Been sat here trying to get my thoughts together so they come out in something resembling order.
'Somebody' is clearly and obviously upset.
That's the first thing I take from this whole thread.
She has a right to be upset if she is upset. If a person is upset, we should not deny them that feeling.
Not even if opinion is the person is unreasonably upset.
The fact that upset is present has to be recognised.
If that makes any sense at all? It does to me but I am struggling to get across what I mean. In my head, I know what I mean exactly, it is tough to get the words right.
So you don't think we too have a right to be upset of being accused of having a "gang mentality"? And also for the mods and admins to be upset at being accused of personal attacks on members, which, I might add, has yet to be proven.
Just because a lot of us share the same opinions, it doesn't make us a gang. And I'm happy to make light of it, because it's a ridiculous accusation by an anonymous being.
Yes, you absolutely should be upset if an accusation is levelled at you and you feel it is untrue. Absolutely.
Also, ditto for the admins and mods to be upset if they are accused of personal attacks.
Everybody is upset.
Somebody came on here clearly upset at the onset and now everybody is upset and it's all a bloody mess, frankly.
You have a right to defend yourself Brandy.
I have nothing but good things to say about you Brandy and as far as Amy goes, I like her, she knows this.
I just think that the joke about be in my gang is not appropriate here. The more that say it, the more somebody will feel her point is validated. In her eyes, given what she wrote in her first post, this is what she was talking about, she will feel ganged up on now. That is how she feels, what she said, it's not what I feel or I am saying.
I can not be the only person that thinks it is time to stop this now? That was the main point of my post before this one. Surely to God this has gone on for long enough and needs to be put to bed now?
Everybody has had their say and the more it carries on, the more it goes downhill and gets horrible.