit from men these days ( clients)
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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #16 on: 09 March 2024, 09:23:15 am »
I used to feel ashamed of my job, especially when my ex outed me to everyone.

I tell you what being outed best thing ever. You know who your real friends are. And others can just gossip.

I am now in late 30s and so confident. I don't like the work , (find it boring) but love the flexibility and money.

I am much more confidence in myself, don't care what people think of me and love spending my spare time enjoying things I want to do.

I choose to be single. I'm sure there are some nice men out there but I will never put my life on hold for another man nor fuck anyone for free unless I was getting something I wanted out of .

I value myself, my body and realise my worth.

You can either have the attitude of feeling shameful (which I used to ) or choose to feel empowered and now I'm definitely feeling empowered.

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Justine

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #17 on: 09 March 2024, 10:06:04 am »
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I have never felt an ounce of shame doing this work but there have been a few around me who have done their utmost to MAKE me ashamed. One still tries from time to time. This has made me a sadder person. Other than that it's all tickety boo ☺
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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #18 on: 10 March 2024, 10:08:13 am »
Quote from: Justine on 09 March 2024, 10:06:04 am
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I have never felt an ounce of shame doing this work but there have been a few around me who have done their utmost to MAKE me ashamed. One still tries from time to time. This has made me a sadder person. Other than that it's all tickety boo ☺
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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #19 on: 29 March 2024, 07:29:01 am »
Almost all of the above

I don't like the job itself but it does add a bit of spice to my life
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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #20 on: 06 April 2024, 10:45:53 pm »
I have no time for men only just see them during working .I'm happy when they have some respect and friendliness towards me during their booking  I don't want a relationship anymore it's been years since I was into someone .
I don't trust men or take them seriously
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Lushblossom

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #21 on: 07 April 2024, 11:21:35 am »
It is great that it stops us craving a relationship. In my experience relationships are highly overrated experiences anyway. I have had four cohabiting relationships when I was younger and was never happy so much as once to be honest. I

I am content in my own company.
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CocoXOXO

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #22 on: 31 July 2024, 10:16:55 pm »
Definitely made me more confident like most of the ladies here mentioned. Definitely gave me a lot of sex appeal I didn’t know I had but always wanted.
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Lushblossom

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #23 on: 01 August 2024, 02:30:30 pm »
My bullshit detector is now A1. I a m also very confident around men. I have no need for a relationship these days as I feel I am constantly pulling.
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nikyhall

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #24 on: 15 August 2024, 05:32:19 am »
Also made me more confident
 
Unlike you lovely ladies /super models  :) I have always been overweight size 20 to 22 and had low self esteem I hated myself but knowing I am desired and even a couple of regulars just book to be with ME and not fuck I know I am amazing
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Patricia

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #25 on: 15 August 2024, 11:37:47 am »
Quote from: nikyhall on 15 August 2024, 05:32:19 am
Also made me more confident
 
Unlike you lovely ladies /super models  :) I have always been overweight size 20 to 22 and had low self esteem I hated myself but knowing I am desired and even a couple of regulars just book to be with ME and not fuck I know I am amazing

Supermodel  ::)  doesn't apply to me and I wouldn't want it to. Far too much pressure to keep up "the look" and expensive too so I am happy to look real and as natural as possible and  I've done rather well in this job. There's something for everyone/man in this job and whatever size or shape we are there are horny men out there who want us.


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DarcyLady

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #26 on: 17 August 2024, 06:24:02 pm »
I can detect a liar or a timewaster from a mile away  :-X
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Sue69

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #27 on: 08 October 2024, 12:36:50 pm »
My confidence has improved.

I started after my divorce when I had been on dating sites and felt exploited as most men wanted sex and I went along with it.

Now I am control.
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Secretsatin

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #28 on: 08 October 2024, 09:26:33 pm »
Quote from: Lushblossom on 07 April 2024, 11:21:35 am
It is great that it stops us craving a relationship. In my experience relationships are highly overrated experiences anyway. I have had four cohabiting relationships when I was younger and was never happy so much as once to be honest. I

I am content in my own company.

100 percent. I'm so confident on my own. No way have a one night stand or sex for free now and they have too be really special for any sort of relationship.

I'd be a happy spinster rest of my life!
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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #29 on: 16 October 2024, 08:25:19 pm »
Quote from: Secretsatin on 08 October 2024, 09:26:33 pm
100 percent. I'm so confident on my own. No way have a one night stand or sex for free now and they have too be really special for any sort of relationship.

I'd be a happy spinster rest of my life!

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