u r right I do not like to be slobbered on either, I have been doing this for a few years now, and love to chat and slow gfe
but sometimes the guys want to get in and out , I dont mind that , but then they think u r a piece of meat which I hate

Quote from: English Mature Nicky on 24 May 2013, 02:34:33 pm

u r right I do not like to be slobbered on either, I have been doing this for a few years now, and love to chat and slow gfe
but sometimes the guys want to get in and out , I dont mind that , but then they think u r a piece of meat which I hate

Im exactly the same.  Although I see bookings as the business transaction they are, I think that guys who pounce on us and slobber all over us the minute they walk in the door are really treating us like a piece of meat that could be anybody. 

Puts my hackles up and good and proper.  I really prefer the slow sensual pampering times. (Both ways of course).

What you say is true BUT what I am saying is I don't entertain these men, I try to avoid them at all costs and on the odd occasion someone manages to pass my vetting process and treats me like this, it makes my skin crawl and I block them from any future bookings.

Believe me there are many, many decent men out there who book escorts and DO NOT treat them like slabs of meat so I just stick to those clients.

Have said it before and I will say it again people will only treat you how you allow them to. The sex industry doesn't have to be a deep, dark hell hole. I'd go mad if I let men treat me in a way I didn't agree with or what made me uncomfortable/upset.

Of course its each to their own as to what they think is acceptable or what they are comfortable in but I think if you think that just cause your a prostitute then its ok and acceptable behaviour to be creeped on and disrespected then you've fallen into the mind set of some of these men. Being a creep is never cool not even in the world of paid sex!! But that's just my opinion, millions may disagree.

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Yeah I get what you mean babes, I guess we're just all different. I obviously welcome horny men too as they are all horny, right? I just prefer the ones to take it easy rather than straight away it just doesn't work for me. I've tried telling myself in my own head just try and relax it will all be over soon but it just doesn't work, my head is saying one thing but my body/body language is doing another. Maybe with more experience in the industry I will learn to deal with it or just keep avoiding these guys, so far avoiding them hasn't caused me any problems in relation to how much money I earn.

  

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