Of course, after a lucrative week I get a buzz from counting the cash, but I'm talking more about the rewards that aren't monetary: the moments where you feel like you've really done something worthwhile and made a difference.
One of my regulars had a real issue with confidence as he thought he had a really small penis (he didn't, it was average). Today I got this text from him:
"Hi Amber, it's 'x'. I am now in a relationship but I would like to thank you for giving me confidence and making me feel better about myself. I wish you all the best for the future."
I felt so proud of my fledgling, and it was so nice of him to send me a message.
Another client was a guy with a sever porn addiction, who had not had sex for ten years, and was unable to, as he was so focussed on 2D sex. It took a few sessions but we overcame. His problems, and he has gone on to see other sex workers, but still checks in with me from time to time. It makes me feel really good about the work we do.
What are your 'feel good' client moments, other than the obvious