I don't resent men no but if somebody is particularly ugly on TV/in a film etc. I notice more now as obviously not everybody is goodlooking and we are confronted with endless different faces etc in our job lol.  Not that it is their fault!

It's made me resent people in general. Escorting or retail or whatever other business it's all the same crap. Most want a discount/freebie, think it's okay to waste your time.

This is so true! I know a petshop owner and the amount of times people go in and ask them for a discount on livestock etc is just ridiculous!

People are so cheeky!  And it's usually men who ask for a discount too. I've never witnessed a woman do it in that shop 

It’s common for sex workers to resent men, nothing new here!

I don't think I ever realised how much men can just use you to prop up their ego and make you responsible for how they feel about themselves. It's like FEED ME! FEED ME! Some are like emotional vampires who will literally bleed you dry then move onto their next victim.

I have (stupidly in hindsite) seen 3 clients outside of the transactional environment, and regretted it every time. One just wanted free sex, one just wanted to buy me, was constantly popping over so it was difficult to work and again wanting sex on tap. The third (and worst one) fooled me into thinking he was leaving his wife and wanted a life with me when all he wanted was a constant ego boost. He was constantly on the phone, messaging, wanting to know details about bookings then getting all jealous. It became utterly exhausting constantly trying to make him feel good. I told him I needed space and that became the opening of the floodgates for his covert narcicissm. He bombarded me with bullshit, trying to provoke a reaction. Fortunately (or not) I've dealt with this before and you have to remain no contact. Whilst this was going on I found out he was actually still paying for sex with another escort! He really had me fooled and I think had we we lived closer and seen eachother more regularly, I would have sussed him out sooner. Now I would never date a client, ever and indeed I don't think it's even possible to date and do what we do for a living.

I'm resentful that disresprectful behaviour and language towards us is acceptable and in some way normal and we should just suck it up

I'm resentful of men who...

1. Think it's ok just to contact you without reading your profile, then proceed to ask question after question

2. Constantly call me when I specifically ask them not to

3. Call at stupid o'clock in the morning like you are not afforded a normal life

4. Don't make any specific requests before the booking then turn up wanting this and that

5. Cancel at the last minute, ok phone bill won't be paid today

6. Don't either know their own body and its capabilities buy expect you to... Oh I rarely come, oh right would have been nice to mention that 56 minutes ago!

I can never understand the discount thing either. I used to have a manager in Tesco hassling me for sometime always ringing me asking for a discount. Too which I replied to him if “Tell me, if a customer came into tesco and seen that a bar of chocolate was €3 and they said they want it for €1, what would you say to them?” Let’s just say I didn’t hear from him again after that.

Yep I use this same argument all the time.

I've had bad experiences with men in my personal life which has partly made me move into this work but since becoming a sex worker I now like men even less.

I'm just so cynical now although I know there are decent ones still out there.

There are many men who are total sh_ _ s but many who are really nice too.