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Jadine

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Delaying your other plans .
« on: 21 July 2021, 02:39:42 pm »
Is it only me or does anyone else if they have a shit day decide to do something else like go out ect  , you get ready then someone wants a booking, I take a gamble if they will turn up on how they come across in messages but nothing worse if they do not , I hope this one shows later or I be fuming , not bad if it’s someone you seen already as you know they arrive but not if you haven’t met a new one .

Mirror

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #1 on: 21 July 2021, 04:52:42 pm »
I've dropped plans then been let down, so generally no.


Jadine

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #2 on: 21 July 2021, 08:18:36 pm »
I done that so many times messed up stuff I needed to do and  put a stop to it but as I needed money  I chanced today to see if he come and at least he showed after all , but usually I tell them no once I made mind up go out , I don’t think unless I really skint I would do it all the time as just can’t rely on them .

Femme fatale

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #3 on: 21 July 2021, 09:47:23 pm »
After a certain time I switch off with frustration at being kept waiting by too many tw
I had quit early on many occasions and just went out .today ,went for a drive just for a change of scenery .

Jadine

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #4 on: 21 July 2021, 11:15:51 pm »
Same here
I just got back into the gym started boxing and rather than sit around when it’s tws ect I rather go there than getting pissed off and stressed out waiting around .

Sophine88

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #5 on: 22 July 2021, 05:20:28 pm »
This is one of those things that have fucked my trust up in clients. I had a half an hour before post office closed one day and I really needed to go but I had been dead all day in terms of clients so when one guy called as I was about to go out and sounded genuinely so nice. He no showed me after I even told him I was tight for time. I was so pissed.

It’s such a gamble and it’s hurt my relationship with friends in the past too. I’ve sometimes gone home to take an appointment when I was out with my friend if it was particularly dead one day. She wouldn’t talk to me for days after doing this once and the arsehole didn’t even turn up anyway.


Lushblossom

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #6 on: 24 July 2021, 06:27:18 am »
Sophine your friend was unsupportive she needs to understand self employment..

Femme fatale

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #7 on: 24 July 2021, 08:31:54 am »
I will never prioritise these punters anymore

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #8 on: 24 July 2021, 11:23:23 am »
Once l decide l am taking time off to spend with friends or family l stick with it. I made mistakes in the past of putting work first but no more.

If l have to go shops or bank l will wait till quiet. But once my clothes are on and l am heading out l don’t wait behind.

Today is looking like TW central and l am tempted to go out but l know the phone will start to ring if l do and l know if l stay in it won’t 😂
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Harriet_Lille

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Re: Delaying your other plans .
« Reply #9 on: 26 July 2021, 11:43:00 am »
I've had days when I've had nothing but timewasters before midday so I've just turned off my phone and removed my availability, and then I've either done housework or spent time with the kids. If they or someone asks I just say that I had a few meetings but they were cancelled and that was that.