I am steaming more than a locomotive right now! I cannot believe this has happened to me in all the months I've been escorting. I am absolutely disgraced.

I met a client Sunday at a rather posh hotel and seemed to have worked out pretty decent. Fast forward to tonight, this guy has me over again ( I should have known, its rare to hire the same escort in a 2 day period). I get there, call him when I arrive in the parking lot and he picks up, gives me the room number again and I proceed to go up. I knock, and NOTHING. This asshole had me drive out 30 minutes away and it was a big ass set up! Im fucking furious!

See, I thought I could get by and not do a re-confirmation of the hotel since I had just met him Sunday. He didnt seem rude or aggressive or reluctant in any way. We had a glass of wine at the bar when we first met. He was a pretty descent client. I am just...whats the word...flabergasted that this happened. I was so shocked, that I couldn't even leave a nasty voicemail. And I couldnt do anything because it was a big posh hotel, I knocked and knocked and called about a dozen times to no avail.

It makes me sick that some people actually use us, and equally hate us. Some of our clients hate us, plain and simple. I put my best foot forward during that booking, and this guy had to have so much buyer's remorse that he paid that he turns back around and punishes me for it? What the fuck kind of shit is that? Jesus Christ some people....

Joey, I have to take you to task here. You are not new to this game, by now you should have the same security protocol in place for a client you are seeing for the first time, and the same thing for ones you are seeing for the 20th time. These people are clients, no sharing of personal information, no visiting the family, and no bareback sex! It ain't rocket science! You said it yourself, and I quote : "( I should have known, its rare to hire the same escort in a 2 day period)." I am not trying to beat up on you, but at some point Joey, you have to be responsible for your own decisions, that client only did to you what you allowed him to do. Just be lucky it didn't end badly, and all that was wasted was your time.

I am in tears right now  

You wont believe this. The same hotel I was stood up at today, well I get another call tonight from the same hotel. There is a convention in town this week and I have gotten 3 requests to go to this hotel so far.

Well I have a guy book me from a totally different phone number (actually from the city I used to live in), I verified all the information, first and last name and hotel number and had the receptionist forward me to that room.

I get to the room, this son of a bitch is snoring and I can hear it from outside the room. This time I banged on the door and this guy was knocked out. I called the cell, I didnt even hear any ringing. I think he must have turned the phone off and fell asleep on my way there.

This is by far the worst night ever!

Again you are being driven crazy, because you are only hearing what you want to hear from these men. Learn to listen, not just with your ears, but with your brain as well. Also talk to people, look at the time they are calling you, and the chances that they have been out drinking all evening, and in an impulse call you, and you take too long to get there. Call them every bleeping 10 minutes, until you get to the hotel, and keep talking to them on the way into the lobby. That way you know the SOB is awake! Bleating on about woe is me, is that attitude that gets you into these messes. Grrrrrrr

Again you are being driven crazy, because you are only hearing what you want to hear from these men. Learn to listen, not just with your ears, but with your brain as well. Also talk to people, look at the time they are calling you, and the chances that they have been out drinking all evening, and in an impulse call you, and you take too long to get there. Call them every bleeping 10 minutes, until you get to the hotel, and keep talking to them on the way into the lobby. That way you know the SOB is awake! Bleating on about woe is me, is that attitude that gets you into these messes. Grrrrrrr

I'm glad you said it. Amen!

Im just going to try and not think about it right now...last night I dreamed it all over again and woke up with a serious headache  

remember it's a job, nothing more and everyone has shit weeks at work in any job, or bosses they can't get on with or who bully them.

Stress is not good for you, psychologically or physically. Take a few days off and treat yourself doing something you really like doing and spend time with friends you can trust.

Well, it'd be nice if I had some friends who I could trust...but that would involve me hoping on a plane to Florida. Hmmm 
But that is true though, Im sure if it didnt happen in this job, it'd be at some other job. And I'd probably get a better chance to punch someone's lights out haha 

I have a photoshoot this weekend, all this stress going on I can feel my face being covered with pimples in the next 24 hours 

Also talk to people, look at the time they are calling you, and the chances that they have been out drinking all evening, and in an impulse call you, and you take too long to get there.

It's for this reason I won't take a late outcall booking.  The chances of this happening are just too high.  Do you have a cut-off time for taking calls Joey?  I think I've read before about you getting really pissed off at calls/texts very late at night/early morning?  - do you leave your phone on all night?  I'm sure we all get stupid o'clock callers and listen to their voicemail message whilst enjoying our morning coffee  (and then delete the message without a second thought  ).  Don't regard these callers as missed bookings - be pleased you weren't available to take the call and so avoided being put through a load of crap.