Weeeeeeellll, now I can say thats 1 thing men have an advantage (whereas I thought by us having a penis, and sex being mostly mental that its not always easy to 'rise to the occasion' during stressful or off-guard moments!). But thankfully we have certain 'medications' on the market that can help us 'spring' to action even in the least of moments. And having a drink or 2 can switch me into any mode I have to be in. Chardonnay, Merlot, cabernet sauvignon, shiraz! Hello!   

Lol...you are funny. 
Having a couple of drinks would just send me to bed. Far from putting me in the mood.

I had never discussed drugs or alcohol with this person,  so was gobsmacked when he came up with that one. Needless to say I said "No" then turned my phone off since he was continuously texting me to say he'd get the coke etc etc.

 

That's the problem isn't it? Some clients are under the impression that all working girls drink and take drugs. This is one of the reasons we get phone calls at stupid o' clock wanting to see us now, because they assume, not only that we're up 24hrs a day, but also that we're all taking drugs to stay up 24hrs a  day.

He was probably used to taking coke with other working girls, so didn't think it was an outrageous thing to suggest. Probably couldn't even understand your outrage.

Always weary of someone offering more money or saying money is no object but then I am a very cynical and suspicious person !!

Just finishing up my tour, flying home tomorrow, and decided 11pm was cut off time, had a 10:30, texts me to say he is running late, can he come at 11. I texted back saying, sorry, but no. It is a quiet area and there is also a security guard walking around, and the front door bell to the complex is broken! I have been putting out thrash, and talking 'smoking breaks' in a subterfuge to keep the door open when clients come a knocking all during the day, so I said enough is enough. Well this tosser kept texting me, about how lonely he is, then the asshole invites me out for a drink, because "he is new to this, and wants to see me!" FFS, my instinct was telling me to leave it alone. Glad that I did, but he just realized I wasn't going to play along and kept trying to push the button. Which made me more determined to not see him.  Wanker!

I don't blame a guy for trying or for not reading my site properly, but if he is persistent after one or two NOs it smacks to me of disrespect and throws the question up: When else will he not take no for an answer? Maybe when we are in bed and he suddenly wants bareback or anal?

Very true, I didn't even think that far. Just how annoying and disrespectful he was with his persistence.

As Violette says boundaries are there for a reason and anytime I have stretched one of mine, escorting or non-escorting ,I have ended up feeling cheap and nasty or bad in some other way.

Not to mention a touch of resentment. To yourself for letting yourself be talked into something you really don't want to do and towards the person who's talked you into it.

The same person text me again this past Saturday night at 9.30pm, again asking to see me now. I wasn't going to bother texting him back but I was compelled to ask him, "If I didn't cum to c u on Mon. nite, y wld u think I'd cum 2 c u so much l8r on a Sat. night??" He replied that he thought it would be different on a Saturday. I'm not quite sure what that means. As far as this job goes, all the days are the same to me. If anything, the weekends are slightly more sacred. If there was a minute chance on the Monday, there's even less chance at the weekend.
The problem is, he sees it as Saturday night fun, whereas obviously it's work to me. Who wants to go out to work at such short notice on a Saturday night, especially if you don't have a driver to take you back home?