im happy with my dogs lol,theyre loyal and all I need xx

Couldn't agree more, I don't need a man in my life but couldn't be without my dog.

Escorting has put me off dating civvy men, and men with low  incomes. I'm sad to say that escorting and having several sugar daddies in the past, has changed me. I will never have sex again, without some type of payment, financial incentive or gift. NO FREE SEX!!!  When I finally stop working, I will only date a guy that is financially stable. Before I started escorting I didn't care about a man's earnings, or what he could do for  me. I used to get cheated on and used alot by losers, because I had low self-esteem, and didn't know about my own self worth. Those men did nothing for me, while I did everything for them. I have not had free sex in 6 years, and I don't regret that one bit.

+1

This and the fact so many attached ones are dishonest cheaters.

Men have put me off men.

Both clients and civi lol

  Actually I agree 
I don't feel the any particular need.

When did it become normal for men and women to live together?!?

Escorting not put me off men I was going off them before I decided to escort and gave up on trying to have a relationship or having casual sex and decided to make money instead. I dabble with online dating and it confirms I'm happier not wasting time dating guys that don't stimulate me mentally or in bed. I recently dated a guy briefly and the sex was terrible, I'd had better sex with clients who mostly like to please me and not are lazy, Appreciate my efforts and pay me . I just want to concentrate on myself, Make money to afford to study and take care of my family. I'm happier curled up at home with my furry companions, Not that I don't think I'll be in a relationship one day but for now it's too much hardwork and sacrifice.

YES

Mainly the trust thing. I would really struggle with trusting a man to be faithful because I see unfaithfulness on a daily basis.

I see men tell me about their lives, and not feeling any guilt. They're only worried about being caught, so they plan things on the sly.

I would like to have fooled myself into thinking these are just a few, or a "certain type", but some of my nicest clients have wives and families; and I even think to myself, if I saw them on the outside, I would have thought that they would be the last to cheat.

Especially because sometimes they sit with me talking devotedly about their partners... yet they're here with me. No matter how much they love their family, they still need this bit on the side, and as long as they don't get found out, they continue to do it.

I never thought it was possible! But deleted an ex flings number from my phone the other day. Low and behold he trys to ring. They always come creeping back when u move on! To think I used to cry over these trash! If anything, escorting has made me colder and realise my worth. Focusing on myself is the best! Unless the guy can add something to my life, then he can get in line and pay me like the rest 🙅‍♀️

I agree 100%. I stopped working because I was seeing a guy who I thought was my life partner. Low and behold he turned out to be a wishy washy time wasting prick! I look back now and think what on earth was I thinking! I'm all about my business now and focusing on myself and really don't have time for men and their crap in my personal life unless he's super rich. As someone said before I think us women invest much more into a relationship than a man and if you look at the world as a whole there is always inequalities with men and women. I think in the long run the majority of them are more headache then what they are worth.

Escorting has not put me off of men it's the men in my civvy life that have put me off, one in particular comes to mind. I most certainly have decided I will never want or need one ever again  .

Absolutely. Any hurt, abuse, using and trauma doesn’t actually come from punters. I also haven’t seen bigger (sexual and general) entitlement and arrogance from anyone other than vanilla men.

I found this to be true. The majority of clients (not the deadbeats I screen out) treat me ten times better than almost any job title I've had to deal with over the past few years. In fact looking back I wonder if that problem was always there only I tuned it out.