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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: UrbaneAspects on 31 March 2009, 07:57:26 pm
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So, I get this call at 7 am today from this guy (which didnt bother me because I know he can only meet early a.m.) except for this time it was rather spontaneous and I we didnt plan it the night before as we usually would. Still, I wasnt too bothered.
But, funnily enough he had crossed my mind the other week and I wasnt sure whether I'd be willing to take the booking a 3rd time if he ever called again (havent met in 3 months!). Reason being is the booking is played as he's the sub, and even though he enjoys the booking (and obviously), during the booking its this almost coaching session, and he knows Im not an experienced or specialized dom, but he likes me anyway. And Im talking about real dom, atleast a few hundred dollars worth of toys, harnesses, dildos, chains, whips...the whole package! And Im just not into that. I know I spoke with violette before about the dom thing, but since I meet enough clients who are just into 'vanilla' stuff, I decided not to really go into the dom thing lol. In addition, this particular guy always says, "Well, remember when you were doing this, a dom isnt supposed to stop (hitting, spanking, torturing etc.) just because I say no." And its like, I can get into the whole shit, but at the end its like, "You werent quite dom enough." Atleast he lets me know what he wants during the booking, but its still a "Do what you want to me thing" and I hardly know how to use some of that shit!
So this morning I was like, nah got plans today....but then I was like, in the 3 months since he's seen me I have gained alot more muscle and he'd probably be into it even more. In addition, when we first met mid-last year my rate was $70 less than what it is now and being the type not to change the fee, I'd just accept the rate. He also contacted me from the rentboy website (which rung to my new work number, something I didnt give him).
So, I could of used the extra cash but then again I was not feeling it. Maybe if he called the night before I'd been able to get mentally prepared for it and all and got my liquor. He wants to plan for 2 weeks from now, shit I dont know. What you think?
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ok so this leads me to another question. Now, as I mentioned above...say you had someone you seen last year at a different price (less) than what you charge now. Would you stick to the price you had before or would you expect to get what you currently charge?
Or is it more a matter of personal choice?
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ok so this leads me to another question. Now, as I mentioned above...say you had someone you seen last year at a different price (less) than what you charge now. Would you stick to the price you had before or would you expect to get what you currently charge?
Or is it more a matter of personal choice?
Depends on the client.
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If you're not sure whether you want to see an old client or not, you definitely shouldn't see them for a lower rate. It sounds like he likes you enough to pay the extra.
From what you've said it sounds like he's not being a huge pain in the ass, just trying to lead you in the right direction. I'd give it a try.
If you do see him again, ask him to write out a fantasy or two for you to read, that way you can find out what he likes without having to get it wrong first.
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If you're not sure whether you want to see an old client or not, you definitely shouldn't see them for a lower rate.
If you do see him again, ask him to write out a fantasy or two for you to read, that way you can find out what he likes without having to get it wrong first.
good idea...and yea, the more Im paid the better I perform! I guess I could do so, but like I said I'm just not crazy about doing the booking. Oddly enough I re-woke back up slightly turned on thinking about the last session we had done...something about someone being totally wimp can actually be a turn on if you think about it :-[. But otherwise its just not my thing really and with that type of booking I'm almost waiting for the hour to go up. Its just the coaching part I dont like.
But if he wants to write a step by step fantasy then I'd consider looking at it. Besides, how bad could it be I've done it twice with him already. I mean, its not even a 'sex' session its mostly me inserting different toys and hooking various 'hooks' and there's different paddles of different widths and....I just wasnt in the mood for that shit this morning! Like I said, maybe if I known the night before I'd be prepared for it. But then again, Im not too bothered by it because I almost feel its like acting or playing a role in a movie which feels exciting too.