Let me start off by saying I don’t want to paint all men poorly in this post but unfortunately there’s a lot of pricks out there and this becomes more apparent to you when you start escorting. The name calling, timewasting, berating, fragile egos and more I’m sure most girls can relate.
The problem for me is I’m no longer able to separate the men in my life from the cunts I’ve met on my way as an escort. I’ve met a bunch of lovely clients don’t get me wrong who just want to make the experience as easy as possible for both of us. What escorting has made me realise though is a lot of men are pure and utter trash and I can’t seem to shy away from this idea. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want to date men in my personal life or have sex with them as they all just repulse and annoy me now. I find most men annoying and I know I shouldn’t but I do. Has anyone else experienced this as an escort. Or is it just a me thing.
I can relate to what you are saying, but I have a different experience. There are a lot of bad men out there, and maybe the population of men who are willing to purchase our services are a worse group than the rest, I don't know. If I get another degree, I may study that to find the answers
Men will also say that there are some real women cunts too, so figuring out who is worse at the moment is probably not productive.
What I've learned is that to succeed at escorting you need to be able to keep the jerks far away from you, your work, and your life. I've seen so many good women get burned out if they don't or can't do that. Screening in the beginning is super important, and sometimes you have to use instinct with your techniques. I've also focused on attracting good clients and retaining the regular clients I have. I find it rewarding to make someone into a long term client who depends on me long term and knows he can rely on me, and also realises what my expectations of his behaviour are.
Who are your best clients? What is different about them and what makes your interactions better than others?
Part of this job is doing more than just focusing on sex, but a little small talk, getting to know clients, and being a complete person with clients beyond just another SW goes a long way in this business. My memory isn't always the best so I keep notes to remind me of things we talked about. I learned some of my personal skills from my clients who are very successful in their fields and sometimes are willing to share what made them do well. That's not something you can do if the focus is only on how closely you can space 30 minute bookings together all day.
Of course any of us can get tired of men from time to time, even though we've learned to keep going anyway. I think that is why I have so many escort friends who prefer women in their civvy lives even though they like sex with men. But think positive, where else can you have as much sex and variety as you like, get paid for it, have self growth, and learn skills you don't even realize you have?