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Author Topic: Has anyone ever turned anyone away cos they just looked horrendous?  (Read 6079 times)

Funkymonkey

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I kind of feel bad but I'd rather turn him away than give a shit service and take his money. He called 20 mins early which was already annoying then he was just blabbering on about going round the roundabout again, like I don't care. You know when they just sound like a weirdo on the phone. Gave him the street name then saw him toddling down with a huge belly and fishermans hat. Text: sorry I can't do booking now. First time I've done that. Text a reg to tell him to come round instead. I'm a bitch but if it gets to the point where I'm feeling disgusting and only doing it for the money I need to get out of this business!

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If he hadn't been an idiot, you probably would have overlooked his physical appearance.

I once had a very obese man show up almost barking/grunting with every panting breath. He was sloppy, dishevelled, and grubby. His fingernails were long and dirty. His hair was greasy. I didn't have the balls to turn him away but I wish I could have: his personality was as unappealing as his appearance. Someone without enough self respect to be clean won't have respect for others, either.

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Yes, I turned someone away at the door once purely on looks. Covered, literally covered in dirt and could smell him from the moment I opened the door. Hair was hanging in greasy clumps and looked the kind of dirt a quick shower wouldn't fix, to make it better he was wearing an ancient hoody and jeans with torn up cuffs. I will see people if they look like they are a bit dirty from work and just need a shower if my location allows because can't really help where you work but this was vile. He looked like he had climbed out of a swamp then slept in a field, resembled the crazy smelly man you edge away from on the tube. Made my skin crawl and no way could I have touched him let alone anything sexual.

I don't usually care what people look like or wear but just a big nope to swamp people.

Funkymonkey

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Euuurgh treetop! Gag! Fair enough a lot of clients aren't exactly people I'd shag for free but yeah it was his weirdness on the phone that put me off and I considered not even giving my street but when I saw him I thought 'yeah there's no saving this one'. Go with gut instinct, should have sacked him off when I first thought it!

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I did! one came with his religion outfit and i was scared when i open the door! i turned out him but then i called him back and i made the booking. He was a genuine and polite, but honestly it was a shock.
another one because he sent a picture, he looked like a drug dealer...i did not made the booking even he was polite and allowing to pay a deposit. ;D
just 2 time in 3 years. generally i do not mind about apparence!  :angel:

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Dolita

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I have to say no, I have not. I don't think I ever would either. Someone being unclean or unhygienic is one thing, or if they make me feel threatened or worried... but I cannot imagine turning someone away just based on their looks. As long as clients are respectful and clean and discreet, not much more concerns me really.


Scottish Emily

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Personally I think that was very rude. He may have just been excited about the booking or perhaps a bit nervous. You should never judge by appearance. As long as they are polite and respectful what’s the issue. Not every client you meet will be gorgeous but they can be really lovely people.

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I swear I have shagged guys who look like Jesus identical twin, Quasimodo, Hitler and a few who looked like kiddie fiddlers.  When I first began working I would cringe at some guys, but with time and experience and a good imagination, it's what their money looks like that matters to me.

As long as they are respectful and clean I will see them even if they have two heads, 3 arms and no legs And battered by every branch of the ugly tree. 


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haha nora that made me lol 

I had one today whos genitals reminded me of a raw turkey , wasnt pleasant but hey ho part of the job and he was a nice chap! x

Christinex

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Yes I did. He claimed to be 62 but looked as 99 years old. Had mobility problems and was extremely arrogant. I will do saafe warning on him soon as he's turned up to be another stalker and sent me over 100 messages  within 2 days, found my real name and been lurking around my flat.
Also he's been trying to see me for more money and promising good punting review. I told him stick his money and review to his arse.
 I had to involve UM and police to make him stop. Only because I turned him down!

Lushblossom

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Poor you Christine that sounds like a horrendous experience.

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Once from my window came the most horrible and ugly man I have ever seen in my life, fat, dwarf his head came to me in the middle of my chest and I wanted him to enter my house because I felt sorry, but his smell was horrible because it was not hygienic, fortunately it turned out that he told me that he had forgotten the money home .... !!! wow breathe strong when he left ', it would definitely be a nightmare if it was genuine ....
Actually if they are very ugly I do not care, but when they are stinky if I get very upset ...
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battered by every branch of the ugly tree. 

:D

I've seen a guy a couple of times in London who is Chinese and his head is literally square, he looks like a stereotypical Triad thug. His looks don't put me off but he is a heavy smoker and I find that really off-putting. Even though he has a shower on arrival and uses mouthwash, by half hour in the smell returns because he's literally sweating it out.
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barbie88

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I have only turned people away on the phone if they sound weird or rude . In person I asked some one to leave once because they were  a time waster and was asking me loads of stuff not handing over the money they were shown the door. If there clean and polite I have no problems with looks none of them have ever been my type had a couple of heavily tattooed gents but they make me feel all nervous when a client looks like my type of guy . Every guy looks like Tom Hardy in my eyes I get my pennies and crack on ha x