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Maz

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Fishing for freebies
« on: 28 January 2021, 03:20:35 pm »
Recently had a couple of clients (one male and a couple) that have recently asked if I am up for meeting them for fun and being friends with benefits.

I know these come up often for girls but why can't they see that if SWs did it for the fun they'd be on Tinder or swinging sites? If I was booking an escort, I wouldn't dream of asking them that. Some I know just like to try their luck but I'm doing this to make money, not friends.

I like to give my best in a booking and provide a good service but think some believe in it too much.
« Last Edit: 29 January 2021, 08:17:33 am by Maz »

CelesteManchester

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #1 on: 28 January 2021, 03:42:53 pm »
“I’m happy to! That costs more though since I’m doing it outside my work time.”

Betcha they don’t bother you anymore.
« Last Edit: 28 January 2021, 06:59:49 pm by CelesteManchester »
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Maz

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #2 on: 28 January 2021, 03:52:22 pm »
I’m happy to! That costs more though since I’m doing it outside my work time.”

Betcha they don’t bother you anymore.

LOL

Cass

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #3 on: 28 January 2021, 05:18:15 pm »
I've had loads of this recently, not just with bookings but with content & online services. I often tell them they need to be looking on a dating site rather than a site where sex workers advertise their services but I doubt it goes in, idiots. I had someone the other week telling me I was 'nasty' for trying to charge for content on a website which literally exists to sell content. The usual January slump combined with lockdown is not good :FF

Kay

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #4 on: 29 January 2021, 03:33:10 am »
I had an AW message along these lines this week - a bloke saying he was due to retire and wondered if I could be his partner. I can only assume they think we're twiddling our thumbs due to COVID and are so rampantly horny that we'd shag anything with a pulse...
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

fallen angel

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #5 on: 29 January 2021, 11:28:19 am »
Recently had a couple of clients (one male and a couple) that have recently asked if I am up for meeting them for fun and being friends with benefits.

I know these come up often for girls but why can't they see that if SWs did it for the fun they'd be on Tinder or swinging sites? If I was booking an escort, I wouldn't dream of asking them that. Some I know just like to try their luck but I'm doing this to make money, not friends.

I like to give my best in a booking and provide a good service but think some believe in it too much.

Well it is a kinda friends with benefits arrangement, (since guys always seem to think we are their "friend" just because we have sex with them for money) and you are getting the benefit of being paid for it  ;D
Ask them why you'd want to change an arrangement like that.

Maz

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Re: Fishing for freebies
« Reply #6 on: 30 January 2021, 08:24:42 am »
Well it is a kinda friends with benefits arrangement, (since guys always seem to think we are their "friend" just because we have sex with them for money) and you are getting the benefit of being paid for it  ;D
Ask them why you'd want to change an arrangement like that.
Lol, good point! If it's not broke, don't fix it  :)