I used to suffer a lot from this, now I just avoid stubbly guys, they just aint worth the bother.

Maybe some sort of aloe vera will help, with me I tried everything and it was a nightmare.  I never found anything worthwhile so simpy stopped.

For me Dettol antiseptic cream does the trick gosh I can't stand stubble it feels terrible and the end result on you is worse.

I've just got it on my chin after long kissing session.It's sore and it looks like I'll get a scab again
What's the best way to get rid of it?

I wish I knew as I have a large one on my lip, it literally tore the skin off so now cannot work until it has completely cleared up.  It bloody hurts as well and everytime I move my mouth it opens up.  I did ask the chemist after explaining for the 30th time it was not a cold sore as he kept trying to get me to buy coldsore cream. 
I aksed about sudocreme but was told I need something to dry it up as shaving rash tends to be a wet sore, so I am now using witch hazel and OMG it stings

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Foreign affairs - my man has that kind of stubble that can wreck your face, even if he has just shaved, making sure my face is moisturised helps massively as it does not chaff, your skin slides as such. i am in the sudeocrem camp for any issues after, that stuff is magic.

Dani - That confuses me a little, even though it seems half logical. I normally have a few weeks a year where the wind gets to my lips and I get bad chapped lips. I then have this rough habit of absent-mindedly chewing the little flaky buts when concentration on something. Well this year i was absent-mindedly chewing away and I pulled a massive layer of skin off, it was raw and to the extent that eating was not worth the bother. Went into boots to the pharmacy and the lady took me around to the Chapsticks and suggested the blue one which is medicated and about ?1. Needless to say I thought it would be useless but tried it anyway. After days of it getting worse and worse, within 24 hours of using it every time it dispersed, it was fine, a little red looking, but fine. if the witch hazel is painful maybe try the medicated blue chapstick (kinda of bluey aqua packaging).

If someone has harsh, rough stubble I will explain I can't kiss them as hard or intensely. It's also important to let a client know if he's pushing stubble into you during oral, they are usually very understanding when I explain it's like having your bits sandpapered.

Give bepanthen a try its good for rashes plus it lets the skin breathe apparently lol. Works for me x

yes sudocream , I try not to kiss guys with stubble as I get rashes all the time ,
I am allergic to them