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Ieaio

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #15 on: 28 March 2015, 09:57:38 pm »
well see that's the weird thing. I don't look at even my lover in the eyes, neither of us are into that. I just find it weird which is why i'm bad at it in my bookings. I kind of like sex faces, I think they're cute & it's a turn on for me, so it's not that I don't want to look at them for that reason.

I'm OTT with everything else passionate that comes with GFE lol. Kissing, feeling, even intense cuddling haha. But eye contact is such a hard thing for me. Doesn't it look weird when eyes are closed  ???

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #16 on: 28 March 2015, 11:31:40 pm »
Eye contact is great in relationship sex, and I don't mind it with clients at all. I do naturally close my eyes a lot though. If you really hate it, one trick is to look inbetween their eyebrows - but I would always try and look them in the eye if you do GFEs.
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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #17 on: 29 March 2015, 12:29:51 am »
When I'm on top I can look into their eyes and not mind it if they're staring at me although they often close their eyes or look away. When they're on top and looking at me I too feel cringey so start to play with their nipples or rub their chest and admire that! Don't know why there's a difference, probably because when I'm on top I'm in control but when they're on top I feel like they're trying to make me look at them, perhaps. It's worse when their faces are very close to mine. I think that's it :-\

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #18 on: 29 March 2015, 11:53:31 am »
I give them eye contact without being asked and I like it :) I always tell them in a sexy voice to grab an extra pillow and enjoy the show  ;D
Especially when I do a sloppy BJ with loads of saliva and look in their eyes, sometimes I wink, I smile, and they love it. Me too, I get turned on plus its an important part of a giving a good girlfriend experience...
Same goes for sex, kissing a lot and gazing them is a must for me.

I look at them loads too and they love it  ;D I think it gives the appointment a sexier more intimate vibe! Closing my eyes doesn't work for me at all because i like to connect with them and I find it strange when they keep their eyes clamped shut so won't do it myself.

I'm wondering if the escorts who close their eyes tend to be younger? Sorry if that sounds ageist but I feel more confident as I age and wonder if that's part of it? I've always kept my eyes open tho since the first sex experience I had. Now I'm wondering if I'm weird lol


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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #19 on: 29 March 2015, 01:04:46 pm »
I give them eye contact without being asked and I like it :) I always tell them in a sexy voice to grab an extra pillow and enjoy the show  ;D
Especially when I do a sloppy BJ with loads of saliva and look in their eyes, sometimes I wink, I smile, and they love it. Me too, I get turned on plus its an important part of a giving a good girlfriend experience...
Same goes for sex, kissing a lot and gazing them is a must for me.

I look at them loads too and they love it  ;D I think it gives the appointment a sexier more intimate vibe! Closing my eyes doesn't work for me at all because i like to connect with them and I find it strange when they keep their eyes clamped shut so won't do it myself.

I'm wondering if the escorts who close their eyes tend to be younger? Sorry if that sounds ageist but I feel more confident as I age and wonder if that's part of it? I've always kept my eyes open tho since the first sex experience I had. Now I'm wondering if I'm weird lol

Hiya,

No it's not to do with age...I'm not young. I just find it uncomfortable as looking into a man's eyes for me is about wanting to be mentally intimate with him and I don't want to be mentally intimate with this type of man x

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #20 on: 29 March 2015, 04:52:16 pm »
Eye contact is great in relationship sex, and I don't mind it with clients at all. I do naturally close my eyes a lot though. If you really hate it, one trick is to look inbetween their eyebrows - but I would always try and look them in the eye if you do GFEs.

I dislike eye contact but clients love it.
...if they insist:

I stare at the point above the bridge of their
nose where the eyebrows would meet.

They think you're staring into their eyes
but you're not.

It's an hypnosis technique to prevent
being  inadvertently entranced by the
patient's eyes. ;D

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milfy

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #21 on: 29 March 2015, 06:25:59 pm »
I give them eye contact without being asked and I like it :) I always tell them in a sexy voice to grab an extra pillow and enjoy the show  ;D
Especially when I do a sloppy BJ with loads of saliva and look in their eyes, sometimes I wink, I smile, and they love it. Me too, I get turned on plus its an important part of a giving a good girlfriend experience...
Same goes for sex, kissing a lot and gazing them is a must for me.

I look at them loads too and they love it  ;D I think it gives the appointment a sexier more intimate vibe! Closing my eyes doesn't work for me at all because i like to connect with them and I find it strange when they keep their eyes clamped shut so won't do it myself.

I'm wondering if the escorts who close their eyes tend to be younger? Sorry if that sounds ageist but I feel more confident as I age and wonder if that's part of it? I've always kept my eyes open tho since the first sex experience I had. Now I'm wondering if I'm weird lol

Hiya,

No it's not to do with age...I'm not young. I just find it uncomfortable as looking into a man's eyes for me is about wanting to be mentally intimate with him and I don't want to be mentally intimate with this type of man x

Hiya,

Thanks for answering! I can relate to what you say because in my personal life its really important. When I look at a client im looking for different reasons than with someone im not being paid to have sex with. I'm not looking very deep with clients at all. I'm probably working out the shopping list but they'd never know that  ;)

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #22 on: 29 March 2015, 07:01:57 pm »
Lol I do the face-pulling thing as well when I know they can't see me, when their head's are buried somewhere between my
legs for example and they've no idea what they're doing  ;)
I was doing it the other day and nearly burst out laughing, only just stopped myself..
Or I use the time to wipe away some eye make-up that's a bit smeared, all the while they think they're thinking they're
giving you the time of your life..   :D
I do this ALL the time! Pull faces when they're not looking I just can't help myself! It's the inner child in me haha.
And last night I had a client who "loved to give oral" and said he was great at it but he was absolutely shit! And I mean shit! I was rolling my eyes through the whole thing then had to keep reminding myself to moan and pretend it's enjoyable so he doesn't feel awkward or Bob his head up and ask if it's good lol!

Poor things some of them just have no idea hahaha x

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Re: Eye contact!
« Reply #23 on: 30 March 2015, 01:23:47 pm »
I know most clients find it a real turn-on giving them eye-contact when you're giving them a BJ, but I have to agree with Doedeer,
when you're in an awkward position it can be quite difficult lol.
Another thing I hate is when they're trying to make conversation when you're giving them a BJ, how tf am I supposed to answer
when I've got a dick in my mouth  ???
I end up kind of going; "eheemm ,mm , yehmm, mm, ahm eh" or take it out, answer, and continue, which kinda ruins the
moment  ;D
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