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xSweetCheeksx

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First ever booking today...
« on: 20 February 2013, 09:57:32 pm »
So yeah, it was at the angencies in call flat. I was a nervous bloody wreck. I downed a glass of wine before i got to the flat and one of the girls from the agency met me before my client was due and she told me to have some wine from the fridge if i wanted so i did, it didn't really help though. Anyways, the girl left just before the guy came.
When he arrived i was greeted by a 5ft9ish, chubby middle aged guy. He was really nice to be fair and cause he liked to chat as well it put me at ease. So he gave me the money straight away, i got him a drink and we sat and chatted for about 5mins. I offered him a shower, he said he'd showered before he came so no and then he didn't want a massage either (gutted). He then asked to go to the bedroom and we started kissing. My god his breath tasted horrible. Yuk! What was worse as well was that he proper loved french kissing. I just kept thinking of the money. Anyways, started feeling and groping ect and then he wanted a BJ so i did and i swear he can't have had a shower cause it tasted cheesy  :-X Then he did oral on me, i'm not a big fan of that but he took a while which is a bonus i guess and i just laid back and thought of David Beckham lol. He was hinting at bum fun but i put him straight and said i do nothing anal related which he was fine with. Then did the full deed, surprised how much sodding energy he had to say he was quite a big guy weight wise. Anyways, finished off with oral on him but i won't do come in mouth which he was also fine with. Then we chatted, he got dressed and went. Quite easy and the hour did go fast. I still don't know how i feel about escourting and if it's for me, i'm just gunna see how it goes. xx
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #1 on: 20 February 2013, 10:12:26 pm »
hi :) first thing i think you need to know is that everything is at your discretion hun! agencies aren't always so hot at ensuring you're aware of this, when you first start i guess most of us have been easy prey. its upsetting to see girls getting treated this way once you get to grips with this job.
anyway keeping it brief as im on a phone..
if his penis is unclean there is nothing wrong with (politely) asking him to wash.
if his breath is awful you can tell him  you do not offer that service (French kissing) you can do this and then offer whatever services you decide to the next client.
it is all your choice there and then and you are free to change your mind at any moment. the agency work for you!
people will take advantage even without always realising what they're doing. you have to look after yourself, don't be manipulated. also maybe don't let clients know just how new you are, some will see that as a green light to take the piss
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #2 on: 20 February 2013, 10:15:29 pm »
ps id suggest condoms for oral. when i first started i did oral without, i didnt  have a clue.
i know rubbers yucky but better than the alternative (sti's!)
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #3 on: 21 February 2013, 12:09:28 am »
the little match girl, thanks so much for the advice. You're so right and I need to keep telling myself that. At the end of the day it's my body therefore my choice what I do and don't do.
As for oral, I'm down on the site as oral without condom. Is it really easy to get STIs orally? On my profile, all I offer is GFE, FK, STRIP, MASG and OWO, I feel the pressure to do oral without a condom because all the other girls on the site offer wayyy more than i do so i figured i need something to look as appealing as them  ::) xx
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #4 on: 21 February 2013, 12:59:52 am »
well its every girls decision, there's a few threads discussing it c(try searching) and i can only tell you how i feel about it but i wouldn't let what other girls offer sway you.
. i have no problems getting clients, i started out doing oral without and I've noticed no dif
ference.
also wouldnt  you rather lose a few quid and be happy with your job?
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #5 on: 21 February 2013, 01:13:42 am »
ps yes you can contract most sti's orally. for instance you can get chlamydia in your throat which can then be passed on to genitals.
have a Google, also your gum clinic can provide you with all this info.
id advise popping in as they gave me loads of advice (as well as important hepatitis b vac which is a good idea to get doing this job)
also i get all my condoms free from there
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #6 on: 21 February 2013, 07:39:28 am »
Searching the forum for the many previous threads discussing OWO vs OW is a good idea, and visiting the GUM clinic for a chat with a doctor or nurse there is even better. I say this as someone who offers OWO (but I wouldn't if I were working on a more full-time basis, and definitely do not if the client is not spotlessly clean) - you need to be making a fully informed decision about every service you offer.

It may be worth noting, also, that agency websites will often *say* that all sorts of services are on offer when they're actually not. I remember seeing an "oriental agency" website full of fake pictures stolen from real models/actresses, and profiles that stated that ALL of these 'escorts' just adored anal sex and CIM and watersports and everything else. And then I remember checking the Pnet reviews on that agency and seeing an awful lot of complaints about misleading advertisements! So you mustn't really believe anything you read on an agency website. Indie escorts HAVE to (generally) be more honest in our marketing because otherwise we ruin our reputation which would naturally have a devastating effect on our business and income. But agencies rely on a steady stream of newbie escorts and clients with more money than sense.

That said, congratulations on your first booking; it sounds like you did really well despite Mr Newbie Shagger being sure to see if he could get you to do extra services (and without even washing himself properly first!). Well done for sticking to your guns. :) I can all see that you wanted to be honest and reliable regarding your stated services (OWO), which is great but, yes, do insist on perfect hygiene and never be afraid to stop and give a cute giggle and say, "Oops! It's a bit stinky down here! Would you like to go and wash properly or shall I use a condom for oral?" if they smell - they are guaranteed to leap into that shower and scrub up properly then!

(The vast majority of clients are respectful and clean, mind; the few "I don't need a shower I had one last week!" types let everyone else down so should be dealt with firmly. I think sometimes some mums forget to tell their offspring that adulthood requires daily washing!)
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #7 on: 21 February 2013, 12:49:08 pm »
hi :) first thing i think you need to know is that everything is at your discretion hun! agencies aren't always so hot at ensuring you're aware of this, when you first start i guess most of us have been easy prey. its upsetting to see girls getting treated this way once you get to grips with this job.
anyway keeping it brief as im on a phone..
if his penis is unclean there is nothing wrong with (politely) asking him to wash.
if his breath is awful you can tell him  you do not offer that service (French kissing) you can do this and then offer whatever services you decide to the next client. it is all your choice there and then and you are free to change your mind at any moment. the agency work for you!
people will take advantage even without always realising what they're doing. you have to look after yourself, don't be manipulated. also maybe don't let clients know just how new you are, some will see that as a green light to take the piss

Saying he smells a little sweaty and you are not willing to go down there is perfectly fine,maybe he will take his hygiene more serious for the next booking he makes.I think saying to a client that you don't offer a service he is after is likely to get you into a spot of bother if he complains.I'd most likely say something he has eaten makes me feel a little nausea than say I don't offer a service.If you have a way with words let him know he has halitosis and you prefer fresh smelling breath,sometiimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

Try and sort out with the agency what service you want to offer, don't let them call the shots for you in order to get clients in on false pretence just because they want  to make money. It's you at the end of the day that has to perform the services while they sit back and rake in the money.
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« Reply #8 on: 21 February 2013, 07:56:54 pm »
ahhh Sweetcheeks you did it !!!!  well done babes, go Indie now chick !!!  you can screen your own clients, keep all that lovely dosh and hieghten your own gut instinct xxx well done again xxxxx
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Re: First ever booking today...
« Reply #9 on: 22 February 2013, 09:31:25 pm »
Thanks guys, defo don't think i'm ready for Indie yet though. How do you know you're going to be safe ect? xx
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Just have to tell you about my 2nd booking...
« Reply #10 on: 22 February 2013, 09:44:45 pm »
So i put on here the other day about my first ever escort experience and that basically it wasn't a bad experience, he was just nothing to look at and i thought this is how it will always be. Wrong!!!...

Could not believe my eyes yesterday when i got my second client. I think i was more nervous than the first time tbh. Well anyways, opened the door to be greated by an absolute hottie! He was about my age (20something) and was really good looking. Tall, dark and handsome basically. I felt instant relief. He said it was his first time with an escort which was even more relief for me. He said he was nervous ect so we sat and chatted for a little while and then got down to business. I gave him a lapdance (he couldn't believe i've never professionally lap danced before, real confidence boost). I could tell he was nervous. We kissed (good kisser), gave him oral then on to sex (me on top). Was all going so well but then he wanted to go on top and then neither of us could get it back in. I felt ridiculous but then went he suggested doggy, he couldnt get it in so i had a go but it was far too soft. When he was having a good feel down there though he couldn't believe how tight i was. Is it my fault it woudln't go in? It went in fine when i was on top, i felt so bad but he seemed pretty in experienced and i'm not the most experienced ever. Least the good thing about the old guy the day before is that he knew what he was doing and i didn't have to worry about getting it in. Anyways, he seemed happy when he said to just finish him off with oral but i can't help but feel like a failure for the sex part  :-\ 
« Last Edit: 22 February 2013, 09:47:29 pm by xSweetCheeksx »
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Re: Just have to tell you about my 2nd booking...
« Reply #11 on: 22 February 2013, 09:53:15 pm »
hi this has happened to me with clients numerous times; the cock won't go in or at  time falls out goes soft its not always going to come twice. its not your fault and the male anatomy is occasionally unpredictable !

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Re: Just have to tell you about my 2nd booking...
« Reply #12 on: 22 February 2013, 09:56:13 pm »
Oh thank god for that. That makes me feel so much better lol, i thought it was me being useless lol. x
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Re: Just have to tell you about my 2nd booking...
« Reply #13 on: 22 February 2013, 10:06:40 pm »
Oh thank god for that. That makes me feel so much better lol, i thought it was me being useless lol. x
no its the cocks manufacturing fault !

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Re: Just have to tell you about my 2nd booking...
« Reply #14 on: 22 February 2013, 10:21:30 pm »
Oh thank god for that. That makes me feel so much better lol, i thought it was me being useless lol. x
no its the cocks manufacturing fault !
Lmao!  ;D
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