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MissFlint

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Fed up!
« on: 29 January 2015, 09:14:36 pm »
I've had a seriously bad month, like many of the girls it's been very quiet but the calibre of clients seems to have gone downhill too! Thank God for my regulars.

I had a short notice client today who on arrival at my flat asked me if I "do cum in mouth". I clearly state on my profile that this service is not available and I don't even offer owo! I told him no I don't do that and he told me that his "friend" told him I do offer this service and that I offer a number of other services including bareback!  I informed him his friend was a liar. He then decided to leave and told me for 150 I should offer CIM. I asked him why he didn't just ask me this on the phone instead of coming to my flat to ask me this question! I'm so annoyed as I hate clients knowing where I work/live especially if they are not even real clients. How easy would it have been to just ask me on the phone rather than trusting his stupid "friend"?
« Last Edit: 29 January 2015, 09:27:54 pm by lacey666 »

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #1 on: 29 January 2015, 09:48:33 pm »
Hi Lacey, he sounds like a tosser and we all get those in one way or another, I've had guys say 'Oh my friend said' I know I hate it when I've given my full address then they cancel at the last second, don't read too much into it and when you get some good clients he will be a distant memory, x
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MissFlint

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #2 on: 29 January 2015, 09:57:05 pm »
Thanks.. it is very annoying especially since he saw my flat. Perhaps he saw me and didn't like the look of me and it was just an excuse..but that's no excuse.

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #3 on: 29 January 2015, 11:00:04 pm »
Just a look and walk...go home for a wank by the sounds of it
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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #4 on: 30 January 2015, 08:09:50 am »
I have a persistent texter who sends texts saying' hey babe you available'.

Quite often recently I have been unwell.  He will just ignore this and say 'not even for a hand job?'.

I have refused him so many times he has such appalling manners I think I will just stop even replying.

How about him showing a few people skills and wishing I get well.  No such luck!

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #5 on: 30 January 2015, 08:36:56 am »
I do worry about this, especially when the place is your home too, but then as long as they left peacefully then it should be it. I am always of the meaning that people in London are just way too busy to become troublemakers. Its the style of living here, rat race or whatever you call it.

I must admit I have recently had two persistent tws phoning me. they phoned 3 times last year trying for a free phone chat etc. then all of a sudden they wanted to see me for an incall calling persistently, so I said sorry but my pimp/ security who guys is normally in the flat is off today so cant see you...;)

Also I declined at least 2 bookings, one guy rang wanting me for two hours but he had an attitude in his voice, there was something annerving so I first said yes and then texted him straight away so sorry my plans have changed last minute. I could do with the money but sometimes I am just not so sure about the way they sound, I would rather eat just stale bread than run any risks.

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #6 on: 30 January 2015, 11:14:19 am »
Don't worry darling.. I'm a bit fed up today also... Cancellations, TWs, No shows...

Luckily being a Mistress I have loyal regulars (thank god) But doesn't stop me from getting the January Blues

Sleep on it, tomorrow will be a better day xxx

Siorse

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #7 on: 30 January 2015, 11:57:21 am »
I was starting to think there's something seriously wrong with me, but it seems I'm not the only one that's suffering
from January (well, END of January, coz the first half was ok!) idiots, tw's, and quietness!
Not from lack of people viewing my profile and private gallery (although I've nothing to compare the amount of people
viewing my profile to coz I've never took notice before..), my private gallery's doing pretty well, keeping me in credits
anyway.
I've never before counted the amount of people viewing my profile on AW, but I did in the last 24 hrs lol, desperate or what!  :-[
Had a lovely regular this morning, but apart from that, phone hasn't rang once..  :(
As for persistent texting idiots, got a few of them, and a phoning one, who then texts when I don't answer; "Don't contact me x".
Don't worry, I wasn't gonna!  ::)
Bring on February and let it be better!!
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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #8 on: 30 January 2015, 11:59:10 am »
Lacey, it's easy to say don't take it to heart, but when things are quieter and money is lighter, it's not so easy to do.  It becomes very personal.

I think this guy believed he could push your boundaries, which is just downright nasty.  Some girls find it difficult to say no, but with twats like the one who visited you, we must learn to stand our ground.

His "friend" was probably the invisible man.

Keep your pecker and your standards up, spring will soon be here and the guys will have a spring in their step again too and be looking for bookings again.
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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #9 on: 30 January 2015, 12:07:18 pm »
I have a persistent texter who sends texts saying' hey babe you available'.

Quite often recently I have been unwell.  He will just ignore this and say 'not even for a hand job?'.

I have refused him so many times he has such appalling manners I think I will just stop even replying.

How about him showing a few people skills and wishing I get well.  No such luck!
we got to remember that some of the punters are somewhat retarded sexual dysfunctional beings with just one thing on their minds and its not treating us ok  therefore  our expectations of them as people should change.
they are clearly incapable of  understanding what reading a profile means.

Siorse

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #10 on: 30 January 2015, 12:08:17 pm »
Yeah spot on Lady_Lust, we've all had the "invisible friend", or the "invisible website" you're supposed to be on where
you offer all sorts you actually don't..
Lacey, it seems to be a bad week for a lot of us, don't worry, wait till the weather gets better and you'll be rushed off your
feet, which makes it so much more enjoyable!  ;)
Keep the faith! :-*
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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #11 on: 01 February 2015, 03:01:33 pm »
I really get peedoff with the text i sometime get from tw the what are you wearing and the are you horny

Gets to the stage i just no make booking or please stop texting and wasting my time


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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #12 on: 02 February 2015, 10:39:44 am »
I am MEGA down in the dumps today.. No one to rant with, want to cry... :FF

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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #13 on: 02 February 2015, 11:59:59 am »
I am MEGA down in the dumps today.. No one to rant with, want to cry... :FF


Me too. Would love a good rant! It's my birthday and my punter didn't even bother to show up this morning, no cancellation call or anything, my 5pm has canceled as well. Tossers are messaging me but no bookings, Im going to scream! It's going to be a day of time wasting, address seeking, little wankers, I can feel it in the air..... have gone back to bed to browse the net, cry and rant wildly about punters messing me about on my freaking birthday to my poor kitties (oh and yeah no hot water today as the boilers packed up. So I had a freaking ice shower before my punter failed to show.)
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Re: Fed up!
« Reply #14 on: 02 February 2015, 08:23:19 pm »
Aw bless you guys - rant and cry all you can - get it out there. I have been very quiet too. Just had a half hour booking, last minute at 7pm, wouldn't normally do it as watching emmerdale and eating nacho's but needed the dollar and I'm delighted - bit depressing really  ???
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