So since I am on a roll today about things that make me uncomfortable or cringe I thought I'd ask this question too.....

When your with a client and say he's on top of you for example how do you feel when they ask you to look at them?

When it happens to me I wanna run away and hide lol. In real life I have no issues at all with eye contact weathers its general chit chat or weather its sex, In fact I would say I naturally give eye contact and find it strange if I am not getting it back when having a conversation with someone. When with a client I am fine with eye contact during a conversation also but when it comes to the sex I just cannot look at them.

I think my reason for not liking direct eye contact with them is cause it sort of bring me to the reality of what I am doing but I'm not entirely sure that's the reason for it.

I know some men love eye contact and as I say in real life with a partner I choose to be with I enjoy it too but when its work related its just a no-no.

I had a guy ask me this over and over last month and all the way through it he kept telling me how much he loved me, i'm not sure if he was having a moment of madness or if he does love me but either way I wont be seeing him again as every time I have met him he has got weirder and weirder.

Pffft lol I just cant do it. I don't mean giving them eye contact when giving oral, I can usually get away with not giving them eye contact cause Ive so much flippin hair lol its more when they are on top making sweet love to me (in their mind) and asking me to look into their eyes (just thinking about it is making me cringe) I think its particularly making me cringe cause I am thinking of the guy who kept telling me loved me as I gazed into his eyes, eeeeeeeeeeeek!!

Oh no I'm not gonna lie, it just aint for me. But then again ALOT of normal things make me cringe, Roleplay makes me cringe so bad too. I realise I am the weirdo here but seriously I am just a terrible actress and I have a broad Scottish accent so roleplaying with a Scottish accent sounds horrendous. If I had a nice English accent I think I could at least give it a try.

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Hahahaha I get brain freeze too but in every day life not just when dirty talking (I should be blonde) But really Roleplay/Dirty talk sounds horrendous with my accent.

I have a friend who got into porn (I wont say her name) and in all her movies she has a full on English accent, I said what is that all about and she said I'd never have been so successful in my career if I'd used my Scottish accent. I think she's absolutely right lol, Hate it when I hear Scottish people on Jeremy Kyle or something (Cringe) So for me dirty talk and roleplay just doesn't work and to get back to the OP neither does eye contact with a client (Gives me the creeps) lol.

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Ha, I'm just like you!

Eye contact makes me cringe, and I avoid roleplay because I'm sure I'd be crap at it. I'm not confident enough and not naturally a 'faker' lol, so wouldn't be able to pull it off convincingly.

I think eye contact just feels embarassing and awkward! If I have to do it, I let my eyes lose focus so their face just looks a blur.. makes it easier! It's just too intimate, like they want to pretend you're all loved up? Or they want you to give them the 'porn star' look to say you're really enjoying the (not so) hot'n'horny sex! Eek.

That's why I stick to GFE, I'll never be a porn star lol

OMG if I didn't know any better I'd think I wrote this lol, you sound EXACTLY like me and you knocked the nail on the head - INTIMATE!! That's my problem cause like I said I don't have these eye contact problems in real life with someone I choose to be with but with work its far too intimate for me aswell as cringey as hell.

Roleplay you just need to be a good actress and be confident I guess, I just cant do it lol.

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Oh I absolutely LOVE role-play..!! 
As for eye-contact, I'm ok with it, kinda depending on the client, most of the time I shut my eyes about 50% of
the time and open them the other 50% (obviously on and off..), but I find making conversation while having sex
a total passion-killer..
It's a bit like "oh did you her about mary fae round the corner, well she.. " if yous know what I mean.. 
Not very romantic/sexual etc..
I prefer some noises of enjoyment/appreciation etc, I love eye-contact while giving a bj though, and I think a lot of guys do too!

Lol I do the face-pulling thing as well when I know they can't see me, when their head's are buried somewhere between my
legs for example and they've no idea what they're doing 
I was doing it the other day and nearly burst out laughing, only just stopped myself..
Or I use the time to wipe away some eye make-up that's a bit smeared, all the while they think they're thinking they're
giving you the time of your life..   

If they ask I'll give them eye contact I find it very hard to do it with a dick in my mouth, I have to shrink my head back into my neck.

So since I am on a roll today about things that make me uncomfortable or cringe I thought I'd ask this question too.....

When your with a client and say he's on top of you for example how do you feel when they ask you to look at them?

When it happens to me I wanna run away and hide lol. In real life I have no issues at all with eye contact weathers its general chit chat or weather its sex, In fact I would say I naturally give eye contact and find it strange if I am not getting it back when having a conversation with someone. When with a client I am fine with eye contact during a conversation also but when it comes to the sex I just cannot look at them.

I think my reason for not liking direct eye contact with them is cause it sort of bring me to the reality of what I am doing but I'm not entirely sure that's the reason for it.

I know some men love eye contact and as I say in real life with a partner I choose to be with I enjoy it too but when its work related its just a no-no.

I had a guy ask me this over and over last month and all the way through it he kept telling me how much he loved me, i'm not sure if he was having a moment of madness or if he does love me but either way I wont be seeing him again as every time I have met him he has got weirder and weirder.

I think not wanting to make eye contact with a client is about keeping your core self protected. I know that sounds deep but, for me, these men are engaging in complete objectification and I don't want to give any more of myself than I already am. They get enough. I can't look in their eyes. They are not men who care so what you may find there wouldn't be nice to look at.