I'm sorry but i absolutly despise these sites where clients write "in depth" reviews on you. The things they sometimes put i find can be so degrading. I get reviews on my agency site and they're always brief and generally nice reviews but on this other site, they go so in depth and get too personal for my liking. So i had a booking last week one day, was in a really bad mood and bloated as hell cause i was due on the period. I felt bigger in myself tbf. So anyways, the client wasn't very talkative and there's only so much talking i can do plus he was the skinniest dweeb ever. So anyways, after getting down to it, he "kindly" tells me that he will be writing a review on said site. I was already thinking "great, just when i'm feeling not at my best and it probably showed on this one off occasion". So i've just found the review anyways and he gave me 64% out of 100 ffs. To me it's hit and miss with clients cause it depends whether you both click. I've had clients where you can tell they've had a fantastic time and have given me the reviews to show this.

Anyways, the thing which has upset me the most is the comments about my weight. I had an eating disorder for 4 years so found the comments hard to deal with/read. I'm currently a size 12, nothing more and i promis i am not one of these girls that's squeezes into sizes too small and i am a 36E bra. Well this fcking skinny wanker thought he'd say "she's definatly larger, not fat" ..."she has a bit of a tummy", "i don't think the pics of this lady portray a true size". Well thanks a lot twat, now all my old ED demons are boiling to the surface, this has totally sent me over the edge and i will be back to a restrictive diet tomorrow. I just find it so unfair and degrading that they're allowed to be so personal about you. 9 out of 10 of my clients love my figure. Totally fed up now, sorry to go on.   

Aww thanks for the reply Dani, really appreciate it  haha he was far from a hunk. Skinny, lanky and not good looking in the slightest. I'm just worried about this putting clients off of me now.

i think the problem is with the professional photos. men think if the picture is perfect then your body is perfect too.

i am a big woman, advertise as BIG yet some idiots say ive got a big belly and big bum. the photographer took pictures of me that i look stunning and took the photos in advantageous positions and special light so they are really nice. of course pro pictures dont show all my stretch marks lol but anybody with brain can figure out i dont have perfect body but its definitely me on the pictures i wouldnt mislead or use fake pics.

dont let it get to you i suppose you dont advertise yourself as *supermodel with perfect body washboard belly* so he has no right to complain its his problem he doesnt know what size 12 means not yours.

It doesn't matter WHAT you do, there will always be idiots! I am size 32, I advertise this, my photos show this, yes I am massive with huge tits, arse and belly, yet I have had men say "OMG, you ARE huge" as though I might have been lying on my site/profile...??!?

So SweetCheeks, just be as honest as you can in pics, profile, words and services offered, and know that you can't do any more than you already are. When you get the odd one in a 100 who wasn't quite happy enough to recommend you, put it down to chemistry, that you and him didn't quite click mentally....and move swiftly on to the next one!

At the end of the day as long as you are telling the truth about your size and your pictures reflect this then you have nothing to worry about.

What I can't stand is girls who lie about there age/size and especially their age as guys just assume we all lie and knock a few years off now and this is just NOT true!

Quote from: MissKylie on 25 August 2013, 11:16:02 pm

At the end of the day as long as you are telling the truth about your size and your pictures reflect this then you have nothing to worry about.

What I can't stand is girls who lie about there age/size and especially their age as guys just assume we all lie and knock a few years off now and this is just NOT true!

Hands up, I lie about my age, but only by a couple of years and I also lie in real life about my age too if I am out and see a nice guy. I don't look my age though so I can really pull it off 

xx

It's just that it means guys assume we all do it though which really annoys me that's all.

Do as Alisha suggested and write a response, if the website he's reviewed you on allows this. I've had comments about my size before, so I always point out that they still decided to hand over money and stay, so I can't have been that bad! It's got nothing to do with your looks, he's clearly disgruntled at the fact you both didn't 'click', which is not your fault, but rather than saying that in a review he's chosen to make silly remarks about your size being the reason he wasn't happy. If only some of these losers knew what effect their horrid words had on women. A lot of the time it's projection of their own insecurities though, and by criticising you he momentarily felt better about himself.

Please don't be sad, and certainly don't let your old eating disorder demons awaken. I hope you have a lovely hot client soon who tells you how amazing you are and reassures you that you're a beautiful kind and sexy person 

Totally agree with those who said think of the clients who do like you.

Also remember this "Never let others tell you what you should look like or how you should act, wether thats your size, how you dress, how you wear your hair or whatever else.

The critics/bullies can only get to you if you let them, show them your worth 1000000 of them.

Live your life for you, not for anyone else