I always seem to get Clients whom I get too friendly with; what I mean is I let them know the Real Me rather than my Working Persona; I can't help it sometimes and then due to me becoming more & more 'like a real human being', (lol you know how some of 'em think we're from a different Planet?!👽👾) on our bookings I start finding it more & more difficult to be the Working me; I feel like I can't turn on my usual 'Sexually Confident Femme Fetale' character as they so obviously know its fake...
Anyway because of me suddenly 'losing' my Hustling abilities these type's of Clients suddenly genuinely view themselves as my Confidants, Friends, FWB for free, etc etc & then I end up losing the rag with them & giving them it tight via Verbally Abusive Texts or 'VATs' as I call them!!
I've lost a decent amount of Clients over the year's due to my Short-Temper or my extremely Short Stress Threshold!! I think I've got more chilled out with age, you've gotta let the stress go otherwise you'll be wound up like a Nun's Knickers & you'll take it out on the Clients....And Repeat business is what we're after! 💷
Basically I now tell a big whopping lie about my personal life but I still seem to get Men that are regular for so long & then all of a sudden they'll start expecting free time, then money off & eventually I don't see them again!! Wtf?!! I def get guy's with Emotional Attachment Issues; as in they wanna fuckin' attach to me permanently...Scary btw.
One client told me I was 'too friendly' & I just stared at him thinking 'he MUST be kidding sayin' that comment'!! and he was being Deadpan, I said 'Um, well its kinda MY JOB to be friendly, I'm meant to make Men feel good & being cold+unfriendly would defeat the whole point of GFE'....Honestly. No Words.