I used to allow clients to do this and put up with it for about 18 months before I just couldn't take the anxiety anymore because only very rarely did someone do it right which meant I couldn't even relax properly for those who do it properly because of the amount of times I was hurt and stretched.

I completely tense up which means it's actually very uncomfortable even for those who do it correctly.

I've had clients come in (baring in mind, I'm fresh out the shower so as dry as the sand) where they have started kissing me for 1 second and went right in there forcing a couple of fingers in while I'm completely dry and not turned on in the slightest because a women's body's take a little longer than a second to relax and juice up.

So the alternative is to put some lube on (which I tried many times) and that's where I got people slipping and cutting me or getting far too carried away.

One time someone slipped and managed to scratch my entire clit which made it very sore when going to the toilet and I had to take a couple of days off as I had an open wound on my clit. That was the last time I allowed fingering.

Some people are more sensitive than others and I guess maybe I am sensitive down there as I can also only see a couple of clients a day without starting to feel the strain on my bits.

I have guys complain occasionally that I don't offer fingering but why should I do something that hurts me in order to please them when the simpler solution is for them to pick someone else who does allow fingering?

Maybe we should just jab a few dry fingers up their hole and we'll see how they like it 

Thoughts?

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Hello
Just wanted to tell you that if you give your clients to use finger condoms (you find them at the pharmacy its not called finger condoms but it s a protection if you have a cut etc) then its safe for you because lots of men have dirty hands, cuts, verruca, fungi...

Actually I had one client in Aberdeen do this (Only it was an actual proper condom he used over his fingers) and it was actually very pleasurable because there was no risk of being cut etc and was obviously hygienic but I think most men who enjoy fingering would find this method too sterile and therefor not enjoy it x

Absolutely despise it!

Never offered it and never will. Ewwww their dirty fingers   

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I had one man recently, 1st time, ask to use a rubber for fingering with just one of my normal ones as he said he was worried about his nails possibly hurting me.

I like it to a degree so allow it and 80% of guys do it but I find lots of older men do it quite roughly. I lube up just before they arrive and I don't mind 1 or 2 fingers up especially if I'm enjoying it but sometimes I'm not particularly so if they do the blasting with 4 fingers I stop them, especially if I'm drying up! I think with some of them, they've been married 20 or 30 years and they might not do these things with their partners so they let loose when they pay for it because I've rarely had a young client do rough fingering on me.

It was a young client getting carried away that cut me the last time I ever allowed it.

I don't know if some clients thank that prossie's have this unnatural, indestructible leather fanny or what that means they can just really go for it but we're only human and some are more sensitive than others.

I have some clients who enjoy barely being touched and others who like the death grip so I like them to guide me or tell me what they like as I'm not a mind reader but moral of what I'm saying is....men are all different too and some are more sensitive than others.

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Absolutely hate it if done vigorously. 

Whilst I am happy to allow a little bit of mild (one finger, two max) play, once they start pushing in like they are plunging a blocked sink, I say whoa!!!!! 

The other day a real arrogant one tried to shove more in there then I allow so I told him, one finger only (even though I do allow two) because he pissed me off so much, I thought right mate, now you getting less then I would normally allow.  If I said I don't allow a bloody four finger pounding, it means I don't! 

Some just don't have a clue do they ? 

Only in private life!!

I don't mind being fingered per se, but I do find that many of them can't do it without annoying me in some way. I actually prefer being fingered internally, by the way, to having them seek out my bare clit and rubbing the fuck out of it. (When they try to focus too hard on the clit I start to hump their hand like I'm horny so they can't keep rubbing it one spot.) I can honestly say that I've never minded being touched "too lightly." I  mean, if they go very soft and featherlike, it will absolutely turn me on. The same goes for RO.

 Internally, what annoys me is when they do what they think is the super-expert G-spot thing and strum the fuck out of what feels like my bladder.

For the cleanliness aspect, there are a couple of things I do. One is, obviously, to encourage them to take a shower or at least "freshen up" and wash at the sink. Another is to give them a thorough cleaning with hot, scented towels at the start of the booking. When I take the cloths out of the warmer, they are too hot for their genitals so I start with their hands and give those a good wipe. I can get a good look at their fingernails when they are doing this. If they look ragged, long, or dirty I won't let them finger me (and when they go to do so I will take their hand and look at it in front of them and say "I'm afraid these aren't really suitable for fingering inside." Most men are too abashed to argue.

The warm cloth now being cooled enough to go on the genitals, I will wipe around their balls and pull back the foreskin to make sure there's no cheese. If there is a lot of smegma, I may remark on it and say that oral will have to be covered. Again, they're too embarrassed to argue - as they should be. Finally, I will go down into their crack and freshen up the anal area.

I love fingering, it really does it for me. Most guys can't do it hard enough for my liking 

But the one thing I'm terrified of is sharp nails. Miss K that sounds awful about him scratching you, it made my eyes water reading that.

So when they put their hand down to finger me, I run my thumb over their nails gently and in a subtle manner to check there's no sharp points. If there are then I whip my little nail file out of my bag, and file at top speed furiously until their nails look safe enough to make contact with my foof 

xxx