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Author Topic: Has anyone ever turned anyone away cos they just looked horrendous?  (Read 6078 times)

Christinex

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As long as they are respectful and clean I will see them even if they have two heads, 3 arms and no legs And battered by every branch of the ugly tree.

Same here. I would turn down client only if he turned up to be indescreete prick or arrogant. Indescreete men get their appoitment cancelled and I don't care if they are outside of my flat. Unfortunately too many weirdos and my safety comes first.

Also if he call or text with unimportant information before booking. I can understand that some guys get exited but I am not paid to talk with them about their childhood or weather before booking. :FF

KayKitty

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Looks are irrelevant to me. The poor guy probably was just excited. If his hygiene was bad that would have been another matter, but some of the nicest people I have come across in this line of work have not been lookers.

Ellie B

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I have to say no, I have not. I don't think I ever would either. Someone being unclean or unhygienic is one thing, or if they make me feel threatened or worried... but I cannot imagine turning someone away just based on their looks. As long as clients are respectful and clean and discreet, not much more concerns me really.
Yes totally agree with this. Would never not turn away guys based on their looks.
Clean and respectful are a definite yes in my books.
I have seen many guys that are not attractive and sometimes obese, but are clean and have a personality so am more than happy to see them time after time.
If they smell horrendous there is not point in sending them in direction of shower and soap as they have no self respect and therefore will show no respect to us so what is the point?
Have you ever been in a shop when you walk past a guy who stinks and you hold your nose and feel nauseous? yes, probably - but you would not be intimate with him for any amount of money!


MelissaS

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I highly doubt you meant to come across this way but I personally think you came across quite nasty and maybe even a bit self entitled in this post.

I bet the poor guy was nervous and I don’t understand what relevance the fisherman’s hat has? Am I missing something?! How does what he’s wearing affect the booking? Unless someones turns up in some flourescent outfit with bells and whistles on that draws large amounts of attention to your door, which I doubt the fisherman’s hat did.

Surely for a professional escort and someone who’s good at their job, what they look like wouldn’t affect how good a service you give? It’s not dating is it?

I have seen a few clients where I would much preferred to not have had to sleep with them (maybe an understatement) but providing they are nice, polite and clean I still give them the best service I can because that’s my job and I’m not so entitled to think that I should only have reasonably attractive clients.

If someone is clearly unclean and not looking after their personal hygiene, that is another matter altogether and yes I would turn someone away for that.

Rosesugar

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I really wish I had not been so honest in posting before  so removed the info.
I do feel bad now but at the time I just couldn't go ahead with the booking
It was nasty and I shouldn't behave like that towards client's.
I guess I'm the only one who's ever done that here on saafe
I didn't mention fisherman's hat on
« Last Edit: 09 May 2018, 07:11:21 pm by Sugar xxx »

Nora batty

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I really wish I had not been so honest in posting before  so removed the info.
I do feel bad now but at the time I just couldn't go ahead with the booking
It was nasty and I shouldn't behave like that towards client's.
I guess I'm the only one who's ever done that here on saafe
I didn't mention fisherman's hat on

No you're not chick, I've done it when I first started.  And I bet there are plenty others on here who also have but just won't post about it or admit it, just in case they are judged etc.

Escorting doesn't come with a guidebook or rules, we all find our own way and all work differently and that's ok. 

DaisyDuck

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We are not a charity or a public service. We do what we want, when we want.

We don't owe anyone our services.

Obviously, it's not great to inconvenience people, but if it happens once in a while, that's life.

Funkymonkey

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I'm a terrible actress - at least my returning clients know I genuinely enjoy my time with them. I can't fake it. I don't usually even look out the window for clients as I'm usually busy getting ready but I do when I have a weird feeling about them on the phone.

BibiofLeeds

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Can't say I have turned away people because of how they have looked.I've turned people away en route because they have started asking inappropriate questions or have been arsing about when I've been directing them and made me feel very uncomfortable once or twice.Have terminated bookings due to bad manners or poor hygiene but not because of how they are dressed or because they are fat.Always I have made it clear why I have made a decision to not see i.e I'm leaving it there because I don't appreciate you asking me my tit size over the inercom or whatever.
Clothing comes off anyway so why would it be a problem?
« Last Edit: 11 May 2018, 01:03:03 am by BibiofLeeds »

Flamingopenguin

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Only once something similar happened to me, but he wasn't really bad looking, and it certainly wasn't looks for me, it was his hygiene and teeth, or lack of them, and his breath. he had about 3 really rotten brown teeth (so i guess you could say looks here!) and his house was full of animal faeces and smelt so bad, he led me upstairs to a filthy single bare mattress with stains on it and a naked poster of Jordan on the wall and i went into the bathroom after being given the money and i had a talk to myself about whether i could go through with this, i was so scared as this was my first year of working back when i was 18 but i mustered my courage, and gave him back his money and told him i just couldnt go through with it, and ran like lightning out to my car! i just felt so dirty there and sooo sorry for the poor animals that lived there too. I was also flabbergasted that some one could invite an escort round and expect her to not bat an eyelid at such filthy conditions! it didn't help that he kept calling himself a ladies man and a jack-the-lad too... generally i don't care about looks its all about how they treat me theres usually something nice and attractive about someone!

ladyofthemansion

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Would turn away somebody for bad hygiene but as long as he is pleasant I wouldn’t care what he looked like.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Missyblue

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 ;D I’m sorry for laughing... always say do want ure comfortable with. If he looks like a character out of a horror movie..pls by all means tell him “ sorry I can’t see you something came up “
If he becomes unbearable on the phone block his number and keep it moving

Charmaine

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Re: Has anyone ever turned anyone away cos they just looked horrendous?
« Reply #27 on: 02 August 2018, 06:03:54 am »
I would turn someone away if he had bad hygiene or was very obese