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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #30 on: 20 January 2019, 10:37:09 pm »
To be fair its not very nice for someone on an escorts forum say "shaven looks creepy and not sexually attractive" We have enough of the general public thinking we're some sort of freaks from another planet simply for the the job we do, without other escorts judging our personal choice of pube fashion ffs!

I went for a full wax in Superdrug the other day (because I wanted it doing and they were advertising it, and they had an offer on) The girl was all 'ooh why do you want it doing, what made you decide to have full wax?' I found it really quite cheeky and rude.  (her questioning that is, not the wax lol)  ;D

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #31 on: 20 January 2019, 11:16:51 pm »
To be fair its not very nice for someone on an escorts forum say "shaven looks creepy and not sexually attractive" We have enough of the general public thinking we're some sort of freaks from another planet simply for the the job we do, without other escorts judging our personal choice of pube fashion ffs!

I went for a full wax in Superdrug the other day (because I wanted it doing and they were advertising it, and they had an offer on) The girl was all 'ooh why do you want it doing, what made you decide to have full wax?' I found it really quite cheeky and rude.  (her questioning that is, not the wax lol)  ;D

You make a good point, there's criticism both ways here and it's wrong. Just because some people prefer it one way and we like it our way doesn't mean they are wrong.

I'm not sure I'm convinced about either choice being 'cleaner' either, surely cleanliness is about how often a person washes and not whether they choose to have hair or not!

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« Reply #32 on: 21 January 2019, 12:05:34 am »
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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #33 on: 21 January 2019, 11:42:27 am »
A Brussel sprout isn't a person with thoughts and feelings. Also the opinion you expressed was about a perfectly natural  part of the person.
Haha I think you missed the point of my reply entirely.
I have the right to express my opinion especially on a discussion forum as does anyone else.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #34 on: 21 January 2019, 11:43:26 am »
To be fair its not very nice for someone on an escorts forum say "shaven looks creepy and not sexually attractive" We have enough of the general public thinking we're some sort of freaks from another planet simply for the the job we do, without other escorts judging our personal choice of pube fashion ffs!

I went for a full wax in Superdrug the other day (because I wanted it doing and they were advertising it, and they had an offer on) The girl was all 'ooh why do you want it doing, what made you decide to have full wax?' I found it really quite cheeky and rude.  (her questioning that is, not the wax lol)  ;D

Why is not even what I said!
As I said I can express my opinion. If people don't agree with it I don't care as it's just an opinion.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #35 on: 21 January 2019, 11:45:44 am »
Why is not even what I said!
As I said I can express my opinion. If people don't agree with it I don't care as it's just an opinion.

It wasn't you that said it Emily  :)

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #36 on: 21 January 2019, 12:36:01 pm »
My comment wasn't rude, judgemental or sexual.

No, it wasn't sexual and no one said it was. It was, however, sexist since you specified that you believe only women look 'horrible' with armpit hair and not that armpit hair is 'horrible' generally (therefore suggesting that you don't believe the same about armpit hair on men).

Describing a perfectly normal, natural part of the human body as such is most certainly rude, and we don't talk about people that way here. I'm surprised you don't know that.

As I said I can express my opinion.

Yes, you can. That does not necessarily mean you'll be expressing it on this forum.
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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #37 on: 21 January 2019, 04:32:39 pm »
I hate all the negative connotations associated with women who don't shave various body parts, I'm amazed if provokes such a strong reaction from people. I shave for work but hate hate hate when ive had time off and then having to shave a weeks worth of armpit hair off it feels like such a waste. Would never go back to fully shaving pubic hair, the ingrown hairs,the bleeding from having to do it everyday and trying to cover how sore it was up with make up wasn't worth it

Scottish Emily

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #38 on: 21 January 2019, 05:43:00 pm »
No, it wasn't sexual and no one said it was. It was, however, sexist since you specified that you believe only women look 'horrible' with armpit hair and not that armpit hair is 'horrible' generally (therefore suggesting that you don't believe the same about armpit hair on men).

Describing a perfectly normal, natural part of the human body as such is most certainly rude, and we don't talk about people that way here. I'm surprised you don't know that.

Yes, you can. That does not necessarily mean you'll be expressing it on this forum.

I'm not getting into a bitchy argument because I'm not that type of girl. My post was never intended to offend.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #39 on: 21 January 2019, 06:59:42 pm »
I've got a hairy Mary and I'm proud!

I was shaving my legs and underarms last night for the working week and realised I wasn't that hairy so I'm leaving it for longer. I hate shaving!

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #40 on: 22 January 2019, 11:52:41 pm »
To be fair its not very nice for someone on an escorts forum say "shaven looks creepy and not sexually attractive" We have enough of the general public thinking we're some sort of freaks from another planet simply for the the job we do, without other escorts judging our personal choice of pube fashion ffs!

If you are going to quote me make it correct. The quote was my opinion to my personal  tastes not a statement on behalf of all humans.. (I am bisexual and I do not like seeing what 'to me' looks like a prepubescent vagina) Which is a fact isn't it? - unless I am wrong and hair growth occurs pre pubescent?
My comment was in no way shape or form comparable to the OP's one at all.  To insinuate having pubic hair is unclean without backing it up with any facts is disrespectful. I apologise for using the term creepy but not for the rest, because being bald looks the same as a prepubescent one on the hair fanny scale of life!
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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #41 on: 23 January 2019, 12:01:13 am »
As much as I find the removal of body hair unecessary and unpleasant, this tired old chestnut about how an adult will suddenly resemble a ten year old just by whipping their pubes off has really got to go. I'm forty six and my body looks like an adult woman's no matter what I do to it; anybody who thought otherwise would have to be either blind, stupid or both. There are cultures all over the world where body hair is removed.

Any more of this tedious, stupid squabbling and I'm locking the thread. It's nobody's business what anybody else does with their body and if people can't comment without having a pop at those who do things differently then it's not continuing.

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« Reply #42 on: 23 January 2019, 09:11:37 am »
I'm hairy and have been since I was 17. I never ever shave my underarms or pussy, but sometimes do my legs and bikini line. I use it as my USP and earn bank from it. It's not a novelty for me, I don't even think about it anymore. I shaved my underarms for some content I was doing (I do shaving movies) and I didn't recognise myself in the mirror.

When I go out clubbing or sit on the beach people ask me about it, but it's more out of curiosity than spite. Women can be a bit harsh and my sister once told me it makes her feel sick. I can live with that. I think it's hot.
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