Whilst I don't mean to be escort-negative, I notice my stress level is a lot lower when not meeting men who are demanding.
Some regs. sending derogatory messages, demanding services I don't enjoy. I often feel they have some sort of misogyny underneath. . . I have seen some posts, men wanting everything as cheap as possible. I see that myself , too. Once I get that vibe, I distance myself.
There are some nice men. Unfortunately, not all of them are.
Good luck to all the ladies moving on.