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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Gypsy on 26 April 2017, 12:44:23 pm
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Most of my clients are cliche. Middle aged, overweight and in a sexless marriage. But very occasionally I will have a good looking younger guy.
Well, my last booking was with someone who had the most gorgeous blue eyes and he was extremely good looking and smart. And I went so shy and flustered. It was pathetic, ha ha! Anyone else have the same problem?
Why do the fit ones get me flustered?
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I feel a bit wierd with traditionally 'fit' clients, then I realise they just want a good service like anyone else. Laddish types make me nervous that they are going to steal from me - which is stupid because I know from experience that older polite, educated or wealthy men are just as likely to be difficult and/or boundary push. And indeed some of the most notorious dangerous clients are not 'laddish'.
If he goes away with a smile on his face, I'm happy, and it does happen!
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I've met lots of God looking beautiful men and now I don't easily get mesmerized.
I think that shows... My 'numb' thoughts on their looks and they read this too...
And usually the time goes better than me drooling over their beauty. I think they appreciate I look beyond their looks.
Anyway... Blushing on handsome client is so cute... You are still a girly girl, clients must like you :D
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It makes me so nervous!
Like you most of my clients are middle aged, some overweight, some not, mostly married.
I've came across a few good looking ones and I always get flustered! End up stiuttering, saying the wrong things, once I banged my head into the door because I was too busy over thinking lol!
I much prefer the "average joes" or less attractive clients as it's much easier, when the fit ones book me it's as I've forgotten how to do things lol!
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I thought this was just me! Lol. I am exactly like this, but amazingly they end up coming back again partly because they LOVE the ego boost.It must feel better to them than someone being indifferent. When they leave I am on such a high sometimes, i feel like I have the BEST job ever.haha.
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I'm immune to good looks, I find these lads know they are good looking and try to use it to their advantage, I don't care if they look like Adonis or Quasimodo they all get treated the same once they turn up on time, fresh, polite and with the cash they're all desirable and sexy during the time they have paid me for.
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I'm immune to good looks,
So am I, but I do like a ginger :D
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So am I, but I do like a ginger :D
You are just plain weird Amy ;D
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I seldom find people attractive, I have a very particular taste so it's only happened once on the job and he was just exquisite and I just felt like a tarted up potato next to him. I'm glad I only saw him a few times his beauty was way too distracting.
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I prefer the middle aged over weight guys as they always seem so grateful, with the young fit looking guy's I really don't feel good enough and get really flustered and say all the wrong things ;D.
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Yep yesterday ::) I am not normally nervous with my clients but when I get a really fit one I fall to pieces. I don't half waffle a load of tosh! Trying hard to act cool and not make it obvious that I fancy the pants off them but difficult when you are practically dragging them into the boudoir, going all girly and giggly. Then having a go at myself after for acting so silly. UNLESS of course they are cocky with it, that turns me right off and brings me back down to earth with a bump!
You certainly get used to a certain 'type' of client and most don't intimidate me.
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No, so long as they're a good laugh too I just enjoy it. I find lots of different things to like about lots of different clients, and have shagged some stunning men in my civvy life, so am not intimidated by good looks.
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So am I, but I do like a ginger :D
Oh boy imagine Ed Sheeran but a bit taller, slimmer and darker version of ginger. I had that on Sun evening. And he was fun. And smart. Sooo hot. I like redheads!
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Most of my clients are cliche. Middle aged, overweight and in a sexless marriage. But very occasionally I will have a good looking younger guy.
Well, my last booking was with someone who had the most gorgeous blue eyes and he was extremely good looking and smart. And I went so shy and flustered. It was pathetic, ha ha! Anyone else have the same problem?
Why do the fit ones get me flustered?
Almost a year ago I opened the door and saw this most handsome guy ever. Like literally walking out of fashion magazine. Because he was really hot and he was really well dressed.
I started blushing and couldn't make a sentence. Then he asks for a shower and I just heard myself asking "can I watch?" Dear Lord!!!
Now it's a joke between us. I really like him because he's so hot but also because he's really sweet.
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I had an attractive client yesterday we talked for such a long time he was so nice and down to earth and with a great body but a little older than me I could tell.... and didnt want sex... it was great...
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I cringe when I get a good looking client with a fit body, not because I fancy them but because I just feel embarrassed :o
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I don't get embarrassed or feel flustered when a particularly fit young man (or occasionally a fit older one!) comes in. What I do think is I hope he is not on an ego trip as some of them are.
One extremely good looking man age about 30 sees me a couple of times a year and is always the same, quiet and shy. His personality is probably why he has no luck with women (he tells me he never approaches girls when in clubs etc) because his looks alone would get the girls interested but that is not enough when the guy is painfully shy and is no stud in the bedroom. Such a shame.
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I have never been flustered by fit ones. When I first started I would think wow and could not wait to start the action.
However my experience on the whole is especially the younger ones are disappointing in the bedroom and difficult to engage in an interesting or amusing conversation. Some are so quiet I end up doing most of the talking.
Most of my fave regulars are older than me as I find them easy to talk to, have a laugh and enjoy the sex with them. Could be because they are more confident and experienced.
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I have had some good laughs reading this post. I also get a bit nervous,during the first few seconds and I am wrong to speak haha then I try to take it naturally, if it's a nice pleasant guy I get along well , if it's too egocentric I feel uncomfortable.
I have few good looking regulars and now that we know each other it's more relaxed. I've been with many handsome men,inside and outside of my bedroom,but for business I do not know why its easier to meet a simple nice man.
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I have encountered a few guys who were, as the saying goes "fit but you know it" - and he's thought that just being fit, you should be grovelling all over him and giving him freebies.
There are some clients who I genuinely fancy and I would submit their photo to some kind of "I banged this hottie" website. (Obviously I wouldn't really do that, I mean hypothetically.)
But actually the clients who I tend to fancy and get a bit weak kneed over aren't "conventionally" good looking, there's just something about them that has made me go sploosh. The last major one of those was when I was in Chelsea and he came in and commented that I had a book out on the table by Chimamanda Adichie, and we then started talking about Amy Tan. If you're not a book nerd like me then this will mean nothing! We started kissing and cuddling on the bed and it was honestly more like a first date with amazing chemistry than a booking.
TL;DR - talking to me about female authors will get me wetter than just showing up with six-pack abs :D
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I have encountered a few guys who were, as the saying goes "fit but you know it" - and he's thought that just being fit, you should be grovelling all over him and giving him freebies.
There are some clients who I genuinely fancy and I would submit their photo to some kind of "I banged this hottie" website. (Obviously I wouldn't really do that, I mean hypothetically.)
But actually the clients who I tend to fancy and get a bit weak kneed over aren't "conventionally" good looking, there's just something about them that has made me go sploosh. The last major one of those was when I was in Chelsea and he came in and commented that I had a book out on the table by Chimamanda Adichie, and we then started talking about Amy Tan. If you're not a book nerd like me then this will mean nothing! We started kissing and cuddling on the bed and it was honestly more like a first date with amazing chemistry than a booking.
TL;DR - talking to me about female authors will get me wetter than just showing up with six-pack abs :D
I know exactly what you mean, I had this last night. Fairly average looking but just had that *thing* that I was really drawn to. It did feel like a first date fuck rather than work as well so I totally get what you mean!
Don't mind me whilst I just go and swoon in a corner...
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I had an American not so long ago. Looked a bit like out if a sit com, a little beardy, scruffy hair, blue eyes. It was like having the perfect one night stand x
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I Feel a bit shy if i come across a good looker, And then i start to become aware of my own body image. Good days bad days lol x
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I don't get embarrassed or feel flustered when a particularly fit young man (or occasionally a fit older one!) comes in. What I do think is I hope he is not on an ego trip as some of them are.
One extremely good looking man age about 30 sees me a couple of times a year and is always the same, quiet and shy. His personality is probably why he has no luck with women (he tells me he never approaches girls when in clubs etc) because his looks alone would get the girls interested but that is not enough when the guy is painfully shy and is no stud in the bedroom. Such a shame.
That reminds me. A few months ago I had a longer booking with a 30yo, a nice, rather nice looking guy. And suddenly he tells me I'm the second woman he's ever had sex with (!!!!). He used to have huge skin problems, underwent a few radical treatments and got it sorted in the end but it took almost 10 years.
He was a natural in the bedroom. He was just amazing, he was so good at it I couldn't believe it. By the end of the booking I was pushing him to start going out and told him I wanted to be his wingman:) He Was a sweetheart:)
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OMG. This. I prefer my clients to be average joes and thankfully, 99% are. I can only recall 3 men who I would say are conventionally very very good looking, one who looked like an A&F model, one sexy Italian who cooed sexy and strange Italian to me and one silent but stoic shorty. I felt like a right frump next to them. The first 2 I have never seen again and don't ever hope to. Easy on the eyes but left me insecure and frazzled. I like my men older and not as hot. I want to be the pretty one! ;D ;D ;D
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OMG. This. I prefer my clients to be average joes and thankfully, 99% are. I can only recall 3 men who I would say are conventionally very very good looking, one who looked like an A&F model, one sexy Italian who cooed sexy and strange Italian to me and one silent but stoic shorty. I felt like a right frump next to them. The first 2 I have never seen again and don't ever hope to. Easy on the eyes but left me insecure and frazzled. I like my men older and not as hot. I want to be the pretty one! ;D ;D ;D
Yes, my thoughts feelings exactly. I have NEVER fancied a client, but feel like when someone attractive turns up they want to see a Barbie lookalike.
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Yes, my thoughts feelings exactly. I have NEVER fancied a client, but feel like when someone attractive turns up they want to see a Barbie lookalike.
Well, no. They want to see you. It's your profile they read and it's you they chose based on all the information you provided.
For me them being extremely attractive is just a bonus. As long as they are nice and clean, after a couple of minutes their amazing looks don't matter that much anymore.
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I'll never get over it, i thought after 4 year it was just school girl error, but i still trip over my words and loose my brain when they walk through the door, I prefer the regular clientelle honestly because otherwise i'm just emabaressed over my lack of professionalism
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If they are a fair bit younger than me or my age, I am probably going to struggle with clicking with them, since I never fancied men my own age in my personal life. No matter the looks.
Other than that though, I don't find attractive guys intimidating. Most of my clients are within my dating age range (35-45), too.
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I Feel a bit shy if i come across a good looker, And then i start to become aware of my own body image. Good days bad days lol x
Omg this is also me exactly!! I prefer regular & not so attractive looking guys because I sometimes think that I should be paying the hottie's and its not a good feeling!!
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I've seen a guy twice now who is a dead ringer for Paterson Joseph in his younger years, who I've had a crush on for about the last 20 years. The bookings were so hot! Then after the second booking we had a chat while he was waiting for his cab and it turns out he's the same age as my son :-[
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I've only once had a client I was really attracted to, he was only 23 and really awkward and nerdy, exactly my type but I have a 'unique' taste in men shall we say ;D
Mind you I did have a guy once who I wasn't immensely attracted to at first, not ugly but not amazing but the sex was so amazing I definitely felt more attracted to him afterwards and was disappointed when the hour was up ahaha
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Im currently having a hot young guy parade... why on earth do they all wear CK underwear???
(Not that I mind:)
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Even middle aged ones do too. Rather that than white y fronts or ones that are too tight for them.
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I have this problem when I meet hot young gents in my personal life I instantly become a bit standoffish to try and hide my lust a little. It often carries over to good looking clients, I'm not as sweet as I would usually be at the start of the booking, and I literally have to have a conversation in my head like 'come on now, you're a service provider and he's chosen you, get yourself in character girl!'
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Years ago before I took my first break I did an incall day and my first client was gorgeous and I was sort of disappointed causes I knew (thought) my next clients would never match up to him. Low and behold the next client comes and he was like client no1 amplified by 10.
He'd booked half an hour and I couldn't even hide it how much I fancied him and it was obviously very clear I was having an amazing time as towards the end of the booking he whispered in my ear whilst he was taking me from behind asking if I wanted him to stay for a bit longer ::)
Normally I'd have been pissed off that he'd blatantly suggested staying for free as it was really cheeky, but I couldn't even bring myself to slightly annoyed at him. I laugh now looking back at it and I try my best not to show it.
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Years ago before I took my first break I did an incall day and my first client was gorgeous and I was sort of disappointed causes I knew (thought) my next clients would never match up to him. Low and behold the next client comes and he was like client no1 amplified by 10.
He'd booked half an hour and I couldn't even hide it how much I fancied him and it was obviously very clear I was having an amazing time as towards the end of the booking he whispered in my ear whilst he was taking me from behind asking if I wanted him to stay for a bit longer ::)
Normally I'd have been pissed off that he'd blatantly suggested staying for free as it was really cheeky, but I couldn't even bring myself to slightly annoyed at him. I laugh now looking back at it and I try my best not to show it.
Aww that sounds pretty hot, the whispering in your ear as he was taking you from behind!! Love it x
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Aww that sounds pretty hot, the whispering in your ear as he was taking you from behind!! Love it x
Yeah it was pretty hot at the time. He knew full well what he was doing. He was talking of arranging a second booking and then I quit for a while with the plan of never returning so I shut down my profile etc so he's long gone. Sad times :'( haha
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I've seen a guy twice now who is a dead ringer for Paterson Joseph in his younger years, who I've had a crush on for about the last 20 years. The bookings were so hot! Then after the second booking we had a chat while he was waiting for his cab and it turns out he's the same age as my son :-[
Ooh, Paterson Joseph, yum! I saw him in the all black Julius Caesar a few years ago.
Back on topic, I had a gorgeous Danish regular who made me feel shy because he was so extravagant with the compliments. One of his best lines was 'they make beautiful girls in England'. Knowing how gorgeous the girls are in Denmark (compared to plain old me) I knew he was just flattering me and it made me feel so weird about charging, ha ha!