This one's abit deep and I guess I'm wondering if how I feel is just me..
I've had bad experiences with men before escorting, exes etc, but since doing this job, my perspective of men has definitely changed permanently.
I now wonder if I could ever trust a man in my personal life. We see some wonderful but also unhinged men in our job and I find myself just disliking men as a gender in general now, even in my personal life.

Anyone else experienced this or have similar feelings?

This one's abit deep and I guess I'm wondering if how I feel is just me..
I've had bad experiences with men before escorting, exes etc, but since doing this job, my perspective of men has definitely changed permanently.
I now wonder if I could ever trust a man in my personal life. We see some wonderful but also unhinged men in our job and I find myself just disliking men as a gender in general now, even in my personal life.

Anyone else experienced this or have similar feelings?

I had problems with relationships with unsuitable men before I came into escorting, one reason I did was I figured escorts were treated better than girlfriends. To some extent I was correct. Yes there are horrible TWs out there, but regards the lying and deception I try/avoid internalizing or thinking about it. As long as punters and clients are ok with me I am ok with them.

I also recognise the guys who have many challenges, carers, disability, those who turn up with impeccable reliability, don't cause a fuss, always have the correct money, don't push boundaries. Yep decent clients.

Yeah done with them

I was pretty jaded with people before I started his job so in that sense my opinions haven’t changed.
I think the problem is with people in general. I have two brothers and they have both had women mess them around and treat them like shit. I keep reminding myself that it’s not something specific to men.  It’s just that men are more of a problem for women.

I think if you already have issues with men from bad experiences in normal life this job will show them in more of a bad light as all you see is a lot of men visiting us that are being unfaithful and it's not always the reasons they don't get sex or don't fancy there wife anymore it can literally just be that they are selfish and get plenty of decent sex from them but just want to shag other women.

I even have seen men that just got married a week ago and claim to be happy but still cheating. These are just very selfish, not very nice people basically what i call frauds. They hooked there partner in by pretending to be someone that they clearly are not. I understand it more if the spark has gone but you been together years and just started visiting hookers but not at the start and just got married.

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The only thing that has made me resent men is Tinder, any other venues men are just fine.

The only thing that has made me resent men is Tinder, any other venues men are just fine.

Same.

There are good men and bad men. Good women and bad women.

We do deal with too many absolute bellends in this job, but I’ve also met some really kind, loving, caring clients. I have a lot of love for many men I’ve encountered.

I think the industry attracts a disproportionate number of idiots, dysfunctional males and sexual deviance… it certainly shouldn’t be out benchmark judging a gender… and still somehow tinder still seems to be worse…