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Lil Lolita

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SD wont stop hassling me!
« on: 30 March 2013, 11:16:37 am »
My old work phone has been beeping this morning (thank goodness I had the sense to NOT use my personal phone). It's from the sleazy SD who is now hassling me after I said to him I am better than what he offered before, and wont stand for any more nonsense, to please leave me alone.

All morning, I have had texts saying "Darling, I dont think you are real" and other nasty things. I have said to leave me alone, I am worth more and I actually earnt more per hour in the sauna than his measly offerings.

When I was indie years ago, I never had this much hassle off clients (even the real TW's!). Sadly, there is no call block thing on the phone due to it being so old, and my inbox keeps getting full. It's ridiculous!!! Do I threaten calling the police? Ignore?  :FF

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #1 on: 30 March 2013, 11:48:02 am »
Personally I would tell him I am storing all texts he is sending and if he continues I have no alternative but go to police.  You don't need to go if it stops but if it doesn't I would.  Even a warning from police might stop the hassle.

I would also take stock of my life too for there seem to be a lot of dramas going on in your life and if you don't change some things then these dramas will continue and it could pull you down so far you may suffer more.

God luck.
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Lil Lolita

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #2 on: 30 March 2013, 11:56:46 am »
Lady Lust- look at the last post I did. I am actually planning on getting my new AW profile set up soon and taking control again.

I am really fed up with everyone judging and going on about "dramas". It's not very nice, we're here to help one another regardless of what may or may not be happening.

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #3 on: 30 March 2013, 12:03:29 pm »
LL I was just trying to help - not criticise.  I am not here to judge as I have made mistakes too.

If others have also picked up on this then maybe there is something there to be looked at.  Sometimes we can't see the wood for the trees.

All the best for running indie. I hope it works out for you.
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Lil Lolita

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #4 on: 30 March 2013, 12:07:46 pm »
Thanks, it just felt as though I was that's all.

I know it is applicable to what has been said; how I had these SDs, then thrush etc..

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #5 on: 30 March 2013, 12:49:23 pm »
I am really fed up with everyone judging and going on about "dramas". It's not very nie, we're here to help one another regardless of what may or may not be happening.

All I have seen on this thread are people trying to help you.  But really why should they if this is your attitude?  You have to be prepared to accept advice you don't agree with and not see it as people having a go at you.

I'm sorry but lots of people are having a hard time right now, you are not the only one.




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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #6 on: 30 March 2013, 02:37:15 pm »
My old work phone has been beeping this morning (thank goodness I had the sense to NOT use my personal phone). It's from the sleazy SD who is now hassling me after I said to him I am better than what he offered before, and wont stand for any more nonsense, to please leave me alone.

All morning, I have had texts saying "Darling, I dont think you are real" and other nasty things. I have said to leave me alone, I am worth more and I actually earnt more per hour in the sauna than his measly offerings.

When I was indie years ago, I never had this much hassle off clients (even the real TW's!). Sadly, there is no call block thing on the phone due to it being so old, and my inbox keeps getting full. It's ridiculous!!! Do I threaten calling the police? Ignore?  :FF


I would just change my number problem solved.

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #7 on: 30 March 2013, 02:45:43 pm »
I would just change my number problem solved.

So would I, to be honest. 99p sim from Tesco's - job done.

Lil Lolita

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #8 on: 30 March 2013, 02:52:39 pm »
I'm an idiot, I didnt think of that! Just about to head there now for shopping, thanks :)

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Re: SD wont stop hassling me!
« Reply #9 on: 30 March 2013, 04:38:33 pm »
You will also get a variety of servers in Poundland sims.  Also a pound believe it or not.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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