This one's abit deep and I guess I'm wondering if how I feel is just me..
I've had bad experiences with men before escorting, exes etc, but since doing this job, my perspective of men has definitely changed permanently.
I now wonder if I could ever trust a man in my personal life. We see some wonderful but also unhinged men in our job and I find myself just disliking men as a gender in general now, even in my personal life.

Anyone else experienced this or have similar feelings?

This one's abit deep and I guess I'm wondering if how I feel is just me..
I've had bad experiences with men before escorting, exes etc, but since doing this job, my perspective of men has definitely changed permanently.
I now wonder if I could ever trust a man in my personal life. We see some wonderful but also unhinged men in our job and I find myself just disliking men as a gender in general now, even in my personal life.

Anyone else experienced this or have similar feelings?

I had problems with relationships with unsuitable men before I came into escorting, one reason I did was I figured escorts were treated better than girlfriends. To some extent I was correct. Yes there are horrible TWs out there, but regards the lying and deception I try/avoid internalizing or thinking about it. As long as punters and clients are ok with me I am ok with them.

I also recognise the guys who have many challenges, carers, disability, those who turn up with impeccable reliability, don't cause a fuss, always have the correct money, don't push boundaries. Yep decent clients.

Yeah done with them

I was pretty jaded with people before I started his job so in that sense my opinions haven’t changed.
I think the problem is with people in general. I have two brothers and they have both had women mess them around and treat them like shit. I keep reminding myself that it’s not something specific to men.  It’s just that men are more of a problem for women.

I think if you already have issues with men from bad experiences in normal life this job will show them in more of a bad light as all you see is a lot of men visiting us that are being unfaithful and it's not always the reasons they don't get sex or don't fancy there wife anymore it can literally just be that they are selfish and get plenty of decent sex from them but just want to shag other women.

I even have seen men that just got married a week ago and claim to be happy but still cheating. These are just very selfish, not very nice people basically what i call frauds. They hooked there partner in by pretending to be someone that they clearly are not. I understand it more if the spark has gone but you been together years and just started visiting hookers but not at the start and just got married.

Not at all! why would you resent men for providing us with a fabulous life if we choose to put in the hours and hard work?
Yes there are a holes but they come in all shapes and sizes and in all jobs, having done a variety of low paid service industry/retail jobs I can tell you I would much rather be doing escorting every single time.
Assuming you are indie, the best part is we get the choose who we entertain and who we don't - who to block and never see again and who to respect and have fun with and get paid great and be creative.
 i adore men, i think they are wonderful, often misunderstood, mysterious can be really lovely.
you come across all kinds of men, ego driven, regular guys, the boring ones, then theres the gentlemen and those gems you make an intital impression of and they completely turn it round 360 once you get talking and connect.
I think it's all in the mindset and how you approach this work.
them being married or anything of that nature - simply has absolutely nothing to do with this work. it is nothing to do with us. Most of my clients are married because they are older and what business is it of ours, we wouldn't have a business if they didn't want to have some fun elsewhere would we.
Single clients can be lovely and they can also be A holes you just cannot generalise.
I find if you have a good attitude with the men, they will have a good attitude with you, it dosen't always pan out that way obviously but if you are screening properly and making the effort to provide what you advertise, you are also more empowered to make a booking shorter if it isn't going to plan / you aren't feeling it and never see that person again.
If you don't get on but have done your best, you can chalk it up to experience, you don't get on with everyone and nor can you please every single person all the time and that is the same in any field you work in. If the client is mature enough, they will realise this too, they don't call it ''punting'' for nothing and if they don't, then it is entirely their own immaturity and nothing to do with us.

The only thing that has made me resent men is Tinder, any other venues men are just fine.

The only thing that has made me resent men is Tinder, any other venues men are just fine.

Same.

There are good men and bad men. Good women and bad women.

We do deal with too many absolute bellends in this job, but I’ve also met some really kind, loving, caring clients. I have a lot of love for many men I’ve encountered.

I think the industry attracts a disproportionate number of idiots, dysfunctional males and sexual deviance… it certainly shouldn’t be out benchmark judging a gender… and still somehow tinder still seems to be worse…